show1991

2022-03-17 03:52:17

It's like eating out. If you're full after eating out, you don't want to eat anything when you get home. But if you're full after eating at home, you might want to eat something else when you go out.

色老头

2022-03-17 03:54:56

Like my wife, I am sexually frigid.

无规矩不成方圆

2022-03-17 05:59:53

Is it a son? Is the child in the family particularly mischievous? Is he/she below third grade? Women of this age have to worry about housework, especially helping their children with their studies and homework. Some children write slowly and don't understand the structure of characters well. Some teachers assign a lot of homework—Chinese, math, and English—plus weekend tutoring, leaving children to stay up late and no time for adults. Sometimes there are elderly relatives who are unwell, and sometimes siblings also require attention or concern. All these real-life troubles make middle-aged people feel tired and frustrated, especially women, who may even lack desire and the mood for intimacy. Even when men are exhausted, sometimes a surge of desire can lead to an erection and a few minutes of pleasure, but it's different for women. The solution is to spend more time with her, take on more responsibility, help her with more housework, and when you have free time, talk to her, share your feelings, and naturally, the couple will be able to enjoy intimacy and sexual bliss!

无规矩不成方圆

2022-03-17 06:03:18

I've met many wealthy women, and during massages, we often share our innermost thoughts, especially how family matters affect a woman's mood and mindset. Therefore, I have a relatively better understanding of women. I hope my advice is helpful to you, and I wish you a harmonious and happy family!

紫维尼

2022-03-17 07:18:58

Low libido is difficult to manage. Either the relationship is bad, or it's something to avoid.

wxd102

2022-03-17 07:42:56

Someone is here.

好时节

2022-03-17 08:14:36

Same

楚门先生

2022-03-17 08:40:07

It's possible I have some gynecological problem; I'm always uncomfortable down there, so I don't want to have sex.

whpl在路上

2022-03-17 08:56:23

She just doesn't want to have sex with you.

南昌优秀夫妻

2022-03-17 09:04:40

Endocrine disorders

广州单男求3P

2022-03-17 13:28:30

@No rules, no order. My child isn't in school yet, and is a bit mischievous, but my wife doesn't have to do any housework; my mother-in-law does it.

广州单男求3P

2022-03-17 13:29:23

@wxd102 Is there any way to confirm if someone is available?

南方无题

2022-03-18 13:14:28

Either he's sexually frigid, or he's having an affair.

今天绿了吗

2022-03-18 19:06:49

Let me ask you this: before you married your wife, had any other men been with her? If you were her first man, is your wife a conservative or a flirtatious woman? If you were also her first man, and she is a relatively conservative woman, and you have never taken her to meet single men or couples, I can say there's a 90% chance your wife wouldn't seek out other men. If you've been trying to persuade your wife to find someone to sleep with, and she's always refused, then I can say there's a 100% chance your wife wouldn't have someone else. Aside from that, the only other possibility is that there are too many琐碎事 (trivial matters) in the family, and she's genuinely very tired every day. If the family isn't wealthy and is constantly worried about money, how could she possibly be interested in sex? She's already exhausted every day. If you put pressure on her then, she'll have no energy, strength, or mood left. How can she possibly have any desire? Try to help her lighten her load, and talk to her more in bed at night. Talk to her often, especially if she has any unresolved issues. Be there for her, share your honest thoughts, and help her resolve them. Once she's less mentally and physically exhausted, she'll gradually regain her previous state and libido. My wife was similar to what you described, and that's how I gradually helped her change back. Women crave understanding and care; they are emotional beings. So, talk to her more in bed, let her share her feelings and thoughts. Find a way to heal your relationship, and she'll become dependent on you and willing to do anything for you.

广州单男求3P

2022-03-19 00:46:26

@DidIsSheGreenToday? I'm not her first love. She doesn't do much housework; she just takes care of the child, who is 2 years old.

andyone12

2022-03-20 21:18:29

I had the same experience. It must be a problem with my wife's sexual function: she is sexually frigid and there is no passion between us!

小农村孩儿True

2022-03-23 18:32:55

A woman's libido needs the combined efforts of four aspects to maintain its highest level: 1. Not disliking the man: If a woman is tired of a man, she naturally won't have any desire. 2. Sufficient sleep: There's a saying that a woman's libido comes from sleep. Getting enough sleep is very good for women. Take on more childcare responsibilities so she can get more sleep. If she's in bed playing on her phone instead of sleeping, confiscate her phone. 3. Moderate exercise: Moderate exercise, including both aerobic and anaerobic exercise, is important. Women often feel tired from taking care of children and cleaning the house, but this fatigue is due to insufficient exercise, not true exhaustion. Appropriate exercise helps women rest better and enhances their libido. 4. Frequent sexual activity: A woman's libido is both ignited by sleep and by penetration. When she experiences orgasm or pleasure from frequent penile penetration, she finds it hard to refuse sex. If she only gets penetration once a year, it's no wonder she's frigid. Penetrate more, more, more! If she doesn't let you, then read the article again. Find your own solution.

广州单男求3P

2022-03-24 01:57:54

@True from a rural village, could you add me and give me some pointers?

whpl在路上

2022-03-25 07:59:05

If you're not hungry, you naturally won't want to.

妞想了

2022-03-25 08:44:35

I just got tired of it and it wasn't exciting anymore. I lost focus during sex and gradually didn't want to do it anymore.

武松今夜不打虎

2022-04-06 17:53:43

My wife and I are both exhausted, so don't overthink it.

woyaoganni22

2022-04-23 23:39:33

If you don't eat it for a long time, you'll forget what it tastes like and stop wanting it. But if you take your time and put in the effort to get the feeling back, you'll crave it more and more.

宁互欢

2022-04-24 00:46:58

My wife also doesn't want to have sex even after a month without it.

最后一根火柴

2022-04-24 01:16:42

Like my wife, she says once a month is enough. I feel like we've only had sex once between December last year and April 9th this year, while I've masturbated several times myself. She's 33 years old this year, and she's away from home for more than 20 days a month, then rushes off again after a couple of days. Sometimes, she even has to go on a business trip right after she gets home. She owns a small company, and she's the legal representative, carrying the entire company on her shoulders. The thing is, I don't understand the business, so it's really tough on her. I suggested she find a man, but she said she couldn't. She said, "If I did that, how would I face people? What would others think of me? They would look down on me." A few people have called her late at night after work to ask her to come over to discuss things, but she always refuses, saying it's too late to talk about it tomorrow. She's the one who told me all this. At first, I was a little suspicious, so I installed a GPS tracker in my car. It's been over a year, and I haven't found anything. Later, I didn't want to ask anymore. I told her directly: "If you like him, I won't object. It's a physiological need, it's human nature." She said: "I don't need that. I don't want you to be thinking about those things all the time. Is it because of the pressure? You're over 30 and you don't need a man anymore?"

狂草1314

2022-05-29 01:14:05

My wife has the same problem, and it's been going on for years without a solution.

华56066

2023-07-26 14:23:01

Normally, it's just an endocrine imbalance, which can be quickly regulated with traditional Chinese medicine.