2013-11-24 07:38:43

You should let go of this kind of woman!

2013-11-24 07:56:34

Have you considered why she's not telling you the truth? It's because she's afraid you won't be able to accept it. Even if you could, she might not believe it. I advise you to stop focusing on this and show her more care and concern; maybe she'll tell you on her own then.

期待相逢，是缘

2013-11-24 08:20:12

There are many blog posts here about how to develop a wife. You can take a look first; they will be helpful to you. Some things can't be done just by talking; you have to use your actions and guide her step by step.

susiyang

2013-11-24 08:49:18

Show her more of the article with 69, and tell her your true thoughts!

梅酒沉清

2013-11-24 09:29:52

My advice is, don't just stare at her. Instead, try to develop your own little romantic encounters. Over time, you'll naturally gain some insights.

梅酒沉清

2013-11-24 09:32:19

You need to make sure women notice you, and let the women around you discover your charm. Dude, you're currently in a passive position emotionally. Don't naively believe that relationships require effort and specific methods.

freebit

2013-11-24 09:43:37

Brother, let go, and find someone more suitable for you! The Buddha said that enlightenment takes three stages: understanding, letting go, and freedom. Indeed, only by letting go can one attain freedom.

sz品味生活

2013-11-24 10:27:15

The fault lies with you. You were watching her like a detective, making her feel that you couldn't possibly be so indifferent! Show her more care and concern, and the knot in your heart will slowly untie itself!

z2yy

2013-11-24 10:32:23

Let things take their course.

aalleexx

2013-11-24 12:10:49

Dude, open your mind, truly let go. All forms of life are governed by your thoughts; if you don't let go, you won't find happiness. Also, her avoidance isn't about avoiding your suggestion, but about you. You want a threesome, but she doesn't want to be with you; you understand?

jiangfu2003

2013-11-24 15:41:04

Let go

单男伺候女、你老婆

2013-11-24 19:17:18

This woman's heart no longer belongs to you. Even if a woman makes this kind of mistake, she'll stubbornly refuse to admit it unless you catch her in the act. Even then, she'll list a whole host of your faults, justifying it as an excuse for infidelity, as if she's completely innocent. Let go of this shameless woman immediately. If you don't, she'll treat you like you don't exist; her heart is no longer yours. She's different from the woman in story 69. Because in marriage, there's trust and consent. And this is their way of seeking novelty, excitement, and pleasure in life. Brother, it's not because of your surveillance or distrust. It's your wife's nature—wanting to be virtuous while being a prostitute. This kind of woman is extremely vicious. I hope you leave her as soon as possible, otherwise, you might even lose your life. Try it and see. I've encountered a similar problem. That's why I'm glad I chose to stay away from this kind of woman.

book214

2013-11-24 20:41:05

First of all, thank you all for your help, I'm very grateful. I can't let her go, and I want to try my best to win her back. We're completely at odds now. Maybe I'm too fixated on her, or maybe, as you all say, she's still wary of me. Can I salvage this situation now? Can we open our hearts to each other again with time? She's changed a lot recently, occasionally making jokes about it. But life is too hectic, and I'm in a bad mood. I hope we can truly become a part of this community in the future, and I hope you won't mind. I read the articles here whenever I have time, and I've benefited greatly from them. I also hope you all will share any good ideas or suggestions you may have. We, her first love, are getting married. We both come from other cities, and it's difficult for us to be together in this vast world; I can't bear to part with her.

相约玫瑰丛中

2013-11-24 21:42:17

There's no good way to salvage this situation. Since we can't get it up anymore, we might as well let it go.

时时刻刻

2013-11-24 23:18:33

Let's have an open and honest talk. Or maybe you should bring your lover along to show your sincerity.

涅磐男女

2013-11-25 01:05:50

Those who have experienced extramarital sexual climax are now experiencing the pleasure of their wives returning with their semen! Women who have cheated will always show signs of it. If possible, send a trusted classmate or online acquaintance to help seduce your wife, having her recount her past sexual bliss.

