ztdh

2017-02-06 12:35:40

Well written, I support it.

dlsd

2017-02-06 13:17:32

Agreed

Jcf678

2017-02-06 14:31:12

That's so well said, I totally understand.

sboy85

2017-02-06 15:10:36

You guys are too honest... To be honest... you should have left immediately after paying the bill... A single man must pay for meals; there's no other reason for a couple to do so! A single man who won't even pay for a meal should just die! Finally, let me say, I'm also a single man, and I've already had three threesomes with three couples! Paying the bill at meals, especially at nicer hotels, is something a single man must do! Of course, there are also many couples who simply won't let the man pay for meals!

快活林张

2017-02-06 15:41:34

It felt like I was there, the writing was very realistic, and the suggestions were good too!

hzjyyp

2017-02-06 16:00:20

The best approach is to get to know each other for a period of time before taking any concrete action.

成都夫妻501

2017-02-06 17:48:18

Is this what you call a well-mannered single man?

thomaslu

2017-02-06 18:08:00

Encountering karmic obstacles

冷枫秋雨

2017-02-06 18:14:06

That's rubbish. Letting someone like that have three minutes is too good for him.

leyuan5257

2017-02-06 19:00:15

Thanks for sharing this helpful post, girl.

同好方言

2017-02-06 20:06:20

Well written.

干先生

2017-02-06 21:57:48

support

chenzhenep

2017-02-06 22:18:57

We live close by, feel free to add me. I'll give you a unique experience.

那一年的冬天

2017-02-07 02:00:35

Well written, I support it.

yin07253

2017-02-07 02:12:32

You should learn more before taking the next step.

释放的狼

2017-02-07 04:37:09

This single man's character is really poor. Your points, which could also be considered suggestions, are very well said.

配合一下

2017-02-07 06:23:36

Choose your friends carefully

南京徐徐多多

2017-02-07 08:50:42

You are a wonderful and considerate wife, but you've encountered a single man with no manners.

三德洛唯奇

2017-02-07 11:25:21

really

stevenbjing

2017-02-07 14:00:41

Hello! I support your point of view. Swapping is for sexual stimulation, but there must also be a connection. There should be a tangible feeling from the other person, as well as some romantic little touches, such as small gifts, paying the bill, etc. Creating a romantic atmosphere is also important. I hope you find someone who makes you happy. I'm in Nanchang; if you'd like, we can contact each other and chat.

文东会晓风

2017-02-07 16:42:56

It's very realistic. There are indeed many men like this in real life, so don't be surprised. Jiangxi is really quite far from me. If you have time, you're welcome to visit Liaoning! It's the birthplace of the Manchus and the hometown of Lei Feng, haha!

合肥夫妻35

2017-02-07 17:16:05

I support you two as a couple. You must have reliable friends. Don't be discouraged.

pinsaluoyan

2017-02-07 17:30:48

I strongly agree with the original poster's opinion.

wori_22

2017-02-07 17:40:39

Great, I look forward to exchanging ideas.

cyceeee

2017-02-07 19:13:48

The girl in the original post is so generous, and her husband is also a magnanimous person. There are all kinds of people in society, and I despise single men like that!

日后再说as

2017-02-07 20:55:38

These are a very genuine and high-quality couple. They've gone through it all and now it's all gone. This place is a mixed bag of people anyway, so I sincerely applaud you!

南昌优秀夫妻

2017-02-07 22:28:49

Don't be angry, there's a lot to learn.

ss771

2017-02-08 02:43:17

I'm happy to see so many people supporting me. Actually, I don't really care about these things, but I feel uncomfortable because some people don't even know basic manners. Let him take advantage of me if he wants, look at his greedy face, sigh.

大爱无疆1号

2017-02-09 00:33:11

This is so well written; those scumbags should read it and reflect on their actions.

秋日传奇

2017-02-09 13:07:17

Excellent article, thumbs up!

穿石水滴

2017-02-10 07:53:33

That's really great; we've also encountered a truly awful guy once. Ugh! Speechless.

沿河妹妹

2017-02-10 21:59:46

Can you add me?

龙凤呈祥168

2017-02-11 06:15:03

A beautiful woman with impeccable taste, and a perfect husband! A sleazy single man!

