2021-05-19 03:31:10
As long as you're sexually happy, that's all that matters. Share your experiences with your partner more often.111643

2021-05-19 09:03:35
Wow, sex culture!111643

2021-05-19 10:46:13
This article is from Adaro [Going to the Deeper Silent Depths], November 3, 2010, author: Liu Yu (This part of the article was deleted by the reviewer).111643

2021-05-20 15:02:24
@Ageless Couple, Liu Yu's views are somewhat similar to those of Hanlin, as described by Lin Yutang. People who have read a lot of books tend to think this way. Love has varying degrees, everyone knows that. "The relationship between men and women is a fundamental human obligation"—if Confucius didn't say this, who would?111643

2021-05-21 10:43:38
@Pangu is here: "...Distinguish between crush and love: crush is a brief and sudden infatuation, while love is the communication and dependence between two hearts after knowing each other well."111643

2021-05-24 09:18:55
@Ageless Couple, your description is very realistic, but your thoughts are complex. For example, familiarity breeds contempt, and even the most delicious food becomes tiresome if eaten every day. I mean, if people viewed sex like playing chess, playing ball, dancing, or having a meal together, their opinions on many things might be completely different.111643

2021-05-24 11:52:25
@PanguIsHere, yes, that's exactly how I define sex in the separation of sex and love. It distinguishes between sexual partners and lovers, rather than separating sex from essential emotions like attraction or liking. For example, liking food doesn't necessarily mean becoming a professional chef; liking alcohol doesn't immediately make you a professional sommelier. Because liking itself isn't love; it's merely a prerequisite for love and sex. As the saying goes: liking is indulgence, love is restraint.111643

2021-05-24 17:53:26
@Ageless Couples, fleeting, sudden infatuation can bring surprises and passion, while deep, well-informed love can lead to complacency. As the saying goes, lovers are for playing around with, wives are for loving.111643

2021-05-24 22:05:45
@Pangu is here, that's right, so sex and love should be separated.111643

2021-09-08 15:46:46
I'm located in Suzhou, would you guys like to come visit?111643

2021-09-10 13:34:03
Minhang couple111643

2021-09-17 14:32:01
insightful111643
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