mdjcold

2013-06-28 19:50:29

Should be considered

haoselang18

2013-06-28 20:07:46

Absolutely right!

coffeebreaker

2013-06-28 20:11:27

That makes sense. I bet most of the people they bring home are either fabricated or people without a formal job or social standing.

hi.canada

2013-06-28 20:18:18

I recall a saying that goes something like this: the world you see reflects who you are. I once visited two couples; both were wonderful people, extremely well-mannered, highly educated, articulate, and had respectable jobs. There are always higher heavens and greater mountains beyond mountains; seeing only one leaf doesn't mean you see the whole forest. Just my humble opinion.

fengpiaoxue

2013-06-28 20:50:31

Your thoughts make me very angry. At the very least, you weren't sincere. A good conversation requires openness and honesty to exchange ideas. If you're afraid of this or that, then don't exchange ideas. What's the point of hiding your true feelings?

jsczwjl2012

2013-06-28 21:10:14

One should always be wary of others.

老窖1969

2013-06-28 21:26:07

Yes, I agree with this suggestion.

kylaser_marco

2013-06-29 01:26:39

You should protect yourself, that's what you need to do. I strongly recommend...

再爱一次

2013-06-29 08:31:37

Excellent advice: One should not have the intention to harm others, but one must be wary of others.

灵动的心

2013-06-29 11:16:59

This suggestion is very reasonable.

欲望。

2013-06-29 15:37:31

Those who disagree are probably just rude single men.

宝贝的宝贝

2013-06-29 18:10:53

As the saying goes, "One should always be wary of others"... This has absolutely nothing to do with sincerity! If everyone were as sincere as the person upstairs suggested... the world would be harmonious long ago.

jack123123

2013-06-30 01:26:31

This is definitely something we need to consider!

华少520

2013-06-30 02:40:49

It's always better to be careful. It's important for everyone to be happy, but we must also take good care of ourselves to ensure a safe journey.

相约玫瑰丛中

2013-06-30 08:47:52

What we see as a demon is because we ourselves harbor demonic thoughts; what we perceive as a flower is because we ourselves perceive a flower. Such absolute explanations and emphasis are not objective. However, it is advisable to understand the other party better and to maintain a certain level of vigilance—this should be done before any attempt at understanding.

夜色醉人

2013-06-30 09:22:03

I agree. If a couple invited me to a hotel for a threesome, I really wouldn't dare go.

夕阳的余辉

2013-06-30 09:27:17

You can guard against honest people, but you can't guard against scoundrels.

流星流星

2013-06-30 12:49:41

Sincerity and self-preservation are indeed somewhat contradictory!

艾草1

2013-06-30 21:37:38

While this statement seems fair on the surface, it actually reflects a problem: the original poster is somewhat sleazy. This feeling is especially strong after reading your advice. You lack even the most basic sincerity and respect. If you have this kind of mentality, why bother getting involved in this mess? Wouldn't it be safer to just stay out? It seems you're exactly the kind of uncultured single man that "desire" describes. Just imagine, with your mindset, trying to meet up with a genuinely sincere couple—isn't that a bit too despicable? (Sorry, I'm just saying what I think, please don't take offense.)

北京的秋天

2013-07-01 09:57:43

Question 1: If your family tells you to be careful while driving, does that mean they secretly hope you get into a car accident? Sincerity and self-protection aren't contradictory. In everyday interactions, many aspects are transparent, but sex is private. However, in the context of friendships, it's the opposite; this friend may not be that friend, so keep a clear head. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater; manage your own emotions.

涅磐男女

2013-07-01 16:43:56

Don't give up just because you can't swallow your food! My sex career is on the rise, so I'll keep working hard!

lanmeigiu

2013-07-01 18:55:16

I agree, you're absolutely right.

晖9755

2013-07-01 22:53:33

It's better to meet for the first time outside, and then go home after you've gotten to know each other.

无根心

2013-07-01 23:21:54

Better safe than sorry

南京27单男

2013-07-01 23:26:14

This sounds a bit like attention-seeking! What you said is quite correct and makes sense. You're trying to show off your high character, right? You want to gain popularity, don't you? It's inappropriate and awkward for a single man to make this statement, unless someone you know has experienced this. Please don't be offended; I mean no harm.

sanjiu888999

2013-07-06 03:26:49

Brilliant insight

北京的秋天

2013-07-11 20:17:03

Husband and wife: Telling you to watch out for cars means you like to hit people, right?

憬憬颜

2013-07-11 20:35:13

Well said. Being cautious has nothing to do with being sincere. People who have nothing aren't afraid of losing anything; those who are cautious should protect themselves.

069a

2013-07-11 22:30:39

Better safe than sorry

zzhang1986

2014-02-06 01:24:32

Haha, I don't understand what those people who despise self-preservation are thinking. In this game, the couple is the one who absolutely cannot afford to lose. Encountering such a rude person once could, at best, ruin your reputation, and at worst, destroy your family. Would you even gamble? I believe anyone with a sound mind knows how to choose. Is not letting someone go to your home considered dishonest? To single men with this kind of thinking, I can only say "QNMLGBD" (a vulgar expression). To couples with this kind of thinking, I can only say "Haha."

乐乐-深圳

2015-03-03 22:37:01

Thank you!

美女与猛兽

2016-01-17 02:19:36

The description of autumn in Beijing is excellent! Those who criticize are all cut from the same cloth!! The world is a dangerous place; remember to protect yourself! Today's carelessness will bring endless trouble tomorrow!! Remember, remember, remember…