觅觉

2013-11-25 09:11:20

Encourage her to read more articles about couples swapping, and let her watch more pornographic films and read more novels. Once she's open to it and thinks you have no objections, she'll join you in these activities.

book214

2013-11-25 12:50:42

I've read all your comments carefully, and thank you all for taking the time out of your busy schedules to comfort me. We've both been very busy with work and life lately, with endless tasks at work and constant worries about the children at home. She enjoys sports and goes out once or twice a week, and she agreed to pick her up and drop her off. Yesterday, she told me I was monitoring her. She said she can only truly relax and have fun when she's exercising, and I'm still watching her. She asked me to pick her up and drop her off to avoid making me suspicious. I really didn't mean it; it's just that the roads are cold and slippery, and I wanted to spend more time with her. She said she doesn't have much contact with those people anymore, and she has no desire to sleep with them. Now she just wants to take good care of the children and keep up with her work; she doesn't want to think about anything else. She told me not to focus on her, but to concentrate on work, studies, and spend more time with the children. She said she hasn't been involved with anyone outside for a long time and wants to live a good life with me. Why can't I let go? The past is the past; don't think about it or bring it up again. In a few days, her parents are taking the children out, and she said she'll discuss it when it's just the two of us at home.

80eryue

2013-11-25 13:32:03

Let's play together, this is nothing at our age.

彤彤的爱

2013-11-25 13:39:40

It's time to let go. You're not still so stupid as to think she's playing 69 with someone, are you? Women in 69 aren't like that.

wlt123

2013-11-25 13:53:35

Let's just pretend we don't know anything.

单男-广州

2013-11-25 23:38:36

The post clearly shows the original poster's genuine love for their partner, and that love is palpable. Loving someone requires understanding their thoughts and needs, and then caring for them. Perhaps, as the original poster mentioned, they were "too selfish," only thinking about what they wanted their partner to do. It's hoped the original poster will try to shift their perspective and consider what their partner truly needs. The true needs of your partner need to be discovered through observation and communication. Because there is still love between you, there is still room for reconciliation. I wish you both a speedy return to your former happy life. A word of advice: surveillance is not advisable; it will only worsen your relationship.

海夜1975

2013-11-26 03:56:58

Having read everything you've said, I'm actually in a situation almost as dire as yours. I'm incredibly conflicted, constantly anxious and worried, afraid something might happen. The moment my wife does something, or even makes a phone call that shows a lack of privacy, my nerves immediately tighten. I feel like my heart is being torn apart. I feel wronged, tense, conflicted, worried… and, as you said, a little excited. It's a very unpleasant feeling because the thought of sharing my beloved wife with another man is unbearable. Actually, I love my wife just as much as you do. Maybe we're doing it the wrong way, or maybe it's because of excessive tension and worry. People are selfish; they want to enjoy good things themselves, even if they don't use them. Like you, I frequently travel all over the country for work, sometimes for half a month at a time. Of course, this worry is understandable, because society is so chaotic these days. Bored men may lack career success, but they're still adept at charming women. With WeChat and QQ so convenient these days, it's easy to fall into traps. Women are sometimes more naive than children, especially with husbands often away from home… We didn't communicate much emotionally, so all this distress was bottled up inside. This long-term depression led to a twisted mind. Thinking about this made me feel resentful and bitter, so even the smallest things would trigger my anger, causing me to lash out at my wife and sometimes even do extreme things. Actually, I truly love my wife very much. In the ten years we've been together, I've never betrayed our relationship or had any affairs. My wife and I met and fell in love under special circumstances, going through many twists and turns. My wife is a few years older than me, but she takes great care of herself. Everyone who sees her says she looks younger than me. Her skin is also great; she applies body oil all over her body every night before bed, so you can imagine how beautiful her skin is. And my wife has a very beautiful butt... (to be continued)

涛媛

2013-11-26 10:23:09

This kind of thing needs to be analyzed rationally. From your words, it seems you still love your wife, and you don't seem to mind her having relationships with other men. The problem is that she's deceiving you and can't be honest with you. Personally, I think you need to communicate more. Since she wants to find men, there are plenty of options. Try to talk to her and I think she'll accept it. Most importantly, you must get her to leave her current lover; otherwise, you'll never be able to hold your head high and will always be haunted by the past.

book214

2013-11-26 12:33:11

Thank you everyone for your replies. Her emotions are fluctuating wildly right now; sometimes she's perfectly fine, and the next she's furious. I try to be understanding and gentle with her, but she says I'm being indecisive. When I argue with her, she says I'm not a man, always arguing with my wife about right and wrong. When I get angry, she feels even more aggrieved. Sigh, she dismisses my opinions on the same things, but she takes other people's advice as gospel. Sometimes she tries to comfort me and show concern. I really hope her attitude towards me is consistent; if it's good, we can understand and care for each other. If not, I'll wait until I'm completely desperate so I won't be so conflicted anymore. Maybe she's struggling internally right now; maybe my kindness makes her feel guilty, which leads to her anger. That's the only way I can comfort myself. I don't object to her having sexual relationships with others, but I do object to emotional relationships, and what I can't stand even more is her hiding her feelings and actions. I still hope that one day we can resolve things. Even if that day never comes, can things get any worse than they are now?

