iqslel
2018-04-30 17:56:41
What is the approximate age of the couple?79524

wtootw2003
2018-04-30 19:51:16
This guy wants sex, but you're flirting with his wife, which doesn't suit his tastes, so he's wary of you.79524

污大叔
2018-04-30 20:31:09
The man is 46 and the woman is 44. I'm so confused. They clearly sent themselves to me to seduce and have sex with, and then got jealous after I had my way with them. What kind of character is that?79524

夕阳红1963
2018-04-30 21:30:30
This husband is so petty; he even offered himself to someone else when he was unhappy.79524

夕阳红1963
2018-04-30 21:33:16
You're a very thoughtful man and a master of flirting. I'll bring my wife to visit you sometime.79524

黄海浪高
2018-04-30 22:34:10
Unexpected consequences will always occur.79524

凌乱的思绪
2018-05-01 05:37:42
Single men should prioritize serving couples; making couples happy is the key to repeat business, right?79524

jaceyzao
2018-05-01 07:16:54
Can we talk, friend?79524

配合一下
2018-05-01 07:30:18
My brother hasn't let go of his worries.79524

污大叔
2018-05-01 10:25:05
The sex was not exaggerated at all; it was really intense. She said it was the most intense time she had ever experienced!79524

wo爱换爱爱
2018-05-01 12:18:17
It's a bit far, otherwise we can play together.79524

wangcai2016
2018-05-01 14:59:57
As a single man, you shouldn't take the lead. You're there to make them happier, not for your own pleasure. You want everything to go your way, ignoring the other woman's husband and then complaining that he's stingy.79524

污大叔
2018-05-02 01:17:21
@wangcai2016: First, I want to say: Who is the guest and who is the host? Doesn't a single man have any rights? Is he expected to serve others? I believe equality and respect are paramount in any activity. This is my first point against your opinion. Second, the other man said that as long as he makes his woman happy, she doesn't need to revolve around him, and he did a good job. Why are you criticizing me? This is my second point against your opinion. Third, the other man wasn't sincere. He told me they were a married couple, but when the woman was leaving, she told me in the room that they had been divorced for over two years. The man lied to her, saying they were going out for fun, and that they could have sex if they clicked, otherwise, it would be off. He didn't communicate this to me beforehand, which is deceiving me. If the woman hadn't told me, I would still be in the dark. This is my third point against your opinion. Fourth, if I just wanted to satisfy my physical needs, I could just hire a prostitute. Why did I have to go with a married couple? I spent over 1000 yuan on this activity. Although it's not a lot of money, at least my sincerity was there. But what about the other man? He smokes as soon as he walks in, throws cigarette butts everywhere, throws tantrums at the drop of a hat, and hides in the shadows like a rat, trying to scare people away. He shows absolutely no respect for my home or my feelings. Does everyone expect a well-mannered single man, but don't they expect well-mannered couples? This is my fourth rebuttal to your opinion. That's all I have to say. If you disagree, let's debate.79524

langtianboy
2018-05-02 10:51:19
The original poster (OP) expended a great deal of mental, physical, and emotional effort, and OP admits they couldn't match it. Was there any oversight in the details of the communication with the other party's husband beforehand? It's difficult to persevere through such a process without a certain level of professionalism.79524

君如意
2018-05-02 19:46:27
In situations like this, single men must maintain a proper balance and avoid overstepping their bounds.79524

lds8989
2018-05-02 23:01:13
I'm a complete novice when it comes to sex! I'm unmarried, have never had sex, and usually just masturbate! I'm here mainly to learn!79524

mary_gs
2018-05-03 00:22:14
My friend, being considerate isn't just about material things; it's also about considering the husband's feelings. Excessive flirting with his wife might not be what her husband wants to see. Perhaps he's just after sex? The fact that he's jealous shows you've gone too far. Even if they're divorced, there's still a foundation of affection. He might be worried you'll steal him away and have secret rendezvous. Also, you've revealed too much, like secretly removing the condom. Aren't you afraid he'll cause trouble for the other woman? Think more about his feelings.79524

