深圳夫妻

2013-01-28 00:21:31

That makes sense.

y119118

2013-01-28 00:59:31

That's very well said, I'll give it a thumbs up.

e时代

2013-01-28 02:16:33

Excuse me, could you please explain what you mean by "appearance mismatch"? Please advise.

进哥哥2013

2013-01-28 09:15:22

A good summary

爱生活爱69

2013-01-28 11:03:32

Pointing out the problem incisively

绽放在最深处

2013-01-28 15:55:37

That hits the nail on the head, I agree, thumbs up!

fmn

2013-01-28 16:53:19

Foolish is right

苍狼GG

2013-01-29 10:33:07

Thumbs up

abc107

2013-01-29 17:26:46

The original poster's points are very valid. Based on my own experience: the key to success is whether you can convince your wife. Women usually won't sleep with a man they don't like; in other words, it's about love before sex.

情感兔子

2013-01-29 18:19:03

That's a classic! Master!

max69cn2013

2013-01-29 20:33:08

That makes perfect sense!

max69cn2013

2013-01-29 20:34:07

Another issue is a lack of confidence; being too picky also makes progress difficult!

独食不胖

2013-01-29 21:30:32

Tell the truth

此情只可成追忆

2013-01-29 21:50:51

That makes sense, I agree.

天空一抹淡蓝

2013-01-30 09:26:30

Classic, but a bit formulaic, sorry. We're not keen on video calls; we prefer a more relaxed, informal approach, like a gathering, to deepen our conversations. Human communication allows us to let down our guard, downplay appearances, and be candid about details. Whether it's a success or not, consider it experience; the higher the threshold, the greater the disappointment!

好人abc

2013-01-30 10:15:24

That makes sense.

久矣的憧憬

2013-01-30 21:17:00

Yes

ZCYAABB

2013-01-31 07:02:52

My hometown is Suizhou, but I live in Wuhan now. I often go back to Suizhou.

ZCYAABB

2013-02-01 11:08:59

Are you in Suizhou?

越夜。越精彩

2013-02-22 23:18:18

That's an excellent analysis.

美好生活518

2013-03-10 16:16:22

It's difficult

南征北战

2013-05-11 07:32:39

I'm originally from Wuhan, but now I live in Beijing. I hope we'll meet again someday.

8964猛男

2013-05-26 21:28:30

The analysis is insightful and thorough. Let's start with communication, and then things will naturally fall into place!

诚诚二人

2013-06-03 12:57:25

Well said, add me to chat.

地上毛茸茸

2013-06-04 01:34:27

Absolutely right, I feel the same way. A kindred spirit indeed!

fzdx678

2013-06-07 20:23:49

The analysis is insightful and well-reasoned; you truly understand my perspective.

荆州夫妻262

2013-11-13 23:41:33

We should become friends first. Once we're familiar with each other, even if the photo isn't entirely satisfactory, it's acceptable.

80eryue

2013-12-02 15:24:04

Well said, especially the first point, which is a common problem.

蓝唇之吻

2013-12-22 20:48:58

Sex knows no distance.

深圳恒大

2014-03-15 02:12:39

Bro, what you said makes a lot of sense, but the photo doesn't look like your wife, right? It might just be an ID photo. Forgive me.

保定夫妻39

2014-05-10 01:19:38

There's a fourth point. We once met a couple, and the woman was absolutely bizarre. I'm considered pretty good-looking, right? But the reason she rejected me was that I looked a bit like Wang Leehom, and she didn't like Wang Leehom or Shawn Yue, so she didn't like me either... I should really thank her, because I'm nowhere near as handsome as her!