2018-05-27 12:01:15

Wow, that's really well written!

2018-05-27 12:32:51

Whether you forgive or not, no one can help you, and it has nothing to do with your wife. If you can't let her go, can't bear to part with her, and still love her, then give each other a chance.

云端一翁

2018-05-27 12:36:45

Since you've always wanted your wife to enjoy life and experience different kinds of sex, why worry about her past sexual experiences with other men? If these things happened before marriage, would you still be so concerned? You can't expect your girlfriend to be a virgin before you were together, with a completely blank romantic history, right? The difference is only between before and after marriage, so it doesn't really have much to do with her past sexual experiences, right?

云端一翁

2018-05-27 12:39:56

So what you're worried about is nothing more than feelings—her feelings for you, and whether she'll repeat the same mistake. And then there's the issue of being deceived, right? Actually, don't be too pessimistic; look at things positively. Giving others a chance is giving yourself a chance. What do you think?

云端一翁

2018-05-27 12:42:45

There are always two sides to everything. Her marriage to you means she loves you, while her infidelity means your relationship couldn't withstand temptation. You should also reflect on yourself and see if you've neglected her or not cared for her enough. So why not let go of the resentment and start over?

云端一翁

2018-05-27 12:43:20

I hope you make the right choice. Wishing you happiness!

xiaojian9933

2018-05-27 13:08:44

Should I pity you, or...?

iqslel

2018-05-27 14:08:17

Let nature take its course!

lphaha1

2018-05-27 15:56:40

Hello. You might not have been mentally prepared for this. However, the fact that you still feel a sense of triumphant pleasure when your wife tells you about her affair suggests that you can forgive her; it all depends on how you view her. If you love her, you can accept her infidelity and make her happiness your greatest source of joy, but only if she is honest with you and loves you. Of course, if you don't love her, you won't be in pain, and things will be simpler. This is a turning point in your life.

一夜一世界

2018-05-27 17:54:28

So I wanted to know if she was hiding anything, and I started to have doubts about her past experiences.

zuiai69w

2018-05-27 19:52:59

You need to have a serious talk with your wife, and help her integrate into the 69 Paradise family so you can share happiness and sexual bliss.

那一年的秋日

2018-05-27 22:28:39

Well written

ai12345

2018-05-27 23:17:32

There shouldn't be anything hidden anymore, but if you show that you forbid her from seeing anyone else, and she can't refuse other people's advances, she'll likely go underground. You can ask her to explain if such things happen, just don't let everyone know. If she can't accept it, then get a divorce. However, it's not easy to find a wife like that after a divorce.

一夜一世界

2018-05-28 00:22:11

We talked for a long time. She doesn't accept the 69 thing because she doesn't want me to see her having sex with other people, and she doesn't want me to see the pleasure and madness she feels when she's being violated. She also said that letting go of those two people takes time, but she doesn't know if she can truly let go. She wants us to each do our own thing, and she doesn't care what I do. However, she really enjoys the thrill of one-night stands and unrestrainedly displays her lewdness, and she doesn't want me to see that, otherwise she'll be traumatized. She also doesn't want to see me having sex with other women.

江苏朋友

2018-05-28 02:39:09

What's the point of all this? It's no different from a broken family. Either we stay together or we're waiting to fall apart. Whether we're telling the truth or not is no longer important; the important thing is the future.

飞扬的天下

2018-05-28 05:52:20

Take it slow. Actually, the more innocent a girl seems, the more secretly passionate she is; everyone is like that. Your wife doesn't accept 69 because she's afraid you'll divorce her or tell others.

大海的乐园

2018-05-28 07:14:33

This is heartbreaking!

南昌优秀夫妻

2018-05-28 21:09:15

Don't rush, let's talk about it later.

拔屌无情

2018-05-28 21:11:31

Brother, let things take their natural course, don't force it.

angel_1988

2018-05-29 06:55:19

It's no big deal, haha.

初心2018

2018-05-29 08:27:37

Even after the radish is removed, the hole is still there; as long as it feels comfortable, that's fine.

sense10101

2018-05-29 15:53:40

It's no fun if everyone does their own thing, and the home doesn't feel like a home anymore. In the end, they'll break up. Home is a haven that a man has to build, and separation from home is the most painful thing. So, it's best to take her along to avoid risks in the end. Any woman will definitely be uncomfortable at first, but once she gets going, her crazy behavior with other men in front of her husband will immediately leave you speechless. She'll even feel a kind of pleasure in deliberately making you wear a green hat, and she'll never lie to you again.

罗湖的风

2018-05-30 00:50:12

What brings you here, OP? It's not just for venting, is it...?

七喜276

2018-05-31 13:39:52

Couples near Beijing

长沙叶子

2018-05-31 17:56:12

When women let loose, they become even wilder than men.

一夜一世界

2018-06-01 17:00:08

No one can control someone else's life; keeping an eye on someone is too difficult, so I simply let it go. She promised to report truthfully, and that it was only for sex, not emotionally. If possible, she'll take photos and videos to show me each time.

sexpot

2018-06-01 19:43:31

Brother, that's nothing serious. Think positively. Try organizing a group of 20 people to gang up on her and see if she agrees.

放纵不羁爱自由

2018-06-01 19:54:38

As a man, have you only ever been with one woman? Surely not? Then why should women be expected to have men? Is the world only allowed for men to pursue women, but not for women to indulge themselves? What kind of logic is that?