胖胖哒

2020-11-07 22:49:38

Yes, the thought process, the difficulties of development.

刺激与快乐

2020-11-08 04:48:17

I'm tired of it, I've lost my passion.

大海柔情

2020-11-08 09:05:45

It's not about developing my wife, it's about overcoming the obstacles in my own heart.

laofu730

2020-11-08 12:06:53

Your wife has already fallen for you.

此情可以成追忆

2020-11-09 11:48:50

@lvsh137 @大海柔情 is right. OP, you're not developing your wife. You're not ready yet. You haven't overcome that hurdle in your heart. Anyone who isn't stupid wouldn't accept your so-called development if they wanted to be your wife.

阳光下的精灵

2020-11-10 14:17:03

You haven't even passed your own test yet, and you're already trying to "develop" your wife? Once you've "developed" her, your marriage will be over. If you're not willing to take the risk, then don't even try.

健康快乐3721

2020-11-12 09:23:50

Take your time, there's no rush.

素素质男

2020-12-02 08:13:06

Single men in Tianjin

YY1971

2020-12-28 17:21:35

We're at a crossroads right now; further development would be limited. Can we get to know each other and become friends?

我爱大草原

2020-12-31 23:53:59

@ThisLoveCanBeAMemoriesMakesItALoye has a point. Most people probably wouldn't feel comfortable seeing their wife being with someone else for the first time, especially if that were the case. But if you let your wife find a lover, have sex with him, and then come back and tell you, that feeling is easier to accept. Then, if you let her bring him home so everyone can meet, and then have a threesome, the psychological impact might be different.

StrugglingL

2021-01-17 20:32:25

I suggest you adapt gradually.