book214

2013-11-26 12:41:26

I stopped spying on her a long time ago, but she suspects I'm still watching her, so her bad attitude is understandable. I really wish this was all just a dream; I wish I hadn't been so curious and wanted to know everything about her. Being kept in the dark now isn't necessarily a bad thing; at least we can maintain the facade of affection.

单男-广州

2013-11-26 21:28:27

During periods of emotional instability, people are prone to impulsive behaviors. One approach is to completely de-emphasize the issue and address it after things have cooled down. However, this is a general principle; it's easier said than done. I hope you two reconcile soon!

sense10101

2013-11-26 23:14:22

When you're both having problems and emotional, you can't solve them. First, address your emotions. Only when your emotions are calm can you rationally solve the problem. From your description, your wife's relationships outside the marriage involve both sexual promiscuity and a gradual development into emotional attachment. If she had someone she could completely rely on, she would leave you without hesitation. But she can't find a man who can tolerate her like you do, so she's hesitant. Regarding your tolerance, if she had read the "69 Blog" with you in the beginning, she would have believed you. But now that you've discovered her infidelity and your surveillance makes her doubt your sincerity. This is your current situation. If you can still tolerate her, or if you want to maintain the family for your daughter's sake, try a cooling-off period. Don't discuss a threesome; just return to your previous routine. When both of you are free from emotional turmoil and can rationally consider the issue, then show her some well-written articles from the "69 Blog" to help her understand your sincerity. This way, she will know your true feelings and dare to face you and tell you the truth.

book214

2013-11-27 12:31:43

Thank you all for your concern and encouragement. I have no other choice right now. I'll calm down and let things take their course. I understand some of the principles, but it's hard to put into practice. The thought of having to go on a business trip again next year, possibly for more than half a year, is very painful. Haha, it's not about monitoring her, but about the sadness of not being able to see her.

爱的白桦林

2013-11-27 13:31:24

Friend, I'm a woman too. After reading your post, I think you should give up. When a marriage has lost even the most basic honesty and trust, continuing to force it is like drinking poison to quench thirst. You need to learn to let go, to be willing to let go! Take care!

eettv

2013-11-28 09:03:13

You love her

book214

2013-11-28 13:33:20

My heart is weary; it's time to rest. She has her own thoughts, and I can't impose them on her. What I can't accept is concealment and deception, but it was precisely my persistence that revealed the facade behind her facade. My pain is self-inflicted. I was too persistent, to the point of losing myself. I'm so afraid, afraid of becoming indifferent. Sometimes I can't help but recall past happiness, but it's gone, and my insistence on holding on hurts myself and others. The past must pass, and the future will eventually return. I'm not willing to let go yet; let time slowly fade it away. I'm afraid of losing love; losing the desire to love. What is it that I truly want? I don't know. Love is simple to say, but true love is hard to find. Thank you everyone for your encouragement, thank you everyone for your concern.

book214

2013-11-28 21:35:50

No, she's a Cancer. Is there any necessary connection?

wang550202

2013-11-29 02:48:24

Well, as a man, one of your bottom lines is dignity. Her heart has already flown away; she's become like Pan Jinlian (a notorious adulteress in Chinese literature). A woman who has changed her heart can be very vicious; you need to be careful. Preserve evidence. For your children's sake, for your parents' sake, you need a dignified divorce. Don't lose both your wife and your money. Ideally, after collecting evidence, find several single men and have sex with her.

book214

2013-11-29 17:01:38

Friend, thank you for your reply and for your analysis and comments on my situation. Indeed, I lost my dignity as a man. Her heart is no longer with me, yet I stubbornly try to hold on. She's not as bad as you think. After all, we once loved each other and struggled to be together. She made a mistake—her heart flew away, leaving me with only concealment, deception, habit, and lingering affection. You might laugh at me for being foolish, for lacking even basic honesty. What else is there? Perhaps this is my obsession. The evidence was destroyed during our conversation a few months ago. I didn't intend to use it to blackmail her for anything, like dividing the family property. She chose me when I had nothing; if it really comes to that, it's my fate. If one day I'm looking for a partner here, it won't be for any form of revenge. If we can't be happy together, if we can't be honest with each other, I won't be here.

wang550202

2013-11-29 22:11:08

You don't need to be like this. You've lost yourself. The love you felt is in the past. It's like Zhang San punching you once, and Li Si punching you twice, but you're still grateful to Zhang San.