污大叔
2018-05-03 11:54:32
@mary_gs: I sent you an email. There are some things I can't say publicly, please forgive me!79524

shuaizi77
2018-05-03 21:26:09
If you don't like the other man, you can end the game. Why are you criticizing him now that you've gotten the better deal? Do you think your investment and return are disproportionate? Since you've already participated, stop nagging and talking about him behind his back. You're not a good person either! Conversely, if your wife was used by someone else for the first time, could you remain calm? Try to understand each other! As for how much money you spent, do you think that's meaningful? Is it necessary to discuss whether they divorce or not? Do you have the courage to let your ex-wife go out with you? So, try to understand each other! We're all men; if you feel it's not suitable, you can end the game or stop contacting them. There's no need to say all this here! Besides, does a threesome really only consider the woman's feelings? Usually, the husband plays a decisive role in a threesome. Does that mean we shouldn't consider the husband's feelings either?79524

shuaizi77
2018-05-03 21:31:43
You don't need to argue! Based on your statements, let me define you: You're suitable as a lover! But as a single man, you're lacking in manners!79524

污大叔
2018-05-03 21:59:31
@shuaizi77: There's no need to discuss this with you.79524

污大叔
2018-05-03 22:02:58
@shuaizi77: I promised not to discuss this topic further. You be a responsible couple; my character is not for you to judge. Thank you!79524

shuaizi77
2018-05-03 22:51:05
You posted this so everyone could express their opinions, right? Why can't a public platform offer opinions? I've been a single man too! Get your perspective straight! You were into threesomes, not looking for a lover! I really can't stand you, you son of a bitch! That couple must be blind! Your wife let you have your way, and you're talking about her like this behind her back!79524

污大叔
2018-05-03 23:15:37
@shuaizi77: Please watch your words. Just because I'm not going to argue with you doesn't mean I have nothing to say. I've never dealt with you before and don't know you. Say whatever you want; I'm just keeping my promise not to comment. If you want to see my stance, please read the post I made today. Thank you for your attention.79524

污大叔
2018-05-03 23:54:28
Regarding the points raised by Mr. @mary_gs, I think they are quite reasonable, and I have responded positively. However, I haven't publicly responded because I made a promise to a friend not to comment further on this matter. As for the malicious remarks from some people, I don't need to say much. The person involved can see my post; there's no issue of speaking ill of others behind their backs. Furthermore, the person involved has privately apologized to me for this incident. I just want to leave the past behind and avoid associating with similar people in the future.79524

adnilyl
2018-05-04 00:09:30
@UncleDirtyDirty. I didn't intend to comment, but seeing your arrogant words, I feel I have the right to speak in this forum. You don't need to use phrases like "there's no need to discuss this with you" to evade the issue, or to prove you're on a moral high ground. I just hope other friends will make a more comprehensive judgment of you after seeing my comments. Admittedly, the man in this incident had shortcomings in his attitude and behavior, and he lied about being divorced while claiming to be married, but that's their problem. I also agree with the statement, "Do you think it's meaningful to mention how much money you spent? Is it necessary to discuss whether they're divorced or not?" Even if others are wrong, three different behaviors determine your character, level, and magnanimity: One is to influence him. Understand the man's feelings, especially after your first time, if you notice his negative reactions, you can proactively offer care. The second is to compromise. If you can't tolerate the man's attitude and behavior, you can proactively withdraw to demonstrate your equal standing. The third type is like you. You discovered the other person's attitude was bad, but you still went through with it. Afterwards, you used that incident to attack them. To put it nicely, you used your own mistakes to attack someone else's mistakes; to put it bluntly, you wanted to have your cake and eat it too. Simply put, I hope other friends will be cautious about befriending you. Here are my reasons: 1. Your statements, "We quickly arranged the May Day activity on QQ" and "I prioritized the other person's requests and did my best to satisfy them," show that you are very eager and attentive. It also shows that you were so impatient without getting to know the other person well. A man who is eager has no right to say "there is no host-guest relationship." 2. "She panted and said it was long, and I asked if it was longer than mine." You wanted to show off from the beginning. Did you cherish the other person? 3. "My boyfriend suddenly jumped out and interrupted our beautiful moment... I was completely ruined by him." Did the other person do anything wrong? Are you so precious? Don't others have that right? Isn't your possessiveness too strong? 4. "My brother kept urging me, and I was helpless against his impatient temper." You weren't in such a hurry at first, and now you're blaming others for being impatient? "My brother had a gloomy face, so I did what I had planned and told him to rest at home." Shouldn't you have shown more concern? And you're still developing the plot in your own favor? 5. "This morning, I went to their bedroom without clothes on, my erection bulging. My sister-in-law scolded me for not being shameless, and my brother impatiently told me to leave." Are you showing off, or trying to be overly familiar? You knew the man was uncomfortable, yet you still made things worse for him? Most importantly, what's wrong with the man smoking, what's wrong with being a couple, what's wrong with those rough actions? You're a 38-year-old man, so impatient, and you're complaining about this and that. It can be inferred that this person has a severe sense of self, is unwilling to consider the thoughts and feelings of others, and has long been sexually unsatisfied. Finally, I think this concludes the discussion: you initially put in a lot of effort, and if your expectations weren't met, you'll resent others. Dear readers, please be careful not to associate with this person.79524

