但愿能挽回

2017-05-03 06:01:02

Stop playing around. She's already in a committed relationship outside. Otherwise, she wouldn't have been arguing with you for a year. She's hiding something from you. Come back to reality. Otherwise, you won't be able to save your family. Otherwise, you can only let her be for now and wait until she's had enough of playing around outside. You can't control her heart now.

但愿能挽回

2017-05-03 06:05:26

Now all you have to do is be patient. You sowed the seeds; the outcome depends on how calm and rational you are. Otherwise, you two will part ways.

sense10101

2017-05-03 16:20:11

It depends on several factors. First, if you and your wife have a harmonious sex life, and she experiences a decrease in stimulation after trying other men, she might still want to return to family life. Second, the low social standing of your friends could also be a reason. Even if you only talk about sex, the lack of romance during sexual activity can diminish interest. Third, your actions, such as looking at her phone, might make her feel insecure. Women are always wary of their husbands, even if you think you're doing everything right. Deep down, women always have a fear of being abandoned; it's a woman's instinct.

姚先生520

2017-05-03 22:34:08

Thank you everyone for your suggestions.

cwlp

2017-05-04 19:12:37

10101: Your analysis is very insightful.

ydf

2017-05-18 16:19:04

Point 10101 makes a lot of sense. I gave my wife's QQ number to a friend online. He tried to add her several times, but she didn't accept. Eventually, I added her using her phone. I encouraged her to chat. For the first two days, she showed me the chat history. But after two days, she wouldn't show it to me anymore and deleted it, saying they hadn't chatted at all.

fastfreeze

2017-07-19 08:13:49

After the climax comes emptiness, and it gets boring after a while. Besides, women are emotional beings, and some things won't work from a man's perspective. Personally, I feel that sex is just a side effect; feelings or shared interests are the essence.

fastfreeze

2017-07-19 08:14:51

Pure sex can easily become boring; it's best to add some flirting, BDSM, or something similar.