2017-03-19 18:02:54

Your friend can't get over his own hurdle.

守望夫妻

2017-03-19 20:05:04

Did you post this in the wrong section? This is the "Success Stories" section.

南昌优秀夫妻

2017-03-19 21:27:44

Go to 69 more often, just come here more often.

shj123

2017-03-19 22:50:17

If you have a problem in your heart, you need to comfort and guide you.

haiben

2017-03-19 23:15:36

Actually, there's a way you can try: have your friend have an affair with your wife once, and maybe he'll see things differently. Then you can have an affair with his wife once, and he'll be able to let go of everything.

春夏秋冬69

2017-03-19 23:46:30

It's normal for a wife to be taken advantage of by other men; it's a common social phenomenon.

wang850505

2017-03-20 11:45:54

Friend, let's have a chat.

山魂水韵

2017-03-20 14:13:07

What you feel is more importtant than anything else. Decide on it.

子夜烟花

2017-03-20 16:13:47

Thank you for your replies, everyone. Actually, I had nowhere else to say these things, so I'm sharing them here. Their divorce actually touched me as well, since we're both around forty years old, and nobody wants to come to this point.

thankd

2017-03-20 16:33:47

How could someone who doesn't have this idea accept it?

YY1971

2017-03-20 17:18:03

Now that things have come to this, let's see what they think about their family and children. I hope they can go back to how things were before. Friends in Tianjin, would you like to get to know them and have a chat?

子夜烟花

2017-03-20 20:45:01

Actually, his wife is a very good wife. She's filial to his father, remembers everyone's birthday, and buys them gifts or calls them. She's excellent both at home and outside. My friend, on the other hand, doesn't do as well. Perhaps she felt she gave a lot but didn't receive anything in return, so she sought attention from other men. Therefore, everyone should pay more attention to the women around them.

情深深,雨朦朦

2017-03-20 23:42:53

This kind of thing happens a lot in my life, and it's quite normal. It's painful for a traditionally minded man, and I understand him. If you want to help their families and save their marriages, have your wife talk to the other woman, fostering a sisterly bond. Women can talk freely with each other, making the other woman feel more comfortable. Then you can talk to your friend, and have your wife try to seduce him. This will make him feel more at ease, letting his wife know about your wife and her husband's relationship. This way, the two families can interact harmoniously, satisfying the woman's curiosity, and both families will be happy. Why not do it? You help others, you'll find happiness yourself, and it's a truly meritorious act.

情深深,雨朦朦

2017-03-21 00:02:02

A friend of mine from Guiyang was caught cheating on his wife. His wife, whom I'd known online for years, told me that her marriage might be in jeopardy. When I asked her why, she said her mother was hospitalized, and she'd run into her first love on the street and gone to a hotel with him. Her husband found out, and they had a falling out. I tried to comfort her while also asking her husband about the situation. He hadn't hit her; he was just afraid she'd fall for someone else and divorce him. I kept talking to her, and she said her husband always ejaculated after a few minutes, which she couldn't tolerate. While I was talking to her, her husband also wanted to see her chat history. Gradually, he became more open-minded. I suggested she tell him what had happened to avoid worrying that she was lying. Later, during sex, she told her husband about the men she'd been with. Her husband became increasingly excited as she listened. She told me that he used to only last a few minutes, but now he can last over twenty minutes. I asked her to continue guiding him, and gradually he tacitly allowed her to find other men. The first man he approved of was his cousin, an unmarried man. After a few encounters, her husband asked her to invite him for a threesome, but he was too afraid. So she had sex with her uncle's son many times. One time, after a day of outdoor sex, her husband had sex with her for a long time that night, ejaculating two or three times. She said that since having children, her husband had never been so vigorous, and she felt very comfortable. Every time they made love, her husband would ask her about the details of her sex with other men. She said her husband seemed like a different person; he loved her more than before, and she felt like she couldn't live without him. Now they are a happy family.

一剑倾城

2017-03-27 10:34:35

I'm from Tianjin, and I hope we can stay in touch.

q3067

2017-04-14 11:41:25

I've also counseled two classmates and a friend, all of whom had wives who cheated on them. I even had them have sex with my wives a few times before they accepted it. One classmate initially complained that my wife was a prostitute, but I told him that even if she was, she was still my wife, and he could have her for free. Actually, men who discover their wives are cheating and cause conflict mainly do so for two reasons: 1. They feel ashamed and can't stand what others think; 2. They fear their wives will develop feelings for someone else and leave them.

YY1971

2017-06-12 15:39:28

Yes, let's sit down and chat sometime!

LS了666666

2020-05-03 10:59:28

@春夏秋冬69 Has your wife been slept with by someone else?