风云2016

2017-02-11 10:14:04

Thumbs up!

weliveup

2017-02-13 12:31:05

Couples and singles teetering on the edge may encounter all sorts of situations. It's crucial to act prudently and extricate yourself as soon as possible if things get unfavorable. While the ultimate goal is happiness, safety is paramount—personal safety, reputational safety, and hygiene safety are all important. Wishing you happiness!!!

qq600100

2017-02-14 08:04:07

A sleazy single man! A well-mannered couple! Thumbs up! Thumbs up! Thumbs up!

sss_1999

2017-02-17 06:24:12

A large forest has all kinds of birds; if you don't want to, why force it?

爱爱爱人

2017-03-13 19:58:22

A huge thumbs up to this girl!!!

noway1217

2017-03-28 11:08:35

That makes sense.

liuhuadong

2017-03-28 17:25:15

Agreed

我是蛀虫

2017-04-05 18:39:05

It's definitely worthwhile to find out more.

新旧往与事

2017-04-19 17:37:50

This guy is breaking the rules; 69 should be blacklisted and banned.

NPSHYY

2017-05-05 16:05:47

I deeply sympathize with what you've been through. You should reject a jerk immediately, but you're both too kind. However, making friends with people like you is definitely a good idea!

dgdd2006

2017-05-05 17:24:57

I'd love to serve you, but it's a bit far.

性福转折点

2017-05-05 18:03:04

Don't continue if you see a small hotel. You'll only make yourself unhappy and others feel uncomfortable.

lishida

2017-05-06 06:36:50

When I'm around, very few people can beat me to pay the bill. Even if someone does manage to pay, I'll find another way to pay them back because I feel that none of my friends are as wealthy as I am.

soulshine8

2017-05-06 13:13:19

The lessons learned were terrible, but thankfully no major problems arose. In this gray area, one must still be wary of extreme individuals.

qingxush

2017-05-06 15:01:16

Show compassion, but leaving decisively is the wise thing to do.

小洋洋

2017-05-06 21:41:27

It's so well written

舌舔花蕊枪刺芯

2017-05-13 16:56:57

I sympathize with the original poster. If you see things aren't going well, don't make friends. You ended up having a bad time and making your husband unhappy too.

miaoxing

2017-05-20 03:22:48

I'm speechless after encountering such a jerk. I hope you'll be more selective next time, otherwise, you'll lose all interest in having fun if you run into someone like that again.

威海一夜快乐

2017-05-23 15:29:22

It is written in a genuine and simple style, and it makes a lot of sense. It is something that everyone can and must accept, so that we can have a good mood to interact, communicate, and have fun.

Jcf678

2017-05-23 16:41:33

You've encountered a weirdo

万兽无疆

2017-06-01 03:02:58

It's fortunate that the couple had experience with this before. If a first-time couple encountered someone like this, their lifelong sexual happiness would likely be ruined. He leaves a terrible impression on the woman, making her wonder if all single men are like this.

小小狼狗

2017-06-02 20:04:19

When are you coming to Nanning? I'll give you a warm welcome and make sure you have a unique experience in both sex and travel! Can we chat?

遇有缘的你

2017-06-16 08:52:38

This is supposed to be a decent single man? He's a complete scumbag. If you were to visit his city, as a single man, you should have arranged hotels and restaurants in advance. You should have ordered local specialties, introduced the local culture, and not kept staring at his wife – that's basic respect for a married couple. After the meal, you should have offered to pay the bill; even as friends, you should have shown hospitality. This is one of the biggest failures of this single man. When eating out or shopping, you should have talked about the city's features with the couple, cracked a few jokes to lighten the mood. At least a three-star hotel would have been better. Going to a whole hotel is shameful; if you can't afford it, don't go. That's the second failure. After checking into the hotel, you should have acted like a proper single man – hygiene is paramount. You should have communicated with your husband while also flirting with the woman. You don't have to undress to flirt; flirt with your wife while simultaneously stimulating your husband. That's what a single man should do.

aijieqin

2017-06-25 21:25:10

support

17厘米不加头

2017-07-13 15:56:03

You two are too honest. When you encounter a man like that, you just turn around and leave. It's also your husband's fault for being too hasty.

大海的乐园

2017-08-21 14:37:03

There are all sorts of birds in a big forest; when making friends, it's always good to get to know them beforehand.

露骨天才

2017-09-22 07:03:56

This is very realistic. Men like this are trash; they lack even basic manners. This scumbag thinks he's taking advantage of you. What's the point of playing around like this? Participating in these kinds of activities isn't just about sex; I personally think sex is more important. The purpose of the activity is for everyone to have fun.

