2018-04-27 08:48:42

You've been bewitched! Your wife's family has a powerful figure! They're preventing you from cheating.

2018-04-27 18:17:35

I don't think it's because I'm under a spell, but rather because I'm too excited, have poor mental fortitude, or maybe I'm just not used to this and can't adapt to it suddenly.

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2018-04-27 18:18:30

nthazgf: You said you've had that too, how many times did it take you to recover?

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2018-04-27 18:23:50

The upright red pine: Actually, it's not that I'm tired of it. Every time I'm with my wife, I feel great. My wife's skin is also very nice. Every time I touch it, it's still elastic. Also, every time I'm with my wife, it feels very natural. It's just that I can't do it with other women.

ai12345

2018-04-27 22:52:27

Psychological problems

一生云淡风轻

2018-04-28 06:28:17

It might happen once in a while, perhaps due to a lack of concentration or something too stimulating, which could have the opposite effect. As long as your sex life returns to normal, it's fine.

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2018-04-28 10:02:25

@ai12345 Have you ever been like this? We can exchange ideas and learn from each other.

adnilyl

2018-04-28 23:32:02

Don't worry too much. I think the main reasons are as follows, though I'm not sure if I'm right: 1. You haven't been with other people often enough, so you're not completely open and a little nervous; 2. You only experience true pleasure when the feelings are deep, and men's lovemaking also needs an emotional foundation; when men are around 20 and full of energy, they can be less particular, but after 30, they'll more or less be more selective. 3. You could try a different approach, like having a group activity, starting with other people, to gradually reduce your nervousness.

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2018-04-29 14:12:23

@adnilyl Wu Jiafu, yes, what you said makes a lot of sense, it's almost exactly what happened to me. Have you ever experienced anything like this?

力拓矿

2018-04-30 19:47:54

I was just too excited, it'll get better with time.

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2018-04-30 20:01:01

@Rio Tinto Minerals, are you saying you'll get used to it?

adnilyl

2018-04-30 21:07:48

Sorry, I haven't experienced this situation before, but I understand it.

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2018-04-30 23:04:12

adnilyl: Yes, thank you.

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2018-05-02 20:50:16

@Xiangnansuren Thank you for your encouragement.

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2018-05-03 10:41:15

@IronFanMg Okay, I'll try it again next time I have the chance. Thanks. Have you ever had a similar experience?

sense10101

2018-05-03 17:21:11

Psychological problems, especially those that have been wrong once, are hard to recover from. The best way is to take a pill, not for any other reason than psychological comfort. After having fun, you won't need the pill anymore.

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2018-05-03 22:54:48

Thank you everyone, you're all absolutely right. If a similar situation occurs again, I'll take a pill beforehand.

盛世长安

2018-05-04 06:16:27

I agree with the comment on the 10th floor. I've had similar experiences. Sometimes men also need genuine feelings to complete a task.

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2018-05-04 11:49:22

@盛世长安 We're both playing the emotional card. We're also both slow-to-warm-up types.

yan6666

2018-05-05 00:09:01

When I went to Thailand or was with others, I experienced the same thing: I stayed away for a long time, or I calmed down. It might be related to my age. The same thing happened when I was at home with nothing to do. Contact me if you have a chance.

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2018-05-05 02:15:47

@yan6666 My level is too low to add you, but you can add me.

青云222

2018-05-08 18:08:55

OP: Me too. I don't know why, but I can get hard at home and it takes a lot of time, but I just can't get hard with other people.

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2018-05-09 01:51:05

@青云222, maybe we're too focused on our wives. Well, that's good, then our wives won't worry about us going out to play. If we can add each other as friends, we can communicate and exchange ideas.

sexy_lover

2018-05-12 22:44:45

You could try the Indian miracle drug, Shuangxi.

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2018-05-14 23:43:08

@sexy_lover What is the main function of this?

lianhuyan

2018-07-05 01:16:00

I'm just like you; I get along very quickly with strangers. Maybe it's because of nervousness! Things are fine with my wife! It's due to personality differences and other factors!

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2018-07-08 14:06:49

Yes

RENSH

2018-08-01 22:57:33

How can I contact you?

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2018-08-06 12:36:37

Add me.