在在在123
2019-03-20 15:12:00
You need to rotate the staff frequently; you can't keep using the same person.92430

爱莲莲
2019-03-20 18:39:41
It's easy to say. I guarantee things will cool down in three years. But if things cross the line, I won't be able to resist for even three days. You should pay attention if your wife's heart isn't with you anymore. I know this all too well. When she's being casual and perfunctory with me, and doesn't listen to me, she'll be chatting endlessly with her friends, all lovey-dovey.92430

云端一翁
2019-03-20 19:36:46
Things tend to backfire when they reach their extremes. Letting them indulge for a while longer will make them both tired of each other once the novelty wears off. This is similar to the principle of Yu the Great controlling the floods. The more you try to control someone, the more they will resist, and the more inseparable they will become. So what you need to do is not to block them, but to let things flow! This is just my personal opinion.92430

真相禁区
2019-03-20 19:37:08
cautious92430

xzqhdb
2019-03-20 19:42:08
All I can say is, buddy, you're too naive. You've been poisoned by those fantasies, treating other people's fantasies as reality. Whether it's couples swapping or single men having sex with their wives, to avoid trouble, both partners need to be wise enough to have seen through life and understood human nature. You can't say they've achieved a perfect union of body and soul, but that's close enough. Blindly imitating others is like playing with fire, inviting disaster. Secondly, you need to understand what women are, what you want to gain from this game, and whether you can afford to play it. If you're not prepared and blindly offer yourself up, today's outcome is already good.92430

mh1234mh
2019-03-20 21:24:22
Yes, couples can fantasize and imagine during sex to flirt, but they can't...92430

&听潮&
2019-03-20 22:55:57
@xzqhdb This brother is right. Be careful when having affairs; taking too big a step can lead to disaster.92430

一字并肩王
2019-03-20 23:00:28
That's normal. Two people having an affair are bound to be inseparable. When my mistress is with me, she's like your wife. I can fuck her however I want, play with her however I want, and she'll enjoy it immensely. She'll lick my feet and my asshole. I'll lead her around on the floor like a bitch, and I'll do it endlessly. A mistress is definitely different from a husband. The key is that your cuckoldry mentality isn't strong enough. You just want someone else to fuck you. If they won't let you, you want someone else to unlock positions. Only when you can't have it is it exciting and satisfying. Your legal husband gets nothing like that. He might even have to serve you and clean up the mess. You let your cheap mistress fuck your legal wife as she pleases. Isn't that the biggest thrill of cuckoldry?92430

YY1971
2019-03-21 13:15:36
Prioritize family92430

a1247
2019-03-21 17:06:36
It's not that I'm reluctant to let go, or that I can't let go; it's that my family is almost unable to function normally. We can't even maintain a semblance of normalcy. The kids won't pick me up, I don't care if I cook or not, and I call them the moment I see them. I'm becoming increasingly unreasonable in front of the kids. To those who say I'm too attached, don't your families have these normal things to do? And this isn't just affecting my family; it's affecting two families.92430

xzqhdb
2019-03-21 21:56:27
Brother, you've got a really big heart. All games are built on a foundation of equality and respect. The key point is that this has to be called a game, a game that you and your wife participate in together. Games have rules. What you're sharing has gone beyond the realm of a game. Your wife is having an affair. You should understand what that means, right? Other wives have affairs behind someone's back, secretly. Your wife is openly having affairs, she doesn't take you, her husband, seriously at all, she doesn't care about her family. And when you ask her about it, she says you don't love her. Brother, I can only say you're incredibly thick-skinned. You really don't understand women. Once something is done, going back to the way things were is basically impossible. Yes, your wife is now a shameless, worthless piece of trash. That doesn't matter, because half the blame for her current situation lies with you. What you need to do now is decide whether you want to remain a spineless bastard for the rest of your life or stand up with dignity. If you want to continue like this, then say nothing, look at nothing, think nothing. Take care of the children and the family, and don't forget your responsibilities. If you don't want to be a bastard, then say nothing, get a divorce immediately, take the children and live alone, fulfill your responsibilities as a father, and don't cause trouble. Making trouble will only make you lose face and ruin your children's future dignity.92430

老婆叫琳琳
2019-03-21 23:08:25
Your best course of action now is to get rid of his wife immediately. You need to be careful not to harm her, understand? You'll both lose face, let's see if he dares to ignore you like that again. If you can't even do this, then get a divorce. Having a woman like that is harmful to the children and the family in every way.92430

a1247
2019-03-22 10:32:57
His wife knows nothing about this, and now he's telling me to seduce her however I want.92430

a1247
2019-03-22 10:38:34
But I feel like even if I slept with his wife, it wouldn't make any difference. My wife has already lost her mind, and I'm so worried.92430

jedie55
2019-03-22 12:26:02
As long as the stability of the family and her enjoyment are guaranteed, there shouldn't be any major problems. Some of the methods you mentioned, like using a few fingers or slapping her buttocks… you might be reluctant to do them, but your wife enjoys them, finding them pleasurable and stimulating. That's not a problem. Perhaps your wife simply prefers this kind of wild sexual experience.92430

飞翔的猫
2019-03-22 12:34:24
Whether you're looking for a single man or a couple, remember never to look for someone close to you, never to look for someone you know well, and it's best to look for someone from out of town! People have feelings, and it's easy to lose control if you have too much contact with someone you know well, and if something happens, you won't be able to shake them off.92430