裸裸1989

2017-09-22 16:43:36

You guys are so patient, how can this game continue?

bbs100

2017-10-14 00:36:10

I completely agree with your views on playing together.

fantasy555

2018-02-24 09:09:53

I'll be in Hangzhou on a business trip at the end of March. Looking to get in touch.

乐性生活

2018-03-24 19:08:42

support

真我永恒

2018-05-10 16:56:21

Well said

feng79712

2018-05-10 20:44:02

I strongly support your idea.

1快乐的

2018-06-29 23:31:13

Single men in Shaoguan

叶心圣

2019-05-08 09:31:18

My wife also encountered a single man like this, and she spoke her mind perfectly. I have to give her a thumbs up!!!

伟华s

2019-05-11 05:42:08

What kind of man is this? He doesn't even know the most basic respect for others when interacting with them, and he can't even recognize his own place.

lfy508

2019-07-08 17:23:32

You guys are too tolerant; there's absolutely no need to give this kind of person any face.

任我行1000

2019-07-08 22:32:41

You should have communicated first; don't accept the wrong person when there's a vacancy!

快快乐乐aaa

2019-07-09 00:59:43

support

美人独凭栏

2019-09-07 13:31:43

I support you. Don't do things like that.

流星的梦

2019-10-30 19:14:37

That's scum.

东方大夫

2020-06-08 23:29:30

Such scum should be doxxed and kicked off the platform. Your husband's leniency has caused you so much injustice! On behalf of the single men of 69, I apologize for the frustrating experience you had with such a despicable person. At the same time, I hope that the gentlemen who come to the 69 platform will maintain a good image and not embarrass men.

a0459

2020-07-01 15:10:35

He's probably a loser who can't even afford basic necessities; the difference in social class is stark! We should get to know him first and filter out the scum and losers! You disgusting dog!

装在心里的爱

2020-07-01 16:29:19

I applaud you for being such a good person! I admire your ability to tolerate his insults! What's the point of being interested after being insulted like that? Single men should be the ones seeking you out, not the other way around… This is just my personal opinion; please forgive me if I'm wrong.

爱爱-爱爱

2020-07-01 20:03:40

Strongly support

lxlxlx123456

2020-07-01 20:04:11

I ran into a loser!!

开发中求助

2020-07-02 00:10:04

Although we haven't actually played it yet, what you said is absolutely right, and I wholeheartedly agree.

q3067

2021-01-09 09:20:46

Whether it's a friend or a casual sex partner, you should treat them with hospitality when they come to your turf. Treating them to a meal and booking a nice hotel room are basic courtesy. Small gifts are also important; they don't have to be expensive. Even a bouquet of flowers will make a woman very happy. My wife has a casual sex partner who always brings her gifts when they meet. My wife tells him not to spend so much, but if he mentions something he wants to eat when we chat, he'll usually arrange it for us the next time we meet. Whether it's a gourmet meal, simple fruit, or even just a cup of milk tea, a woman feels respected, and she's more willing to do whatever she wants afterwards. He's given my wife three new smartphones for casual sex, and she's also given him belts, lighters, watches, ties, wallets, and even down jackets when it gets cold. Sometimes she shares interesting things with him. We have a very good relationship that has lasted for many years. When my wife was trying to conceive, she even asked him to ejaculate inside her during her ovulation period, but she still didn't get pregnant.

诺宁哥

2021-01-09 13:11:44

My wife met a couple from a nearby city during her pregnancy (my wife knows this). They met during the pandemic, only chatted on WeChat and had never met in person. They arranged a time to meet, and my wife drove over directly. (After chatting a few times, I knew whether they were reliable). She bought a Givenchy lipstick. They booked the hotel, and I paid for the meal. They were supposed to pay, but I felt bad asking them to treat me to food and lodging when their wife was enjoying the meal. They had a great time from noon to 3 pm. They said they'd come visit us sometime, and my wife and I would host them. I despise pathetic single men; they don't deserve to play with us!

大叔不油腻

2021-01-09 19:59:44

You were a bit hasty, taking a three-hour drive to go on an activity without doing your research. Those small hotels are extremely unsafe. Single men shouldn't travel if they can't afford a four- or five-star hotel. Inviting couples to dinner and preparing small gifts for their wives are basic courtesy; being stingy and only booking a small hotel room—what do you think you are to a married couple?! You really need to be more patient and careful in the future.

桂水远扬舲

2021-06-16 04:02:29

If you encounter this kind of person, you should leave immediately after finishing your meal.

冰与火的重生

2022-04-11 15:35:25

Based on real experience, thorough communication is still essential before making friends.