走进春秋

2016-06-16 11:54:26

My husband is just like yours.

人虫

2016-06-16 12:45:30

Can we talk?

ldq2003

2016-06-16 20:36:30

We can get in touch.

cyj197228

2016-06-16 23:21:27

You can also find a lover to distract yourself.

上海幸福F7

2016-06-17 03:42:18

Can I add you on QQ?

80后夫妻交友

2016-06-17 06:27:10

The real thoughts, this inner turmoil... it's like opium...

飞翔的猫

2016-06-17 10:05:48

As long as you and your spouse are honest with each other, there won't be any problems. My wife also has several lovers now, and she recently started dating a new one. They're currently talking and planning to find an opportunity to have some fun together next month.

共享生活3

2016-06-17 13:11:42

It's the same with my husband.

shj123

2016-06-17 15:09:35

I feel exactly the same way. My situation is basically the same as yours. I enjoy cuckolding, I enjoy the thrill and excitement it brings me when she cheats on me, but I always feel a pang of sadness inside.

XxBY

2016-06-18 10:09:35

Same as the same

qhc3p

2016-06-18 11:48:57

This is normal; I've been there, just like you. You can read my blog and posts in your spare time; hopefully, they'll offer some inspiration…

xu226688

2016-06-18 18:08:09

My level is too low to add you guys. If you're a couple with similar interests, feel free to add me so we can chat.

08tued

2016-06-19 15:45:38

Many people have probably gone through this process, and I've been there too. A wife's little tricks are crucial in this situation. Can we add each other and chat?

绿色LKJ

2016-06-21 06:04:52

I feel the same way you do: I get excited when I have sex with my wife, but regret it afterwards.

暗香暗香

2016-06-21 08:53:09

I feel similarly to you. My wife is having sex with her boss, and after I'm done, I don't want her to go to bed with him. But after a day or two, I also want them to have sex together. It's a very conflicting feeling.

马学刚

2017-01-12 08:09:54

Always remember: As long as my wife is happy!

追逐快乐的夫妻

2017-01-14 18:22:44

I feel the same way. It speaks for everyone. My wife has been begging me these past few days to go to Mudanjiang to have sex with her lover. After I finished, I didn't want her to go.

wda3

2017-01-17 10:53:17

Reposting an article about the feeling of waiting for a date with your wife: What's it like to wait? It varies from person to person. For me, it's a swelling, intense jealousy. My mind is racing, I'm completely distracted, and nothing can pull me out of this mix of love and jealousy. When this jealousy becomes unbearable, I have to masturbate to arouse myself. Only then can the jealousy transform into a kind of intoxicating stimulation. At this moment, images of my wife passionately entwined with someone else flash through my mind. Although it's imagined, it feels more real than reality, more exciting than doing it myself. These images further deepen the intoxication, pushing me to new heights, enjoying unparalleled pleasure. At this moment, you absolutely mustn't let yourself ejaculate prematurely, otherwise you'll fall into an abyss of jealousy. You'll feel lost and restless for the time that follows. (The refractory period after ejaculation can cause a person to lose interest in sex, their partner, and sexual activity for a period of time, even developing aversion. This prevents the continuation of sexual activity and pleasure. This problem doesn't occur if you don't ejaculate.) You'll wait a long time in sadness and regret, like a statue waiting for its wife, stagnant and helpless—it's so pitiful. Therefore, you must maintain excitement but not let yourself go. Because without ejaculation, the passionate impulse will always exist, and this impulse will create a confusing stimulation and produce immense pleasure. When your beloved wife can call you, you'll feel like you've grasped a lifeline, like seeing a light in the darkness. That joy, that happiness, that eagerness to know your beloved wife's feelings—it's truly indescribable. You look forward to immediately holding her in your arms, smelling the fragrance of her hair, listening to her whispered stories, and eagerly reliving with her the trials she just went through. The moment she walks in, you'll hold her tightly, kiss her passionately, as if afraid she'll leave you, experiencing the happiness of something lost and then regained (you'll cherish your lover even more because of this), and also meaningfully declaring your ownership. You'll reach for the moisture you crave, caressing the freshly moistened skin. At this moment, love will fill the entire space, and you can let loose, sharing paradise with your lover. This is how I truly feel; I wonder what everyone else feels? Let's share!

lxing08

2017-02-12 00:30:54

The guy upstairs gave a very insightful summary; it deserves a dedicated thread.

舔舔想你

2017-02-12 06:50:27

Sympathy

chales888

2017-02-13 13:41:11

wda3: That's awesome, bro. "Experiencing the happiness of something lost and then regained (you'll cherish your lover even more because of it), and also meaningfully declaring your sovereignty."

lphaha1

2017-06-21 10:27:36

wda3's reply was excellent.

配合一下

2017-09-26 07:58:15

As long as you're happy!

南昌优秀夫妻

2018-02-20 00:57:53

It will get better naturally over time and with more repetitions.

邯郸夫妻80

2018-08-03 22:29:00

The thoughts are exactly the same; when lust takes over, he begs his wife to have sex with his boss. He especially wants to fuck his wife's cunt that's just been fucked by someone else. But after ejaculating, he doesn't want to anymore, only to want to again a few days later... Right now, he really wants to, "My wife is having sex with her boss right now, and when she gets back, I'll lick her cunt that's just been fucked."

大海的乐园

2018-11-16 09:23:50

Before ejaculation, he's as lewd as a demon; after ejaculation, he's as holy as a Buddha. Let your wife have sex with her lover a few more times, and she won't feel that way anymore.

xzwb

2019-09-18 04:19:02

When the cuckoldry is truly severe and intense, this kind of mentality disappears. I wish them well. As long as the relationship doesn't involve marriage, both men and women can love two people simultaneously; there's no contradiction. I agree. I like the idea of a wife having a stable, long-term lover while being cuckolded; I dislike blatant lust.

xzwb

2019-09-18 12:35:58

@WalkingIntoSpringandAutumn I like this kind of emotionally invested cuckolding, and I abhor blatant sexual separation based on lust.

盘古来了

2019-09-27 13:27:35

@xzwb I think the same way. How can a man who doesn't love his wife accept having his body played with?

dbmch

2022-09-27 22:24:38

It's always like this. My wife's oral sex is amazing, and I often tell her to swallow my semen while she's giving me oral sex. She'll moan and say okay, but every time she finishes, I immediately change my mind and tell her not to swallow it, to spit it out! Haha.