临沂boss
2019-09-23 21:34:38
Nine out of ten people approve
云端一翁
2019-09-23 22:29:28
@Linyiboss What I really want to say is that no matter what, respect your wife's choice.
0744张家界
2019-09-23 23:18:48
Maybe!
beijingfqi
2019-09-23 23:29:26
Well said, I'm learning.
beijingfqi
2019-09-23 23:30:03
Hey bro, can you add me? I'm still a newbie.
zuiai69w
2019-09-23 23:43:06
Before my wife agreed to try the couples-only dating app, she told me that if she got addicted, I couldn't just stop her; I had to wait until she got tired of it and didn't want to play anymore. Now she's addicted, but I don't know when she'll get tired of it or when she'll stop wanting to play.
云端一翁
2019-09-24 00:42:13
@beijingfqi added
云端一翁
2019-09-24 00:43:08
@zuiai69w So you need to think things through beforehand. Since you've started, just keep going.
sjxkc1
2019-09-24 16:09:09
That's a good point, and it's worth acknowledging.
云端一翁
2019-09-24 22:26:39
@Sharing2017 Psychological acceptance is much easier to control than passive physiological acceptance.
寻找爱的乐趣
2019-09-25 08:08:39
Add me on QQ so we can chat. I'm a newbie.
大爱无疆1号
2019-09-25 12:12:03
Learned
yijinghou
2019-09-26 01:39:24
That makes a lot of sense.
sense10101
2019-09-26 13:53:11
Training one's wife is a pleasure in itself, a form of conquest, a way of communicating; leaving this to someone else means you lose that thrill.
sexy_lover
2019-09-27 00:21:18
That's well said, but if the wife is stubborn, assertive, and has very strong moral principles, persuasion is almost impossible.
bxl197900
2019-09-27 02:19:48
I agree with the view that to make your wife a slut, the premise is that she feels that the love between husband and wife has not diminished, but rather has become stronger after taking this step.
云端一翁
2019-09-28 21:38:42
@大吉吧狼heheai
云端一翁
2019-09-29 15:09:52
@bxl197900 First of all, I don't understand why you want to turn your wife into a slut. The first thing I wanted to say in my article was to respect your wife, and the second was the purpose.
云端一翁
2019-09-29 15:10:59
@大吉吧狼 What I'm saying, those who understand will understand, and those who don't, I'm too lazy to say more. Anyway, what you're saying is incomprehensible to me. Does it have anything to do with the articles I write?
pinsaluoyan
2019-09-29 15:38:45
@大吉吧狼 is right!
pgk123pgk
2019-09-29 17:42:31
A loving and harmonious marriage is fundamental. If you trust each other, your wife will obey your wishes, and there will be no issue of "training" her. The difficulty lies in finding the right partner.
小农村孩儿True
2019-10-02 23:14:05
Bro, you're absolutely right @zuiai69w
快乐123
2019-10-03 05:43:05
Add me
南昌优秀夫妻
2019-10-04 16:48:44
Women are emotional creatures. Many women who cheat or have affairs do so not to satisfy physical needs, but rather psychological ones. It's because they've been married for a long time and become numb, wanting to experience again the feeling of being cared for and loved.
南昌优秀夫妻
2019-10-04 16:49:38
The person who knows your wife best isn't necessarily your husband.
夏娃的诱惑2012
2019-10-12 09:34:38
Agreed! I've always believed that persuading one's wife requires the husband's own effort, not some so-called "training master." The husband needs to understand his wife's concerns. When a husband brings up such ideas, a woman's first thought is likely whether he no longer loves her or if he's just looking for a fling. The husband needs to take concrete actions to dispel his wife's concerns and respect her wishes, not just offer empty words. Once those concerns are addressed, I believe everything else will fall into place. Single men only play a facilitating role in this process. I myself gradually got my partner to accept it this way. I only started looking for single men after she fully agreed, and now she's agreed to look for couples. If the husband handles the relationship well, the marital bond will grow stronger...
云端一翁
2019-10-12 12:11:18
@Eve's Temptation 2012 Thank you for agreeing. Psychological acceptance and physical desire are different, which is why I didn't want to pay attention to many of the comments above. It's good that someone agrees.
kqfmyl
2019-10-12 15:47:34
Add me if you have experience!
云端一翁
2019-10-12 17:31:10
@kqfmyl Why did you add me? It's so far away.
jiea007
2019-10-12 19:14:23
This is a great article. I tried the sixth point yesterday and felt a significant improvement compared to my usual sex life. Indeed, we should not be thinking about how to start, but how to regain our usual calm after we start!
Yongzia
2019-10-12 23:24:26
Good, I've learned something.
云端一翁
2019-10-12 23:53:27
@Yongzia You're too kind, it was just something I wrote randomly.
夏娃的诱惑2012
2019-10-14 13:42:32
@CloudWanderer Yes, only real couples with a strong relationship can understand these things; other people, especially single men, rarely experience them.
爱不够3
2019-10-23 14:15:55
This game can begin with the man's decision, but it can only end with the woman's decision. Once a couple has started, the decision-making power belongs to the woman. Love between husband and wife is about staying together forever, never abandoning each other. Everything else is fine as long as the woman is happy.
拦不住
2019-11-12 09:19:05
Completely agree
云端一翁
2019-11-12 13:08:43
@Unstoppable, thank you
盘古来了
2019-11-16 11:00:14
I support the original poster's viewpoint.
快乐逍遥棒
2020-01-25 09:14:50
praise
云端一翁
2020-01-25 22:59:50
@Pangu is here, thank you.
魂斗士
2020-02-15 17:36:53
First, it's essential to understand what both parties want, then engage in open and honest communication. It's crucial that both sides frankly express their feelings; this is very important! After that, the rest of the work becomes much easier.
云端一翁
2020-03-04 01:37:26
@WuhanEddiePeng This is the first step. You can't expect her to agree as soon as you ask, right? Take it slow.
阎陈爱
2020-03-19 12:30:59
The simplest and most direct method is to throw money at it. If 10,000 doesn't work, try 50,000. If you give 100,000, no one's wife will be able to escape (except for the wives of special groups).
阎陈爱
2020-03-19 12:33:41
For my wife's first time, I settled things with a total of 10,000 yuan, including gifts and cash. This is on the premise that the husband controls the household finances, or that finances are separate, or that you are financially independent.
云端一翁
2020-03-21 07:59:47
@YanChenLovesYou I disagree with this method. Everyone's life situation is different, and not everyone values money that much. Besides, would you trust someone who buys things with money?
云端一翁
2020-06-24 17:23:26
@孤帆远影逼空尽 I'm afraid your pleasure comes from training other people's wives.
云端一翁
2020-06-24 17:23:34
@Try it out, thank you.
云端一翁
2020-06-24 17:25:41
@SeekingLoveIsArrogantI don't like the word "training," or rather, "guidance" would be better.
友依伦
2020-08-24 00:19:22
Perhaps feasible
云端一翁
2020-08-24 08:25:13
@Youyilun, then go give it a try!
紫轩西安
2022-08-04 16:44:28
It's not complicated! Just be yourself and put your wife's mind at ease.
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