神棍先生

2017-08-23 02:30:34

Dude, I can only say you're unlucky. You even got tricked while trying to have a threesome. But it's okay, you got what you wanted, so there's no need to dwell on it. Just be careful that your wife doesn't have an emotional affair and doesn't rekindle her relationship with her ex-boyfriend, which could affect your family.

李先生1

2017-08-23 09:54:42

I also want to be cheated on.

YY1971

2017-08-23 10:38:09

This is because you were too hasty. Best wishes to you both. Have fun and don't let it affect your family. Looking to connect with friends in Tianjin.

xuzh198

2017-08-23 11:42:23

My situation is similar to yours. I'm not handsome, and I don't have any muscles. I've never been in a relationship before, and I met my wife through a blind date. One day, after she gave birth to my child, I caught her chatting with her ex-boyfriend, calling each other "husband" and "wife" (she didn't know I saw it at the time). After I talked to her about it, she said she wouldn't contact me again, but I could clearly feel that she was more wary of me. Even when I helped her with a phone problem, she asked if I had downloaded any monitoring software. I was speechless. There's never been much passion in our relationship, which is why we came to 69 (a dating website), hoping to make our lives more colorful. After reading your post, I'm starting to hesitate... Now that I think about it, I had been encouraging her to find a casual sex partner, and she quickly accepted this idea. However, she hasn't acted on it (at least not with me). From our chat history, I know it's because she's afraid I'll find out and tell her family. After reading your post, I realize my family situation isn't stable, and I should consider putting off this idea of being cuckolded! At the very least, I need to have her firmly in my grasp, ensuring she can never leave me, before I can proceed further. I don't want to ruin this family because of a moment of impulsiveness!

xuzh198

2017-08-23 11:51:39

My wife is from a rural area and only graduated from junior high school, so she shouldn't be easily receptive to this kind of information. But she accepted it quite quickly, which surprised me. At first, I was smug, thinking I was very persuasive. Now I'm starting to doubt if my situation is the same as yours... My wife always finds an excuse to take the kids back to her hometown (her ex-boyfriend lives there, and a round trip by train costs over 1000 yuan; she's usually very frugal, but she doesn't skimp on the train fare). I work for a state-owned enterprise and can't easily take time off to go back and be with her, so I don't see her for at least four months every year. After she goes back, we almost never contact each other, and I have no idea what she does. I can't directly confront her about this; what if she really just went home to have fun?

启动中

2017-08-23 14:37:08

Whether it's emotional infidelity or physical infidelity, it's impossible to prevent. It's not the theft itself that's worrisome, it's having someone eyeing you.

一路一天一个签

2017-08-23 17:00:40

Well written, keep it up!

一路一天一个签

2017-08-23 21:41:03

Judging from your wife's behavior during the 3P, it was a result of her giving up on herself, because you rushed into the 3P without addressing her concerns.

共享快乐人生

2017-08-30 13:11:33

Happiness is built on the foundation of a stable relationship between husband and wife; neither should be neglected in favor of the other.

adnilyl

2017-08-30 19:19:16

xuzh198: One reason your wife frequently goes back to her hometown is that man; another reason, if your wife is a full-time housewife, is that she's unfamiliar with the place and wants to go home to feel the warmth of her own family. If your wife isn't a full-time housewife and frequently goes back, then that factor doesn't apply. Also, based on my observations of people around me, it's easier to take leave from state-owned enterprises than private companies. If your wife is going back home frequently because of her boyfriend, then you should ask yourself: 1. Have you given your wife warmth and love, such as helping with housework, buying her gifts, taking her out, etc.? 2. If she's a full-time housewife, you should try to shift her attention and see if she can find a less demanding job. 3. If this has already happened, don't panic or argue, because she must have had advantages for marrying you, such as having a house and a respectable job. If she's with her boyfriend, isn't he more considerate?

gg512

2017-09-01 05:48:59

A couple from Wuhan; interested parties are welcome to contact them!

南昌优秀夫妻

2018-01-25 00:14:27

Speechless

abcdefg

2018-02-13 21:38:53

Ha, ha, so true.

武汉小凉夫妻

2021-12-08 00:23:26

This is so realistic, not just in its psychological descriptions. I feel my wife is quite similar to yours. We haven't actually started anything yet, but she seems different from the heroines in other people's success stories online. We're both from Wuhan; I hope we can connect sometime.