芦苇薇薇

2013-11-30 22:12:22

A bad family atmosphere has many negative effects on children.

book214

2013-12-02 12:05:42

It's true that she feels more like family and habit towards me now, but to say there's no love left is something I still don't want to believe. She's changed a lot now. She's explained the cause and effect of those things, even the emotional process with them, but she wouldn't go into details about the bedroom. She says she just likes to play around. If she were only with one person, I probably wouldn't have tried so hard to win her back. What hurts me is that I always feel like I'm not the one she's willing to give everything for, and it's also the frustration of realizing I didn't fully possess her when I once thought we were the only ones. The atmosphere in our families hasn't changed much; both our families and children are happy and think we're still happy and loving, and we certainly seem that way in front of them. Now we value and care for each other more. I've vaguely mentioned the topic of couples having sex with each other, and she hasn't given a clear answer. As long as we resolve our trust issues, becoming a member here should be easier than many friends. Since becoming the only one is impossible, let's open our minds and find another kind of sexual happiness. I don't know if there are others like me in 69, but yin7 thoughts don't just appear out of thin air.

book214

2013-12-05 22:57:40

Thank you, I will.

kongxujimoleng

2013-12-07 16:41:41

Love is about acceptance, but concealment and deception are not worthy of tolerance. If it's due to unmet physical needs and a desire for stimulation, she can talk to you about it. For fairness, you should also participate, instead of her doing her own thing while you do yours. Otherwise, you'll only drift further apart.

wjgood

2013-12-09 04:06:16

I sense you're the type who experiences both love and pain, so you'll never truly condone your wife's behavior, which only makes you more miserable.

执子之手与子偕老（荣爱橘）

2013-12-09 19:32:02

Maybe he needs space, maybe he wants you to be more like a manly lover to him. Everyone makes mistakes; give her a chance, but the prerequisite is whether she can repent. Nobody's perfect. But what I'm more worried about is that you're going away on a business trip for so long, will she...? Sigh, she doesn't appreciate such a good man. How could she be like this? If my husband were like you, I'd be praying to Buddha every day. Sigh, ungrateful women...

ma夫妻

2013-12-10 07:05:01

You find a man and have a threesome with her, then you'll know she truly loves you.

book214

2013-12-10 10:37:34

Thank you, everyone. Yes, no one is perfect. Her behavior caused me pain. I was in pain because she didn't treat me as someone she could confide in, because of her deception, and because of her indifference. They say there's a seven-year itch, but we've been through eighteen years. We fell in love when we were seventeen, but I've never felt tired of her. With my current mindset, if she tells me everything about her outside life, tells me all her needs, I won't stop her, nor will I be angry. It would be a lie to say I'm not hurt, but as long as I feel her heart is still with me, I'll accept it. I've always thought her hiding things from me was for self-protection, that she didn't want me to think she was too promiscuous, that she didn't want me to know the details of her outside life, afraid that my attitude towards her would change. But she doesn't realize that this hurts me even more, making me feel like a fool.

倚栏回首

2013-12-12 12:12:39

It's normal for women to have affairs; the key is whether her heart is still with you. Her attitude towards you is already very clear, but I don't know how she treats the child. Also, I think on one hand, your relationship wasn't built on a solid foundation, so the problem might not be entirely her fault; on the other hand, the novelty of the sexual world has captivated her. Going back to my first point, whether she can be saved depends on her attitude towards the child.

book214

2013-12-13 12:58:53

Thank you for your comment, Yilan Huishou. She's incredibly good to her child; of all the mothers I've met of her age, she's the most devoted. She's also changed a lot towards me now; she's very accommodating without affecting her childcare. Now, except for not wanting to talk about sex too much, she basically lets me have my way. Including a threesome with her lover, which has already happened; I'll write another post about it when I have time.

sgsr9510

2013-12-15 20:32:41

This is my situation right now. I love my wife very much, and I really don't know what to do.

