2018-03-16 21:28:40

Choose a special place, and have the three of you explain your perspective on the relationship between them.

2018-03-17 02:06:21

Many people are in similar situations to mine. My approach is to first have the wife explain to him that the husband knows about their affair. Then, we can decide what to do based on the circumstances.

gzbozy

2018-03-17 11:17:19

Just let your wife talk to her.

ai12345

2018-03-17 15:21:10

Even without prior communication, you can still claim to be a friend. You'll definitely have to handle this; if anything happens, you'll have to smooth things over. Besides, you're not a celebrity. Just be careful with your wife; it's not like it happens every day. It shouldn't be a big problem.

大海的乐园

2018-03-17 17:49:20

Thank you to the four friends who gave their suggestions!

美好一年

2018-03-18 23:44:39

It's best to find a place further away, not in a small county where you know too many people.

爬墙

2018-03-19 13:57:30

Time will tell. Let's see how things go first. After all, we live in the same place, and things could easily get awkward.

两只蝴蝶

2018-03-20 08:05:19

I found all of my wife's lovers for her, and we're friends too!

踏雪寻红

2018-03-20 22:47:18

Don't do anything deliberately. Talk to your wife first; she'll handle it well. I've already had meals and drinks with three of my wife's lovers, all from the same county.

大海的乐园

2018-03-22 09:35:43

Thank you for your suggestions, everyone.

我妻是教师

2018-03-25 02:26:20

You should tell your wife that you like her having male friends and hope you can get along well with them.

q3067

2018-03-26 23:59:07

Let's be open-minded. My wife's ex-boyfriend has been staying at my house these past few days. He's been coming and going from the neighborhood, hugging and kissing my wife. I just love it when the neighbors and acquaintances know I've been cheated on. Someone asked me about it, and I told them it was my wife's ex-boyfriend.

09753色色

2018-05-03 03:30:17

My uncle and I have been taking turns sleeping with each other's wives for over four years. As long as the four of us cooperate well and keep quiet, there are no problems. But now, after a while, the novelty and excitement have worn off. We need to find another way.

南昌优秀夫妻

2018-05-05 16:19:16

Choosing a lover who keeps secrets is especially important.

大海的乐园

2018-05-13 12:58:23

My wife's lover is ten years older than her, a seasoned veteran, and very secretive... I'm a little worried, afraid my wife might get hurt.

幸福与共

2018-11-11 14:46:38

It would be best if your wife could choose an appropriate time to communicate with him, gradually getting you two to know each other and become friends. Ideally, you should also help your wife assess his character, as good character is an essential condition for a long-term relationship!

嘉兴夫妻换

2019-03-04 09:43:05

It is indeed a difficult matter to handle. The key is to have a good understanding of the other party's character.

有你最好

2019-03-08 07:29:27

I understand you. I'm also from Nanchang, and I've been there! If all three of them have political integrity, they can have sex for a lifetime, and all three of them will be happy!