2013-10-23 10:05:22

That's absolutely right.

2013-10-23 10:38:07

The original poster's statement is a bit too absolute, generalizing and labeling half the population. According to the poster's classification, I somewhat fit the first category: (He registered behind his wife's back. His wife had no idea about it. He wanted to have affairs but was too stingy to spend money; he was a poor man. So, he pretended to be a married couple on dating sites, thinking he could find a free lunch. This kind of man is the most despicable, a million times more shameful than single men.) I did register behind my wife's back; she had no idea. Because I have a cuckold's mentality, while my wife doesn't, I didn't dare gamble with our family's stability. ('Wanting to have affairs,' 'being a poor man'—that's also true! I'm just an ordinary office worker, living on my salary; I am indeed 'a poor man.' As for the other point, 'wanting to have affairs,' I don't quite agree. Rather than 'having affairs,' it's more like: pursuing a different kind of pleasure! I'm a married single man, and a bit broke, but I'm not stingy. I'm happy to pay for meals, entertainment, hotel rooms, and gifts, and I believe most single men would be too. It's just about finding happiness; I only hope the couples aren't too picky. I registered on September 23rd and successfully found someone on October 18th. After booking a hotel and meeting for dinner, the guy said, "It's not easy to come all this way, don't waste it." This really touched me! After a hot spring (which he paid for), we went back to his house for a wonderful weekend. The reason I'm sharing this is to prove that couples like this guy and his wife are truly high-quality partners! Another purpose of saying this is to show more understanding towards single men! I hope understanding and happiness accompany us on the remaining journey of our lives!

鱼水91761

2013-10-23 11:27:37

Everyone has their own way of doing things, as long as it's sincere! And don't try to elevate yourself by belittling others!

相约玫瑰丛中

2013-10-23 13:03:29

Writing down the truth and sharing the people you encountered with everyone in the park is itself a way of voluntarily maintaining a peaceful environment, and this behavior must be supported. After all, it's a genuine opinion, which might make a small group of people uncomfortable, but that's unavoidable; you can only blame yourself for being part of that small group. The original poster has expressed what we wanted to say, because a large number of people share this viewpoint. Sincere thanks to them.

浦东同乐

2013-10-23 13:56:39

I completely agree with the original poster's point! However, I need to clarify: you are not me, so please don't take this personally. Your situation doesn't fall into the first category the original poster described; you are likely a single man. Unless you introduce yourself as a couple involved, but your wife is unaware or doesn't consent!

绝世好夫妻

2013-10-23 14:15:37

You've hit the nail on the head and shared my opinion. Brilliant!

中华盾

2013-10-23 14:58:17

The analysis is very thorough and insightful, excellent.

mzll369369

2013-10-24 10:16:10

support

武汉单男231

2013-10-24 10:19:22

This is perfectly normal.

xc2011

2013-10-24 17:14:57

The summary is very accurate.

触到灵魂的痛

2013-10-24 17:45:47

support

一本道

2013-10-24 22:30:14

Ch Reference

52152169网

2013-10-24 22:46:50

I learned to use the internet responsibly and to log in and post.

52152169网

2013-10-24 23:08:53

I learned to use the internet responsibly and to log in and post.

北京单男003

2013-10-25 16:04:37

A genuine single man can have a wonderful life too.

子非鱼啊

2013-10-25 17:00:37

From registering to adding friends and chatting, I made it clear from the beginning that I am a single man, and I only added single men as friends. After rereading the post, I realized that my comment "a high-quality partner" might have made some people uncomfortable, and I apologize for that! I also solemnly declare that this was not directed at the original poster, nor at most couples! I apologize again: I'm sorry! I was presumptuous.

我就爱了

2013-10-25 17:49:56

Haha, well said.

lf1wk

2013-10-25 22:26:00

It feels like they're talking about me; I'm reflecting on it.

2013-10-27 22:15:22

In fact, single men hold a similar status in the game as couples; according to couples, those with strong physiques are even more sought after—a rare find.