book214

2013-12-24 12:57:45

sgsr9510, thank you for your reply. Women do indeed subconsciously protect themselves at this time. They might hypnotize themselves, making themselves see only the man's flaws, comparing his weaknesses to the strengths of others, believing they are doing the right thing and how unfortunate they are. Then they transform self-blame and guilt into anger and resentment. At this point, it depends on what we really want. If we want to continue, we can only offer endless tolerance. If she still has feelings for us, she will gradually get through this period, realize her man's good points, and slowly reflect on herself.

woawang

2013-12-25 14:23:35

I'm 39 this year, and my wife is 37. After reading your story, I believe there are women and men like you in this world, because we've been through similar experiences. So let me tell you our story. We've been classmates since junior high school. She's beautiful, cheerful, and generous; even now, she's still the kind of person everyone loves. My family is relatively well-off. After graduating from school, I entered the government—back then, it was called a public institution, not as prestigious as being a civil servant now. In my regular work, because I was young and had seen a lot, I became restless and tried to work independently. I also disliked the kind of work within the system where you just sit around drinking tea and blindly obeying your superiors. So, in my spare time, I did small planning and consulting for various organizations to earn a little extra money. Gradually, I started doing things on a larger scale. In 1997, I quit my job and started looking at land in other places with some friends. After a few years of this, I started my own real estate business. In 2004, I started a project in a county town. The early stages of entrepreneurship were tough, but I always thought that this would make my family's life better, so I was quite content. Every month when I wasn't busy, I would go home to spend time with my wife, parents, and children. Gradually, I sensed something was off about her attitude and feelings towards me, but I couldn't quite put my finger on it.

woawang

2013-12-25 14:36:32

So I kept an eye on her, occasionally flirting with her, and even secretly checking her phone. This went on for a while, but because I was always in a rush, I never really got to the bottom of things. Then one day, on a whim, I took her ID to the mobile carrier's office and got her three months' worth of phone bills. Seeing one number appearing frequently, with over 2000 text messages a month, I was stunned. I'm a very proud person, and my own qualities are excellent; I couldn't accept this. I told myself that there are things I don't need to know, but when I do want to know, I have to find out. So I silently observed her for a few days, hoping she would take the initiative. Tell me, come and get my forgiveness. I thought I would never forgive her, but at least this would make me feel better, as if it were her repentance. I even thought about her future; after all, she should be the mother of my child, something a man must do. I thought I understood it clearly, but I waited in vain. On my last night before returning to the project, I invited her to a teahouse, just the two of us. I wanted to ask her everything, but I was extremely disappointed. She not only denied everything but even turned the tables on me. At that moment, my heart turned to ice, and I trembled all over. I slowly placed the call log in front of her. She didn't speak, then looked at me and said firmly, "There is such a person, but nothing happened." I knew this person; he was her office manager, neither good-looking nor fit, neither rich nor poor. Then she said to me, "Let's get a divorce." In that instant, if there had been a civil affairs bureau nearby, I think we would have gotten divorced ten times over. I didn't say anything, I couldn't say anything, I just felt cold, wanted to go home, and didn't want to see anyone. I stood up and told her, "Let's get a divorce tomorrow."

woawang

2013-12-25 15:06:27

I went home and calmed down, thinking a lot. Over the years, she's treated my parents like her own, and she's been impeccable in her treatment of the children and friends. I could get a divorce, but how could I tell them? Now I realize I was just making excuses for myself. Actually, after reading your words, I understand your feelings. People aren't stupid these days; they understand the道理 (principles/reasoning) and can handle things. The problem is, you can fool others, but you can't fool yourself. I told myself, "You've been through this society before, why not give her another chance? Besides, getting a divorce would be so complicated." To be honest, it's because I love her too much, to the point of having no principles, no bottom line. I'd rather hurt myself than see her suffer. This is fate; there's nothing I can do. It has nothing to do with how much education you have, how much social experience you have, or whether the effort and reward are disproportionate. As time went by, I spent nearly two years hiding this wound. In 2008, she called me, saying she was accompanying a friend to meet an online friend in a county near mine, about 30 kilometers away. After work that evening, I called her to ask how the meeting went. She said it was fine; the online friend had invited some of his friends to dinner, and they were going to karaoke later. She assured me everything would be alright and told me not to keep calling, as it wouldn't be good if others overheard. I was genuinely worried that something might happen to the two women while they were out of town, and I was very anxious. We're both very independent people and don't like people calling us excessively, so I didn't call again until after 8 PM. I wanted to come over, since we hadn't seen each other for a while, but her phone was off. I immediately panicked and drove to her place. I arrived half an hour later and kept calling, but her phone was off. The area wasn't big, so I searched every hotel, including bathhouses. I had a feeling something was wrong. I searched until two or three in the morning, but still couldn't find her. The next day at noon, she called me back, saying her phone died and she went back to the hotel to sleep. The room was run by a local, so her name wasn't on it. Her tone was sincere, and I knew something was wrong, but I could only lie to myself. Later, I found out what happened that night... Sigh... She wasn't with a friend at all; she met up with someone she met online. They had dinner, sang karaoke, and she was afraid I'd call, so she simply turned off her phone. [What follows is her third story, the biggest and most troublesome one. Actually, there are many smaller stories in between. I can only give a brief overview. My writing isn't very good, please forgive me. I just wanted to share it so it might be helpful to you.]

