晓晓要开心

2021-04-20 15:33:28

Men should think more positively; it's no big deal. As long as his heart is with you, there won't be any major problems. Your future life will be happier, believe me.

幸福联欢

2021-04-20 17:17:15

You must be upfront with her to understand the situation and her feelings! It's true that women in long-distance relationships often find it hard to bear loneliness. The key is to determine whether she's more interested in sex or in the relationship before making a decision. Also, ending the long-distance relationship might involve your wife changing jobs and distancing herself from that colleague and contact!

宠妻成瘾

2021-04-20 18:55:07

@HappyGathering Thanks for your guidance, brother. We will definitely handle this properly.

宠妻成瘾

2021-04-20 18:55:48

@HappyGathering Thank you for your suggestion, I will definitely consider it carefully!

宠妻成瘾

2021-04-21 01:02:23

@小黑猫25 Not only is it comfortable, but the family is falling apart, and he's a bachelor.

夫妻6030

2021-04-21 09:41:43

@My wife is doing part-time work just like you

幸福联欢

2021-04-22 00:45:22

@Addicted to Pampering His Wife is a bachelor, that's not good. Most men who want to sleep with women will take the opportunity and go for it. But this man and your wife seem to be dating like young people, with gifts, help, and a gradual approach. Unlike experienced men who only want to sleep with women, he's playing with your wife's emotions, and she seems to be taking it. This indicates she has feelings and liking, but it can't be called love yet. But with his repeated penetration, it's probably love. Isn't it said that the vagina is the gateway to a woman's heart? It's not too late. End the long-distance relationship immediately, and get your wife to change jobs to completely cut off all contact with that man, both emotionally and practically. You must communicate with your wife, reason with her, and explain the consequences. Your wife probably thinks she can control herself and says she's just playing around, but if you say women are emotional, she might not be able to control herself later. Your wife thinks you're just playing around, but he doesn't. He thinks that if love gets involved and causes chaos, everyone will know, the family will break up, his reputation will be ruined, and most importantly, the children will be ashamed and laughed at, becoming withdrawn and hurt. You absolutely must work on your wife's mindset and explain the consequences. Even if it's a cuckold or a casual fling, this person is definitely not a suitable candidate. A suitable candidate is someone you have direct contact with and control over.

宠妻成瘾

2021-04-22 01:47:06

@HappyGathering Thank you so much, brother, for writing so many words to comfort me. It's really not easy, thank you for your hard work! My sincerest thanks. My wife has been with me these past two days, and we've been making love whenever we have time. Tonight we even did it!

宠妻成瘾

2021-04-22 01:50:35

Twice, for almost two hours in total, my wife was exhausted, but I still hadn't ejaculated. My wife said she'd never felt so good. I wanted more, but my wife couldn't take it anymore. She said the person who gave the gift was someone else, it was just reciprocity. You're right, they seem to be playing with each other's feelings. My wife respects that man very much and has never spoken ill of him in front of me. I'm trying to get my wife back together with him, to escape this predicament.

九尾狐TT

2021-04-22 09:10:41

It made me a little scared, and I'm not too brave to play anymore.

渡孩.123

2021-04-22 11:39:16

@HappyGathering

潜水员2

2021-04-24 00:33:10

The surveillance footage explains everything. Your wife deliberately showed it to you to see how much you could tolerate it, testing your limits. Your wife is very calculating! If it weren't for the suggestive things you say during sex, your wife wouldn't have this kind of testing intent. Even if she were cheating, she would be extremely discreet, with no intention of openly confessing. The surveillance footage was deliberately shown to you. If you don't object, then go ahead and do it openly, treating it as a spice in your life; if you get angry and upset, then she'll never say anything suggestive again, keeping quiet, which won't harm the family, since the surveillance shows no sex. You have the option to advance or retreat; your wife is amazing.

以后再也不练剑了

2021-04-24 06:44:48

Cheating is one thing, playing around is another, but developing feelings for someone else is unacceptable.

宠妻成瘾

2021-04-24 12:05:53

I don't understand. She says she doesn't love him, but she actually has feelings for him.

