saintsaga

2013-07-07 22:40:05

Perhaps I should have done what everyone else did: created a blank QQ account, hidden all my personal information, and then used sweet talk to get things done perfectly. Instead of being foolish enough to reveal all my information—my work QQ, phone number, password, job details, Baidu Tieba ID…

宝贝的宝贝

2013-07-07 22:47:43

It feels like you're making trouble out of nothing, complicating a simple matter. What, are you begging for help, or are you pestering me? It's all online; you've never even met in person. What kind of "big brother" are you begging for? If I were anyone else, I wouldn't want to talk to you either. It feels like you're just being difficult and persistent.

速度与激情2

2013-07-07 23:08:14

Brother, you're too persistent, and your "big brother" is too petty! The fact that you wrote so much shows your honesty, but it also exposes your naivety. If you two had a good conversation, please don't send him his wife's photo so casually. Since that "big brother" was willing to give it to you, he should have considered the consequences. Whether it's 69 or in real life, try to be considerate! We're a married couple; you can add me if you'd like... You're quite honest.

zhwtwr

2013-07-07 23:55:46

What goes around comes around! You don't need to dwell on someone like that; you've already been honest enough! He doesn't deserve to be your friend. You're an honest and ambitious man!

在上海的人

2013-07-08 00:27:29

If my words truly hurt you, I apologize here. I understand all your feelings. But you can't understand me. Even though I said it was impossible, I didn't block you and still tried my best to help you recover your password. You should understand that I hadn't given up because the beginning was so beautiful, and I fantasized every day about our happy life together. Suddenly discovering your secret left me feeling lost. I suddenly didn't know what kind of person you were. One moment I thought you might have your own helplessness, and the next I wondered if you were a bad person. Those days were really tiring. After all, I had only been in 69 for a week and had no experience, but I never gave up. I wanted to use time to verify everything. I actually wanted to reply to your later messages, but in the end, I didn't type them out. I wanted to be cautious. I was afraid you were deliberately saying you hadn't recovered your password because I was helping you, but during this time, I still tried my best to help you recover it. Just as I found your password, you changed it and immediately blocked me. Suddenly, I felt so naive, still caught in a deception and fantasizing about a happy ending. Ridiculous, sad, angry...

在上海的人

2013-07-08 01:44:49

Perhaps we've both misunderstood each other. Life is like that; the ending can't always be as perfect as in the movies. Life is short, especially for outsiders like us struggling in Shanghai. Don't easily give up on potential happiness. Like you, I'm an ambitious person, currently in the startup phase. Although the start is good, it's still in its early stages, which is why I didn't tell you when you asked. Although I haven't explicitly said I'm a Buddhist, I believe I have a connection to Buddhism. I often listen to Buddhist music to calm my mind; you can try it if you have time. After you blocked me, I stopped using that QQ account, and I won't use it again. But I'll probably apply for a new QQ account for 69 in the future, and you'll likely have new 69 friends on your QQ. This is a place we deeply yearn for, and we can't easily leave it. As for when... I think it will be when we adjust our mindset to face the next setback.

男人香

2013-07-08 02:09:21

What a mess!

hi.canada

2013-07-08 23:33:16

I read your story very carefully and attentively; I dare not offer any judgment, but my personal understanding is that you have done a good enough job because of your experience and the lessons learned over the years. Both 3P and 4P require fate. I remember when I first met a couple, they asked me about my situation. I said I was married but single, and they didn't ask any further questions during our conversation, but we had a very pleasant and enjoyable chat. After that, whenever someone asked me, I would say I was married but single. I think respect and trust are prerequisites for 3P and group relationships. If this foundation is lost, the communication will only become a formality. I feel that you have excellent focus and persistence in your personality. These qualities will make you successful but could also hurt you. Therefore, utilize your strengths and compensate for your weaknesses; this will make you more flexible, proactive, and complete.