2013-10-27 22:18:22

It's just a matter of letting go of reality, like turtles and green beans falling for each other and indulging in a little indulgence. Why make it sound so harsh?

烟雨江南2

2013-10-29 15:40:07

Thorough analysis

wshy1

2013-10-30 01:46:45

Thumbs up!

69leyuanleyuan

2013-10-31 19:05:42

Sympathy

荷塘月色69

2013-11-02 19:53:19

A genuine single man, excellent! The poster seems a bit pretentious!

小猫8526

2013-11-03 10:02:56

This is just one part. There's much more.

xianzaimeishi

2013-11-03 23:28:29

agree

hcse608

2013-11-10 22:07:26

I'm a responsible single man, and I'm not stingy. I always pay for everything myself, and I even buy gifts or give money to the other woman's wife. After all, she's the one who slept with me, so it's only right that I pay a little. There's no such thing as a free lunch.

沙漠之魂

2013-12-24 21:41:13

That's what someone who's been there says. Yes, I've met all the people the original poster mentioned. It's a bit far, though; maybe I should just come find you guys directly. Only someone truly dedicated to making this game could write something like this.

子非鱼啊

2013-12-24 21:59:09

I've seen this post again! Let's revisit it! '..............'

真诚朋友

2014-01-26 15:50:07

What the original poster said isn't entirely true. My wife knew I registered, and at first she just wanted to read the articles but didn't want to participate in the activities. Actually, I registered to persuade her, and I've basically succeeded. I think there are many husbands with this mindset.

武汉单男39

2014-01-27 21:20:21

Let's all respect and understand each other.

疯狂一夜88

2014-01-27 22:48:00

I agree with the sincere friend's point of view. I also started as a single man registering as a couple. At that time, my wife said she wouldn't play, but most of the netizens who added me saw my wife's photos (all posted with her consent). After several months of contact and with the help of many couples, my wife is now willing to sleep with me without swapping partners, and we'll soon be able to successfully swap. The original poster's statement doesn't just generalize about a small group, but rather the vast majority; that's a bit of an overstatement.

cyh69

2014-03-03 10:02:17

I completely agree. We are a couple in Shenzhen. After persistent efforts, the wife agreed to give it a try. Looking forward to exchanging ideas. How can we contact each other?

wkfgood

2014-05-06 20:14:34

I'm one of them too, and I didn't know how to tell my wife. I registered secretly. But I'm quite envious. But no matter how poor you are, everyone has the money to find women, right?

爱的奉献151831

2014-07-14 05:43:56

That's spot on!

wangji0511

2014-07-14 07:03:59

It seems like all the people leaving comments are couples, so I'll join in the fun too.

dxp168

2014-10-21 06:47:54

If anyone can prove you are a married couple, then all those going on dates should bring their marriage certificates; once confirmed, they can participate.

共同幸福719

2014-12-16 18:25:50

I'm optimistic about the atmosphere of this discussion.

午夜浪漫的人

2015-03-05 18:42:03

That's well said. The circle is indeed very chaotic, so we need to prevent inferior people from getting involved.

京东好夫妻

2015-06-01 12:30:14

It's great that there's such an atmosphere of exchange and discussion in the park; I support it.

杨哥50

2016-01-31 15:18:50

Good summary, very comprehensive. Keep writing!

雕花硬汉

2018-07-27 18:36:49

It really happened.

健康快乐3721

2019-06-02 19:01:59

Just tell the truth.

共享爱人

2020-04-23 23:24:22

We should be considered the fifth, but I'm usually the one doing the talking. When we meet a suitable couple, we can video chat together in the evening to get to know each other. If we get along well, we'll chat; if we're interested, we can have video sex.

晃动的瓶子

2021-03-22 09:45:52

Five types are not enough

枫树的生活

2021-04-27 20:32:34

There are a few other types of people you haven't mentioned. These include those who rely on their wives to earn money, and those who use their wives for other purposes.

知己情人

2021-07-07 21:20:35

I agree.