污大叔
2018-05-04 11:43:01
@adnilyl: Thank you, everyone for your attention. After reading everyone's comments, I've been quite moved. I've also been reflecting on myself. Perhaps I'm not really suited for this circle or participating in this kind of activity. So, since I've had this experience, I'll have no regrets or complaints. I'll continue with my life. Maybe I'll meet the right people and things, maybe I won't. I have a family, but I've been wandering for so long. Where does my heart belong? It's better to experience everything with my heart and treat people with sincerity. Everyone has their own standards for judging right and wrong. I won't dwell on this anymore, I won't be hesitant, confused, or immersed in this environment. I'll continue to be myself according to my own standards, neither elated by external gains nor saddened by personal losses. Whether it's attacks or encouragement, it's all just people's personalities. I'll continue my wandering journey. Thank you all for your companionship along the way. I hope you continue to support me. I wish you all a happy and joyful time, and that you find your own little bit of happiness in it! Enjoy it while you can!79524

污大叔
2018-05-04 13:25:20
As adnilyl said, I hope everyone will offer criticism. I will accept it and reflect deeply on it. I hope this can serve as a negative example for single men participating in activities in the future, so that everyone can learn from my mistakes and not repeat them. I hope everyone has a great time!79524

langtianboy
2018-05-04 16:55:58
No matter what, the original poster has gone too far!79524

kelehekele
2018-05-04 20:47:10
You seem very polite. I even added you as a friend before, but I think I'll delete you.79524

污大叔
2018-05-04 23:46:03
@kelehekele: Sorry, haha, I don't know how to delete it. I've even thought about deleting all my posts, but I just don't know how! Do you have any tips? Can you teach me?79524

夫妻群P
2018-05-05 00:21:09
SunsetGlow1963: 2018-04-30 21:33:16 You're a very thoughtful man and a master of flirting. I'll bring my wife to visit you sometime. Someone's already offering themselves up so quickly! Ignore those who question it! Add this person now!!!79524

污大叔
2018-05-05 00:34:50
@CouplesGroupP, hahaha~ thanks, we were already QQ friends, the guy is a really nice person, I even video chatted with him for over an hour, he's a steady, mature, handsome guy. Never mind, I won't make an appointment, to avoid any unnecessary trouble!79524

linyi696
2018-05-05 08:28:23
I think it might be their first time having a threesome, and the man got jealous seeing his wife being so intimate with someone else. Hopefully, they can understand each other.79524

污大叔
2018-05-05 08:55:47
@CoupleGroupP: It's not that the guy is being so humble, it's just that we get along well. We've been chatting on QQ for a while, and the communication is quite smooth. If we're going to hang out, either of us is fine; it's just a process, right? He's a high-class guy, he drives a Cadillac. The fact that he's willing to lower himself to hang out with us shows his sincerity and approachability. Thumbs up to SunsetRed1963! Thank you so much for your long-term support, I'm truly grateful!79524

shuaizi77
2018-05-05 15:17:12
Attacking you? You're overthinking it! Are you some celebrity or something? Frankly, I just couldn't stand it anymore! Do you even realize how many people are criticizing you? If you think the other woman's husband is doing badly, then go ahead and have a threesome with your wife! It's like eating someone else's food and then complaining about how bad it is! It's that simple! Even if you're dissatisfied, you shouldn't post it on this platform! You're almost forty, don't you understand this? By attacking others, you're also attacking yourself! Stop posting your long-winded rants on the forum! You're so rude! Thank you!79524