狼哥007xx

2013-07-09 00:19:05

Sincerity is the most important thing

相约玫瑰丛中

2013-07-09 07:27:08

Let's be more positive. Why complicate such a simple matter? If we can be friends, we can be friends; if not, we can simply part ways and forget each other.

fourpshow

2013-07-09 07:57:04

Being young is great!

吻你沟边那对唇

2013-07-09 09:03:07

No need to dwell on it! When fate brings you together, cherish and nurture it! When fate separates you, part ways peacefully! Be mindful of etiquette! The coming and going of relationships is predetermined; there's no need to force it! Letting go brings freedom!

彤彤的爱

2013-07-09 15:56:34

So slow!!

晖9755

2013-07-09 22:25:34

Mutual understanding is the best.

爱，就进

2013-07-10 15:53:28

It's giving me a headache; it looks like two gay men are involved.

爱，就进

2013-07-10 17:04:57

Hahahaha, this is hilarious! Those of you who come here to wallow in lust, please don't use Buddhism as an excuse, okay?

aiqiongchuo

2013-07-10 17:20:00

You can tell from the previous paragraph that this guy is a slowpoke!

爱时尚

2013-07-10 18:02:00

Although I wrote this very sincerely, I think you're all overthinking it. A small misunderstanding has arisen, and it would be good if it could be resolved sincerely. If it really can't be resolved, you can say goodbye rationally! It's better to part ways amicably!

pagou

2013-07-10 18:21:44

The roles are divided into such a mess, ha, and they even team up to fool people. You can play by yourself, hehe, bullshit.

saintsaga

2013-07-10 18:51:22

Reply to pagou: Thank you for your reply, "You're so meticulous about role-playing, ha, and you're even trying to scam people in a group? You can play by yourself, hehe, dog shit." I just want to say that your self-proclaimed "quality Beijing man" is perfectly exemplified in your reply. Also, because it involves reputation, I tried to be as detailed as possible. Some people might think I'm being long-winded, but that's fine, it's a matter of opinion. However, if I am "scamming in a group" as you say, then I am the dog shit you're talking about. If I'm not, then your whole family is dog shit.

换身不换心

2013-07-11 09:05:55

She was so engrossed in her writing that her writing style was alright.

素质中年夫妻

2013-07-11 09:34:32

Sigh! Birds of a feather flock together! Why worry about this?

waterpig

2013-07-11 09:44:43

If he doesn't want to, just let him be. What's the point of dwelling on it? It's a waste of each other's time!

呕心依旧

2013-07-11 15:46:28

It's a bit messy, I'm not interested in watching any further.

wen654321

2013-07-11 17:58:35

Go home and love your wife properly! Don't take your good fortune for granted! Otherwise, you'll regret it later.

srwm

2013-07-12 09:38:17

You're all taking this too seriously! Perhaps the original poster has experienced too much, which is why they're so sentimental! Let it go...

此情只可以成追忆

2013-08-16 22:16:54

It's clear the original poster has decent writing skills and is quite persistent—but perhaps a bit too persistent. Didn't the original poster mention from the beginning that they are a married single man? If so, I wonder what your so-called "big brother" thinks. But if someone concealed this from me like this, I couldn't accept it. Hehe.

lonmee

2013-08-17 23:26:04

You're such a smooth talker. If you had that kind of talent, you'd still be here by now, probably keeping a mistress. Stop talking, the more you try to cover it up, the worse it gets.

saintsaga

2013-08-18 19:27:08

What kind of skill is the person upstairs referring to?

季末

2013-08-18 19:53:58

It's all too complicated, too many concerns. I'll just do my own thing and let others talk.

yd90903

2013-09-05 23:04:03

Just have fun when you're out having fun. How can you have fun if you can't let go of anything? I can tell you're an honest person; I hope you won't be too fixated on one thing. As the Buddha said: The sea of suffering is boundless, but turning back is the shore!

SZLOVEXR

2013-09-17 04:06:22

These games are really not suitable for you guys. Haven't you heard the saying, "A gentleman is always at ease, while a petty person is always anxious"? Without a mature mindset, it's really not fun, and you won't be able to play well!