2016-02-16 11:38:07

He lives in Chaoyang District, Beijing, but he's not always in Beijing; he often travels to Jiangsu and Zhejiang.

独瞰西湖

2016-02-16 12:16:02

My friend's situation is somewhat similar to mine. It's about sticking to your principles and pursuits. Although I'm still a bit wavering, I'll naturally persevere. Stay true to yourself and pursue happiness. He's a high-level member, so I'd like to add him as a friend to exchange some insights and experiences. Thanks!

诗意浓浓

2016-02-16 13:45:23

These are very honest words!

zhangwill93154

2016-02-16 13:55:45

I feel they still haven't truly understood the essence of loving couples seeking single men!

HandLonely

2016-02-16 14:31:24

I really like the sense of relief and ease that shines through your writing. It's a pleasure to meet you, Shandong couple.

fanfu1977

2016-02-16 15:49:20

Beijing's addition

守望夫妻

2016-02-16 17:58:04

I dare not go to Chaoyang District. The people of Chaoyang are omnipotent.

叶锦添

2016-02-16 23:44:15

This is still an advertisement.

良性循环

2016-02-17 13:42:45

Life is short, and how much can any of us experience? Who can say for sure? Stay true to yourself, pursue what you seek in this world, and even the mundane can be wonderful. Thumbs up!

晨瑜瑶

2016-02-18 14:59:47

Add me

释放的狼

2016-02-18 17:58:30

The correct understanding of human nature

2016-02-26 19:32:05

You've completely disgraced me... unable to get an erection and making excuses... I told you you'd end up feeling even more empty; the stimulation was definitely there. You gain some things, you lose others. This stimulation will torment you from time to time. Desire can be controlled, but the climax has already occurred. In my opinion, a single man in a threesome with a married couple is merely a "tool," provided they are a real couple. Women are more emotional, and their moral burden is far heavier than men's. PS: Waiting for your next post.

2016-02-26 19:37:18

Life is short, yet we often worry about a thousand years. Days are short and nights are long, so why not light a candle and wander? It's all about mindset and choice.

2016-02-28 21:19:08

@Coco, everything sounds so unpleasant coming from your mouth... It's exciting, but not to the point of addiction, so the so-called emptiness is completely unfounded. As for emotions and morality, everyone has their own scale, and the standards differ. It's difficult to force someone else's scale to change; the key is to find the right scale. When you realize life is short, the scale will naturally tilt, or remain unchanged—it's a personal choice. Still posting? Forget it... Work is busy, and even when you're not, there's so much space; you could spend that much time traveling. Writing a bunch of sentimental articles is too pretentious; just copy a few of the same boring ads, wouldn't that be much better? Actually, I have quite a bit of experience with "desire can be controlled," but I'll only post sentimental articles when I'm in the mood. You're here looking for answers, haven't you found them yet? Statistically, 100 samples should be enough... Like I said, with so much time, why not travel more, or simply step into the world?

2016-02-28 21:32:55

What do you mean by saying that things become unpleasant when I talk about them? You were just nervous and didn't get hard, so why are you blaming me? Your mindset and attitude are different, so naturally you'll see my words differently.

2016-02-28 22:07:59

Are you putting on a show? Are you clowns hired by the monkeys?

2016-03-01 12:53:19

@蔻蔻 I really can't agree with the tool theory. There's a guy upstairs who's messing around with our QQ account, have you sorted out yours yet? Check your private messages. My personal opinion is to the left; there's no need to sensationalize.

2016-03-01 13:04:29

OP, do you even know how to talk?! Since you know someone is trying to attract attention, why bother playing these word games with them? Aren't you trying to attract attention too? I originally thought highly educated people must have high moral character, but you've just exposed it all!

2016-03-01 13:29:34

Um, I'm just being attention-seeking, the heavy industry guy is being attention-seeking too, we're all being attention-seeking. We're so boring, but we weren't hired by the monkey, we're just clowns brought in by the monkey. Also, we're not very classy, so don't take it personally. Goodbye, don't be angry, and don't bother seeing us off.

逍遥子-69

2016-03-01 15:55:48

Haha, this discussion is quite interesting. I hope you two continue, and everyone is welcome to share their opinions. Such lively interaction is rare in this amusement park. I speculate that in reality, most interactions involve couples and single men. Both sides have needs, but their mindsets differ. Men primarily seek stimulation, while women's feelings are more complex. My wife and I have discussed this; there's an element of desire, but she also craves tenderness, romance, and so on. This is generally achievable only when both parties are familiar with each other, but prolonged interaction between complete strangers is unrealistic. This is a contradiction. Therefore, the ideal of couples engaging in friendships is often far from reality, which is a bit of a shame!

landai

2016-03-01 19:16:12

I support your mindset in this article; after all, a single man isn't a gigolo.

乐乐4505

2016-03-01 21:05:55

I was hoping to find you, but it seems that won't work out.

2016-03-02 09:57:10

Haha, farewell, don't be angry, I won't see you off. Coco, you did it!

2016-03-02 10:33:19

@Coco I really can't help but complain. Could you simplify my name to "Heavy Sword" instead of "Heavy Industry"? While your abbreviation conforms to most rules, it completely ruins the imagery. "Heavy Sword" evokes the image of a chivalrous hero, while "Heavy Industry" sounds like something from a primitive stage of society... This girl is really blunt and outspoken. I've been ignoring that dog because I figured if it barks at you, you can't argue with it. By the way, I recently had a sudden urge to create a group for experienced couples and single men. Single men must have at least a bachelor's degree. Single women are excluded. If single women want to join, please form a group. I think women have an advantage; as long as they're not picky, finding a man is too easy. So there's no need to corrupt single women, hence the ban on single women. Okay, I admit I'm being a bit crazy. My finances are gradually becoming more independent, so I'm having more and more interesting ideas. Let's chat privately sometime, haha.

南迦巴瓦峰

2016-03-02 10:37:51

Since everyone has different starting points, the debate could be even more grand. I'm in position now, ready to learn!