2018-02-24 01:01:22

It's difficult, and hard to handle. I suggest you don't break the ice; just keep it to yourselves.

2018-02-24 01:08:48

Treat your wife well, and even better. First, win her heart and prevent the family from breaking up. Things will fall into place naturally over time. Also, it's possible for a woman to love two or more men at the same time. If your wife loves both of you, she won't leave you.

自然的最美丽

2018-02-24 02:56:02

It's better to be direct, since it's a close relationship.

zilonghuzi

2018-02-24 03:28:03

Set a trap, lure them into a snare.

一棵小树天天绿

2018-02-24 09:23:43

Add me and let's chat.

老实与现实

2018-02-24 10:46:34

Let's meet up for a meal and have a chat.

刺激与快乐

2018-02-24 11:20:29

My advice is that you shouldn't go to see him. If you do, it will be awkward for both of you. If you express your true feelings and want him to continue his relationship with your wife, will he stop coming to your house so frequently without any restraint, or will there be other unforeseen circumstances? Just keep it to yourself. Tell your wife that you love her very much, love your family, and want her to be happy. You don't object to her seeing her lover, but you hope it can be kept more secret, especially since the children are growing up, and you hope she will love your family even more. I think your wife will behave better after she finds out.

pinsaluoyan

2018-02-24 16:57:34

The person upstairs makes a good point.

性福在路上

2018-02-24 23:35:17

I agree with the comment above; it's safer to have your wife involved if you're considering it.

天边寒冰

2018-02-26 21:29:48

Going through my wife is the safest way; I just need to communicate with her more.

为爱疯狂1714

2018-02-28 00:20:40

Our situation is the same; I'm also away from home most of the time. Just pretend you don't know anything about your wife and her lover; I'm too lazy to ask them anymore. As long as my wife still loves me and the kids, that's enough.

jq976

2018-02-28 00:23:43

Excitement and Pleasure: 2018-02-24 11:20:29 My advice is that you shouldn't go to him. If you do, it will be awkward for both of you. If you express your true feelings and want him to continue seeing your wife, will he stop coming to your house frequently without any scruples, or will there be other unforeseen situations? Just keep it to yourself. Tell your wife that you love her very much, love this family, and hope she is happy. You don't object to her seeing her lover, but you hope she can keep it more secret, since the children are growing up and you hope she will love this family even more. I think your wife will behave better after she finds out. I support this friend's idea.

tank9700

2018-03-04 13:22:33

It depends on what kind of person her lover is. If he is a rule-abiding person, you can try to communicate with him. If he is a disrespectful person, it is best to advise your wife to leave.

大海的乐园

2018-03-08 12:04:58

I travel frequently for work, and my wife recently met a man ten years older than her. He's from our local area and works for a government-affiliated institution. My wife likes him a lot; they've hugged and kissed, but they probably haven't slept together yet. I'm worried this might harm our family, especially since we live in a small county and our social circle is limited.