情深缘浅11
2020-04-24 22:39:25
This is a process, it takes time and varying lengths. You need to persuade them gradually; it can't be accomplished overnight.109170

若如初见啊
2020-04-25 00:19:20
I'm in Qidong, are you in Qidong too?109170

盐城单男989
2020-04-25 00:34:32
It needs to be done step by step.109170

薄荷味的
2020-04-25 03:28:38
Swapping should be easier than a threesome, right? If you keep at it, you'll see results. My wife's situation is similar to yours, but we have a breakthrough. She had some experience with men when she was in school, so she has a foundation. Now she's hooking up with her ex-boyfriend. Once she gets together with him, a threesome or swapping should be much easier. We've been working on this for a long time, and I've never thought of giving up. My wife understands my cuckoldry fetish; although she doesn't agree to actually doing it, she's very open about taking photos and videos of us having sex. The key is persistence.109170

飞扬的天下
2020-04-25 03:52:07
It seems your wife is the type who values relationships a lot. You could try finding someone and starting with building a relationship; that way, she'll be more likely to accept you.109170

来到啦
2020-04-25 06:50:25
I think we should find a capable guy, get her to drink some alcohol, and then have her climax.109170

同乐ddddddd
2020-04-25 08:30:46
Are you quite busy?109170

myheart
2020-04-25 09:15:18
Yes, that's right @Ruoruchujian109170

myheart
2020-04-25 09:17:19
That's probably it. My wife has high standards, and the key is to find someone she likes. It's difficult. @KXJH9026109170

myheart
2020-04-25 09:51:03
We're together every day, but our social circle is small. She sells fashion, and this one really doesn't exist. @69lyygb109170

myheart
2020-04-25 09:54:09
@MintyShe definitely wouldn't stand to see me with other women, and my interests have never been other women. My wife only has me as her man; we've been together since our student days, and she hasn't had any ex-boyfriends. She's willing to take photos, but not videos.109170

myheart
2020-04-25 09:57:05
@FlyingWorld I think so too, but finding someone reliable, someone you can develop feelings for, and someone who also fits your wife's aesthetic is just too difficult. Most of them are very scheming and don't have the energy to work together with me.109170

myheart
2020-04-25 09:59:46
@HereI believe that no real couple would use this method. I want my wife's own wishes. If she's not willing, I'd rather never step out of the house again.109170

myheart
2020-04-25 10:03:00
@同乐ddddddd It's quite busy. My wife sells fashion items, and after work, she also takes care of the kids' studies. She always has ideas, but her attitude is always ambiguous. She's not very willing to communicate with me, saying she can't find anything she likes. Maybe she just doesn't want to give me any excuses.109170

若如初见啊
2020-04-25 12:22:10
@myheart Since we're all in the same place, why not chat and see how things go? He's well-mannered, good-looking, and tall.109170

xiaolang888
2020-04-25 15:33:31
The original poster and I are in similar situations, almost exactly the same, haha! I don't know how to proceed to the next step either, let alone what she's really thinking.109170

myheart
2020-04-25 18:13:06
You can add me as a friend to discuss this further, but my account permissions are too low to add you directly. @xiaolang888109170

bxl197900
2020-04-25 20:19:21
A breakthrough is needed. Once that's achieved, no woman can resist the pleasure of a threesome. The first time is crucial.109170

飞扬的天下
2020-04-26 04:24:16
@myheart I'd be willing to give it a try, because I really like this approach and don't like things that are too goal-oriented. However, I'm a single man.109170

myheart
2020-04-27 09:07:47
Let's put it aside for now and try again when we have the chance. This is just a bit of fun in life; if it works out, great; if not, so be it. @FeelingLove109170

myheart
2020-04-27 09:08:33
@ohnnoh Add me on QQ, let's explore together.109170

myheart
2020-04-27 23:09:03
@WildWolfToolsAreSoHeavy She's still quite traditional; I'm usually the one who initiates! But she has shown interest in trying it out. Tonight I seriously asked her about it, and she said she wanted to experience it, but she's also afraid. She said men all like big breasts, and she's afraid others will dislike her small breasts. She's also worried about safety, exposure, and being filmed or photographed. Actually, my wife's breasts are a bit small, but she's very pretty. Flat-chested women often have good faces, haha. Aside from her small breasts, her figure and appearance are flawless. She has a slim waist and a petite, mature woman's look. She also sells women's clothing! I feel my wife is completely potential for development; she just lacks a suitable partner, haha. Finally, thanks for your reply, brother, it's really helpful!109170

myheart
2020-04-27 23:14:35
@WildWolfToolsIsSoHeavy I've met quite a few single men, but I always end up with unreliable ones or ones my wife isn't interested in. These single men seem to like my wife's photos. My wife has even met two single men with me, but one time their intentions were too obvious and scared her away, and the other time they were too young, which she didn't like, saying she just couldn't find the right feeling. Neither relationship worked out, and it all ended badly. I'm so frustrated. It feels so hard to find a suitable single man now. The internet is a mixed bag, hard to discern, and in real life, there's almost no chance. It's so difficult!109170

hi.canada
2020-05-02 00:24:30
Having small breasts is fine, and not everyone likes big breasts; a nice shape is all that matters. The most important thing is to help her gradually build confidence. Your wife is probably still conservative and cautious, afraid of things going wrong. Take it slow. Once she meets the right person and gets to know them, her concerns should dissipate, and things should improve. It's something that can't be forced; don't rush it.109170

www888999
2020-05-03 08:48:22
She hasn't met anyone she likes.109170

不想给你们知道
2020-08-15 13:49:52
Hey bro, we're about the same age and have similar interests. I'm also from Nantong, Tongzhou District. If you have time, take your wife to the city center, get a hotel room, don't go home that night, just the two of you have a few drinks, maybe meet up with some students from around the university. There's still hope!109170

sz品味生活
2020-09-09 04:09:45
We're really just looking for excitement, so we don't want to do anything our wives don't want. It's hard to find a suitable single man here. To find one, you need to get to know them gradually over time to assess their character and quality. If you find someone unsuitable, it's better not to look at all. We just want to find a partner, someone we'll sleep with without changing partners. That's safer, and it's responsible to ourselves and our wives. Once we stop changing partners, we'll leave everything to fate and let nature take its course!109170

myheart
2020-09-11 00:21:47
Where @sz Taste Life109170

sz品味生活
2021-03-08 07:12:19
@myheart Suzhou109170

南通3p
2021-05-28 09:43:46
Brother, I'm from Nantong.109170

南通3p
2021-05-28 09:43:57
Can I try?109170

梦之兰
2021-06-22 22:57:38
Seeing so many like-minded people offering suggestions, I can feel everyone's sincerity, and I've learned a lot. Would it be easier to accept starting with a heterosexual spa? @myhart109170
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