2018-01-27 19:42:50
I think you should talk to your wife about your true thoughts and concerns. Women are emotional creatures; they generally won't sleep with someone if they don't have feelings for them. If you let things continue like this, one day you might become someone your wife can dispensable.93254

2018-01-27 19:52:31
It's good to have someone to take care of your wife! You should explain your concerns to your wife. It shouldn't affect your family and children. After all, this is China, and you can't let your elders, friends, or acquaintances know. Your parents can't handle the situation like we can. Having fun is fine, but don't expose it; the consequences can be severe.93254

2018-01-27 21:19:39
You can have a threesome! You'll like it, and your wife will love you even more.93254

2018-01-27 21:25:22
Both sides just need to be careful.93254

2018-01-27 23:14:05
Brother, I can tell you love your woman very much. If there's anything on your mind, have a good talk with your wife! I believe she loves you too and wants to communicate and have heart-to-heart talks with you as a couple.93254

2018-01-27 23:17:15
If your wife is having sex with her lover behind your back, it means she has betrayed your marriage vows and abandoned your family. You should just let go of this kind of woman and let her go!93254

2018-01-28 01:37:31
As long as your wife is honest with you and doesn't hide anything, and it doesn't affect your relationship, it's perfectly fine for them to continue their relationship. Besides, you're often away on business trips, so it's good that he can take care of your wife.93254

2018-01-28 01:59:33
We could have a threesome, my wife and I are in a similar situation to you, then a threesome, and later wife swapping. After all that happened, there was no distance between us.93254

2018-01-28 02:45:34
Can find someone for a 3P?93254

2018-01-28 04:31:48
I should get a divorce immediately. Even if it's a 69-year-old online acquaintance, shouldn't I know if he's having an affair?93254

2018-01-28 09:51:48
After discovering the truth about sex, your perspective will change. From your description, you will love each other more and have more fun in your life together. However, sometimes you still need to protect your privacy.93254

2018-01-28 10:09:36
The key is to be open-minded. As long as it doesn't affect the family and makes my wife happy, that's all that matters. I even encourage my wife to have a lover!93254

2018-01-28 11:54:02
As you gradually become involved, you'll find that doing so can promote a better relationship between husband and wife. Moreover, if handled properly, it won't affect either of your families. Over time, you'll find that your wife's skills in bed are getting better and better, and you'll start to enjoy doing it this way.93254

2018-01-28 12:08:04
This shows you love your wife and family very much. My wife also had a lover while I was away, but I haven't confronted her about it yet. As long as it doesn't threaten the family, I think it's okay to give her some freedom. Women are emotional.93254

2018-01-28 13:47:00
Since I can't use it all myself, what's wrong with letting someone else use it?93254

2018-01-30 00:37:19
You two have a good relationship; you can communicate more and talk about anything.93254

2018-01-30 21:46:17
Have a good talk with your wife and let her know your thoughts and concerns. After all, neither of you wants your family to be affected. Wives cheating happens every day; try to take it easy.93254

2018-01-31 23:20:12
Next, you can take her to a threesome.93254

2018-02-01 07:16:05
A good man is generous.93254

2018-02-01 07:42:48
You really need to have a serious talk, otherwise, if it drags on, you'll really lose out. If that man gets divorced, she might get divorced too, and in the end, it'll be you and the child who suffer. All sex on 69.com is based on mutual knowledge; what you're doing is clandestine. So you need to be careful.93254

2018-02-01 08:24:47
Your situation is almost exactly the same as mine: 30 years old, living apart, male colleague, allowed to continue seeing each other, afraid to text when I get home for fear of running into him, etc. The only difference is that we've actually increased the frequency of our intimacy. I prefer intimacy when my wife still has traces of another man's fluids inside her.93254

2018-02-01 08:31:12
Oh, and one more thing I should remind you: in the future, you'll still need to cover for her. That's how I did it, so my wife's relationship with her lover for over 20 years, and later her affairs with six or seven friends, all went completely undetected and flawless.93254

2018-02-01 10:50:54
In today's society, such things are nothing new. It's just a matter of personal opinion. If you really can't stand it anymore, then I advise you to leave her as soon as possible and give yourself a chance. If you still love her, then you should choose to negotiate openly. Don't just keep tolerating her, or you'll only end up hurting yourself.93254

2018-02-12 16:57:50
Since it's already happened, enjoy the excitement and benefits it brings. Don't neglect your wife because of it. Share her body, and hold onto her heart.93254

2018-08-21 23:47:30
You're often away from him, yet he still helps her; you should thank him and remind them to be mindful of confidentiality and security. As for her, you should be even more grateful to her for trusting you and not hiding anything from you; countless men have been cuckolded without ever knowing.93254

2019-08-26 06:26:54
It would be great if it were developed.93254

2019-10-01 04:15:49
@Did you successfully experience love?93254
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