潜水员2

2021-04-25 00:13:15

@Addicted to Pampering His Wife There's definitely some affection involved, just not that deep. If you don't object to their interactions, that would be best—you can have both a lover and a husband. Your wife's true feelings are: as long as it doesn't affect the family, and her husband doesn't object to her having affairs, you're really infatuated! Faced with a choice, one side is her restless heart, the other is her warm family. Your initial reaction was negative; she only suppressed her desires and chose her family. Instead of suppressing it, you should guide her. Life is short; couples should enjoy themselves while they can. You're in a long-distance relationship; how long are you going to let your wife suppress her feelings? As long as it's not public knowledge and doesn't affect the family, what's wrong with having some fun outside?

宠妻成瘾

2021-04-25 09:04:33

@Diver2 The key is colleagues; it would be strange if the whole city wasn't in turmoil.

企鹅之缘

2021-04-25 09:57:55

Bro, you posted in the wrong forum.

韩风2018

2021-04-28 10:41:43

Hello friend, actually your thoughts are the same as mine. I have a cuckold's mentality, but I don't want my wife to have feelings for someone else; it can only be pure sex. My wife had back pain before, so she went for a massage. The masseur was blind. After about seven or eight massages, the masseur kissed my wife, and she gradually started to like that feeling. Actually, my wife is quite conservative; she only wants to be in one position in bed and won't kiss me. With my encouragement, she slowly accepted the masseur. The first time he kissed my wife, she told me, "My penis was hard all night. I felt so excited, but also a little heartbroken. I couldn't control myself from thinking about it. I wanted them to take it further, but I didn't want them to have feelings for each other." I usually took my wife to the massage parlor. After the massage, she would tell me about what happened. Slowly, it went from a kiss on the cheek to a hug, then from a hug to a full kiss... I came for an oil massage, the kind where you take off your shirt from the waist up. Later, for a massage to treat uterine cold, I took off my pants. The first time, the masseuse only took them off up to my pubic hair. The second time, the masseuse said she also wanted to do a uterine cold massage on my thighs, so she took them off all the way down to my knees. My wife told me all of this. She said she was very wet during the massage and that the masseuse's touch felt better than mine. They French kissed once. Because I smoke, my wife never French kisses me. At that moment, I felt like I was worse than a blind person. My wife was willing to kiss her but not me. I felt empty inside, a little unhappy, and wanted a divorce. Later, my wife and I had a fight. My wife said she was done with him, but she was still in contact with him. After we made up, I asked her if she had fallen in love with him. She said no, she just liked the feeling of being pampered, not love. Later, when I wanted to have sex with her, my wife said she didn't feel anything. I got so angry. I love her so much. We were naked together, and she didn't feel anything for me and didn't want to have sex, but she felt something for a masseur she had only known for a month. I felt like I was worse than a blind person. My wife was willing to let him touch her, but she didn't feel anything for her own husband.

韩风2018

2021-04-28 10:47:22

The most painful thing is wanting to spy on my wife's thoughts and feelings, something I can't see or touch. Actually, I just want them to have sex under my complete surveillance, or for me to lead them in having sex. I don't need them to have much affection for each other, just sex.

宠妻成瘾

2021-04-28 13:32:09

Women are not simple-minded; they will tell their lovers everything about their homes.

马学刚

2021-07-16 10:47:13

Divorce is a lose-lose situation! Supporting your wife's infidelity is a win-win situation!

iqslel

2021-08-20 14:05:07

There was CCTV footage to prove it! Physical infidelity is indeed a bittersweet experience! From your description, it's clear she still loves you, which is commendable. Personally, I could accept physical infidelity, but not emotional infidelity. This is a good opportunity to rebuild your relationship; I suggest you forgive her and move on tacitly. Be careful not to bring it up or expose it during future arguments, lest it cause her to become resentful and stop caring about you.

iqslel

2021-08-20 14:06:34

@韩风2018's summary is spot on. If you can clearly distinguish between pampering and love, things can still go on.