夫妻群P
2018-05-05 15:47:04
Good heavens! My spouse's friend drives a Mercedes, isn't that considered high class?!? You call that classy? Was my reply above a compliment? You really think too highly of yourself.79524

污大叔
2018-05-05 16:04:15
This is endless, so boring. You guys keep playing, excuse me.79524

污大叔
2018-05-05 16:16:48
@CoupleGroupP: I'm just giving a thumbs up to my brother "Sunset Red 1963". Thank you for your support. I didn't bother you in any way, did I? I didn't ask you to give me a thumbs up, and you don't need to. Just slap me.79524

夫妻群P
2018-05-05 18:45:06
I'd rather not even touch you, it would just get my hands dirty. If I ever come into contact with your skin, I'd have to wash my hands with formaldehyde for a month. If Korea has a hand-peeling service, I'd like to have my hands that have touched "someone's" skin peeled.79524

污大叔
2018-05-05 19:08:10
Haha, there are all kinds of people here, it's okay, if you're not tired, you can talk more.79524

shuaizi77
2018-05-06 14:20:32
Your character is crystal clear! You've already said goodbye, so what are you still babbling about? If only one of you says you lack manners, you can say I'm targeting you, but with so many people saying you lack manners, how do you still have the audacity to keep spouting nonsense? Don't you reflect on your behavior? You need to go back to school and start over! Or maybe you'll just change your identity and continue pretending to be a well-mannered person! Don't think that posting a few long articles makes you well-mannered! Go back to school and start over!79524

Shania夏天
2018-05-08 12:29:18
I think that older man really understands women. I don't think my husband would be as stingy as that guy. We haven't tried a threesome yet, but my husband wants to.79524

斯巴达克斯
2018-05-08 18:02:50
The difference in quality is self-evident. It's a pity for someone who provided the material!79524

畅游世界
2018-05-24 17:06:53
In essence, the husband's mental state is very fragile; he's experienced both shock and heartache, and this situation cannot be viewed through the lens of a typical friendship. The original poster did a good job, but I feel she needs to adjust her mindset; her perspective is somewhat flawed. If single men put themselves in the husband's shoes, they would likely have a better understanding. Throughout the post, I feel the original poster and her husband communicated too little; the husband should have been more involved in their interactions. The single man completely focused on his wife, neglecting the husband's emotional changes.79524

畅游世界
2018-05-24 17:11:35
The original poster should realize that the risks for married couples in a relationship are significantly higher than for single men. Husbands invest their wives, families, and emotions. Single men only invest a few days of preparation, and women tend to have higher expectations regarding the romantic atmosphere, while men are more focused on the outcome. The result was a successful threesome! Therefore, single men shouldn't complain so much; after all, the married couple was just having fun with you!79524

kelehekele
2018-05-25 07:55:07
This is the first time I've ever seen an article receive so many negative reviews, practically driving the author into retirement. I'm speechless.79524

婚外情爽
2018-05-26 13:45:48
So intense!79524

黄海浪高
2018-05-31 02:59:37
In fact, the biggest taboo in threesomes is that the single man flirts with the woman. Sex is fine, but flirting is not. If the man encourages flirting, that's a different story. This is the key point of threesomes, and all couples and single men should learn this to avoid repeating the same mistake!79524

春秋大梦
2018-07-24 21:05:42
Uncle Wu was actually quite good. The husband was a bit petty and probably a little jealous; he hadn't completely let go. Resolving their unpleasantness wasn't Uncle Wu's fault.79524

一起嗨呀呀
2019-08-21 11:01:04
That's really capable.79524

大叔不油腻
2020-07-24 06:26:38
This couple wasn't prepared for a trip; at least the husband wasn't mentally prepared.79524
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