飞翔的猫
2019-03-22 12:57:41
Make sure you find someone from out of town, and don't let them know your real name, address, or job! Contact them occasionally for fun, then go home separately and don't interfere with each other's lives. In your wife's situation, those two are really hooked up; your friend is a jerk, and your wife is unreliable. Have a serious talk with both of them, don't drag it out. If you can make it work, great; if not, get a divorce! Don't be a fool!92430

老婆叫琳琳
2019-03-22 19:47:14
The original poster is quite interesting. What do you mean by "sleeping with his wife is meaningless"? It's about restraint, you know? Restraint reduces the probability of an accident, right? At least it lets your trashy friend know you also have the ability to destroy his family. Do you really not want to do anything else, like the two guys above said, acting like a spineless coward, a short-sighted fool? Only if your friend takes you seriously will you have any hope of breaking this deadlock. I'm only saying this because we're from the same hometown.92430

轻点儿
2019-03-23 16:53:51
First, I think you really should sleep with his wife. "His wife's name is Linlin" is right, it has a restraining effect. Second, try to be more open-minded; after all, his wife got sexual pleasure. Actually, infidelity is the same for men and women. When I go out for casual sex, I don't hesitate to play with those girls (okay, my penis isn't that big, haha). Conversely, women are the same. My wife puts in much more effort serving her lover than she does with me; she's basically uninhibited.92430

福大人
2019-03-23 20:17:47
My wife had sex with a single man who was actually quite handsome, and she wanted to spend the night with him alone. I firmly refused.92430

zsh1921
2019-03-24 14:13:17
Find her someone else, and tell your wife you're worried she'll ruin things, and then if she becomes too loose, you won't be able to have sex with her anymore.92430

a1247
2019-03-25 20:53:32
The crisis is basically over. Thanks to my wife for calling Linlin her buddy.92430

gao888
2019-03-26 11:25:26
The key is mindset. If you can see things clearly, it's heaven; if you can't, it's hell.92430

a1247
2019-03-27 22:51:07
@What kind of clothes are those Suzhou couple wearing? Could you give me some pointers?92430

南昌优秀夫妻
2019-04-13 10:07:01
If you want to have sex with your wife, you have to be willing to let go. It's perfectly normal for lovers to have feelings for each other; mating without feelings is just animalistic, isn't it? You have to be willing to let your wife and lover date, become husband and wife, or even have her as a concubine. But don't worry, usually lovers are inseparable at first, wanting to be together 24/7. But later, the passion fades, and your wife will return to her family and husband. The key is that you have to be magnanimous and open-minded. You should actively provide them with convenience and services; that's true love. Otherwise, it's selfishness. Every woman likes to be abused; there's no way around it. That's just how women are. My wife is often abused by a lover, but she loves him the most. As long as your wife is willing, don't interfere. You need to let her know that her husband is the one who loves her the most and will never abandon her. When she's had her fill of playing around, hurt, and tired, she'll naturally return to her family. This is normal. Two people having an affair are bound to be inseparable. My wife is the same. She puts in far more effort serving her lover than she does with me. She's basically uninhibited; her lover can do whatever he wants to her, and she enjoys it immensely. She licks his feet and anus, and he makes her crawl on the floor like a bitch, endlessly. A lover is definitely different from a husband. The key is that the cuckold's mentality is strong enough. She wants someone else to have sex with her, not her. She needs someone else to unlock positions for her to feel excited. Her husband gets nothing, and she even makes him serve her, clean up the mess, and have sex with her as he pleases. Isn't that the biggest thrill for a cuckold?92430

任我行1000
2019-04-14 02:24:56
Make sure to find someone you don't know! Doing it a few times a year is enough. That's true, I really wouldn't touch my own wife, and I only ever use two fingers at most.92430

向上天天69
2019-04-27 08:17:00
Others do good things and make their wives happy, so I'll do even better and make my wife even happier. Time will tell. If I love her, I'll give her the best.92430

zuiai69w
2019-05-07 00:22:17
Having fun is fine, but it shouldn't affect the family. My wife has had far more affairs with her lover than I have, but it has never affected the family.92430

thunderfox
2019-05-17 23:56:06
Four fingers inside, and your wife is still enjoying it? Are you sure this isn't made up?92430

rangwoyici1
2019-05-23 13:20:12
The four fingers inside are real; I've played with them.92430

美好的体验
2019-06-24 05:18:32
You wouldn't even lay a hand on your wife, yet she willingly becomes someone else's plaything. You'll never be able to sleep with her like her lover did. It's a woman's nature; she's only open and uninhibited in front of others. There's no way around it…92430

iqslel
2019-10-26 17:41:25
So true, I feel for the original poster... It's a bittersweet experience!92430

大叔不油腻
2020-03-28 07:37:21
This game has principles and bottom lines; the primary choice is never to play with acquaintances. The consequences are endless. Once it reaches this point, it's very difficult to back down. This game should stop immediately.92430

这只大
2020-05-28 22:27:04
A real woman with a sexy wife92430

清水无香
2022-03-15 05:11:34
Women have a masochistic streak to some extent.92430

夫妻一起游
2022-04-16 07:52:02
Your wife enjoys being abused; perhaps you've been too gentle with her!92430

q3067
2022-05-02 03:20:04
My wife is always clinging to her ex-boyfriend, whether in public or in private. She even tells others that I like her this way and that she has always wanted to have a child with her ex-boyfriend.92430

指尖上
2022-05-02 21:39:32
Don't ask acquaintances, don't ask locals.92430

a1247
2022-05-14 22:57:43
@q3067 Awesome92430
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