woawang

2013-12-25 15:22:39

Around 5 PM on September 9th, 2009, I was browsing the internet in the office when I accidentally came across a story about a threesome. It felt so real, and I really longed for it. So, I started looking for similar articles online, but I didn't dare tell her. [I'll tell you my story once it's approved. Typing like this is tiring, and if it doesn't get approved, all my typing will be for nothing. I'll cry.]

book214

2013-12-26 10:08:44

Hi woawang, thank you for confiding in me. I understand how you feel. Haha, saying I understand you is more like saying we understand each other. Sometimes I really don't understand what I'm doing. Wouldn't it be better to pretend I don't know anything? Why be so clear-headed? But it's hard to go against my conscience. When women have problems, it's usually due to a few reasons: being playful (lustful, looking for novelty), loneliness (loneliness, seeking solace). In short, it's just dissatisfaction with their husbands and life. If communication is good and there's still a foundation of affection, we can try a different approach to getting along. I don't know if you've seen the follow-up to this post. Now we're slowly healing. To be honest, taking that step will bring many changes. But before making a decision, you must weigh your situation and the consequences. I feel honored that you can be my confidant.

但愿能挽回

2017-02-21 19:24:35

OP, I understand how you feel. My wife is in the same boat. She was swayed by a divorced man and her heart changed. I love her so much. I was the one who encouraged her to chat and make friends online, but in the end, she slept with that man. I found out the first time a few days later, and the second time I asked her to go out. I told her beforehand that she should let me know what she did outside, but she kept it from me many times afterward. She even went to a hotel to see him on her way back from dropping our son off at school in the morning. It's not that I forbid her from having sex with men, I just can't accept her hiding things from me. I admit that I encouraged her to cheat because I watched too many porn sites and had cuckolding fantasies. I regret not knowing about the 69 Paradise platform two years earlier. If I had known about 69 Paradise two years earlier, my wife would have known that dating between husband and wife is a spiritual enrichment, not infidelity. What I encouraged my wife at the time wasn't dating within the circle, but online friends. Those men weren't part of the circle, and they didn't have the principles of those people. We argued about this, and both our families found out. We slept in separate beds for more than two years. In those two years, we had sex, but I didn't go to prostitutes to solve the problem. I only masturbate when I'm feeling unwell. We divorced a week ago. I didn't want a divorce; I love her and can't bear to let her go. But she insisted on the divorce, saying she would never get back together with me and that being with me would cause her constant suffering. So I agreed to the divorce because I couldn't bear to see her suffer. The assets were divided, and she got more than me. I still have hundreds of thousands of yuan in debt. We agreed to each raise one of our two sons, but on the third day after the divorce, she went out to work. She was supposed to leave that day, but I begged her to stay for another day. I said I wanted to see her more. Now I'm raising our sons alone, paying for their tuition and living expenses, and I can barely feed them. The day after the divorce, I asked her if she had had sex in the past two years. She said no. I asked her, and she said she had. Sigh! It's really scary when a woman's heart changes; she's much more ruthless than a man. I couldn't bear to see her suffer when we divorced, so I gave her more of the property and paid for her debts, but I didn't get any appreciation from her. Now she doesn't answer my calls at all, and I don't know where she's working. I love her, and if she comes back in the future, I will still want her, because I truly love her!

采蘑菇的美少妇

2020-09-17 18:21:53

Generally, when a woman cheats on her husband, she won't tell him. My wife was like that back then. Later, I caught her at the hotel entrance and saw that man walking her out with his arm around her. Only then did she admit to being cheated on. Bro, you don't have any real evidence. You think you can catch her cheating based on just a few text messages? You're so naive.