happyboss74
2022-06-15 12:18:17
The right fit is the best!
一点爰好
2022-06-15 12:44:14
Yes
自己的精彩
2022-06-15 12:53:52
Well written, insightful, with examples and content.
绿缘绿源
2022-06-15 13:10:38
reality
bonjour2012
2022-06-15 13:15:18
It's written very realistically and naturally. An open marriage is wonderful. Looking forward to getting in touch.
w1234554321w
2022-06-15 13:19:26
I wish you all the best and I look forward to joining you.
samuel99
2022-06-15 13:29:43
That makes a lot of sense!
想老婆性福
2022-06-15 13:35:12
Very simple
人虫
2022-06-15 14:27:50
This is the first time I've seen an article that explains marital relationships so profoundly and accurately.
我要一直向前
2022-06-15 14:31:28
That's very well said, I've learned a lot.
狂狼大龟头
2022-06-15 15:04:52
A Perfect Match
山坡的风
2022-06-15 15:12:50
I have to say, 69 is held up by people like you, you're reliable.
meiwei991
2022-06-15 15:45:20
This is so well written! It's clearly from the heart, and the writing style is excellent. Best wishes!!
a881212
2022-06-15 16:25:22
Real experience, insightful thoughts on couples making friends!
superme
2022-06-15 16:57:56
Very heartfelt writing
男人怕帅
2022-06-15 22:40:59
It's well written, I benefited from it.
君子坦蛋蛋
2022-06-15 23:13:45
It's written very realistically and naturally.
健康快乐3721
2022-06-16 05:26:44
This is a true reflection of my experience; as long as I'm sexually happy and content, that's all that matters. Let's exchange ideas more.
dbmch
2022-06-16 07:44:24
We've been doing this for over ten years.
dbmch
2022-06-16 07:46:29
We're from Yingkou. You've changed your QQ settings; you can't add friends.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-16 10:28:01
@dbmch I changed my number. I'm getting annoyed by those impatient lechers adding me.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-16 10:28:34
@dbmch The mindset from more than ten years ago is different from now, isn't it?
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-16 10:33:40
@rg06ti We've encountered couples who were perfectly fine before meeting, but regretted not going to a hotel after talking for a while. We've also seen couples who took their clothes off, but then couldn't continue. Not every couple can cross this threshold. And crossing this threshold doesn't guarantee a smooth road ahead.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-16 10:45:39
@happyboss74 Finding couples, single men, or casual sex partners is different from prostitution. Clients have the right to choose; they only pay if they find someone they like. Prostitutes, for the sake of money, have to smile and flatter regardless of whether they're satisfied or not. In this kind of activity, all parties involved need to cooperate well, and finding a suitable match isn't easy.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-16 10:56:39
@w1234554321w Thank you, we will not be adding any more participants for the time being. We've been participating for over ten years. If we were to represent the number of participants graphically, it would resemble a date pit – initially, we had few contacts, then the number gradually increased, and then it gradually decreased again. Currently, we have a couple and their son with whom we maintain long-term contact. Thank you for your attention, we will not be adding any more people for the time being.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-16 11:05:05
@Men are afraid of handsome men, whether they're young and fresh or older and more mature. Women will always find someone attractive. When women are looking for a sexual partner, they have far more requirements than men: physique, appearance, age, manner of speaking... If you didn't know better, you'd think they were looking for a lover.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-16 11:13:18
@The Wind on the Hillside My husband and I didn't have a smooth journey in these activities. We sat down and talked it over several times and overcame many difficulties.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-16 11:38:34
@a881212 We met a couple who preferred single men, and they only wanted to be with each man a maximum of two times. Their requirements were simple: not too small a penis, and long duration. Different couples have different ideas, but since they've gotten involved, they ultimately want to find what suits them best.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-16 11:51:13
@Renchong There are too many entanglements in married life, but these entanglements can be untied slowly. Outsiders may be astonished by such a life, but in this life, you live your own life.
yq自由如风
2022-06-16 13:48:25
This is so well written! My husband and I also just broke through to the next stage last year.
一树梅花
2022-06-16 15:03:10
As you said, most people's married life is truly like that; you've spoken the minds of most people.
爱老婆1314
2022-06-16 17:42:44
good
冻龄夫妻
2022-06-16 20:21:59
Well written! I'll learn from you! —Even with fidelity to marriage and family, I crave this addictive feeling. Scenes I see, scenes I don't see, scenes filled with fantasy, scenes filled with desire.
小明先生
2022-06-17 00:40:00
A single man from Guangzhou pops up to say hi.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-17 15:59:55
@yqFreedomLikeTheWind This breakthrough wasn't easy; you and your spouse have taken this step, and the experience is quite different from before. After this breakthrough, couples also need to communicate more to make their lives happier.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-17 16:02:45
@Xiaoxiang Academy When two people are together for a long time, the familial bond grows stronger, but the romance fades. This is similar to Lynette and her husband in the American sitcom *Desperate Housewives*. They had a large family, grew increasingly distant, separated, and each had affairs, but ultimately returned to each other. The relationship between husband and wife needs constant nurturing to last and be happy together, so that when they close their eyes in death, they feel they've lived a good life with no regrets.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-17 16:04:44
@chen780505 I'm almost fifty, so my writing will always be better than what younger people write, especially about sex. ^_^
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-17 16:23:18
@Ageless Couples Compared to Europeans, we are not as open-minded. In the European court era, marriage was about property, territory, and alliances of power, while lovers were about love. King Louis XV of France had a queen, whose lover was an artist who, after becoming queen, also received the king's patronage. Louis XV's mistress, from an ordinary family, received a noble title and became the queen's personal maid. Tsar Peter III and Catherine of Russia each had lovers, and the four of them often dined together in the evenings before returning to their bedrooms with their respective lovers. These were open practices in European high society; a nobleman without a lover had no social standing. The love of princes and princesses is a myth. Being responsible to one's family, having a stable marriage, and being open about sex with the other's permission lead to a happier marriage.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-17 16:25:17
@一树梅花 I don't know if you're a married couple or a single married man. Be honest with your wife, and all your dreams can come true.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-17 16:27:18
@妻之吟 I don't know if you are a real couple, a single man pretending to be a couple, a couple observing each other, or a successful couple. Opening your hearts and speaking your mind is more appropriate than secretly trying to seduce your wife.
冻龄夫妻
2022-06-17 21:27:41
@LittleRuralKidTrue, it's exactly as you said! As far as I know, Louis XV was a sex machine. On the surface, the Victorian era was an era of extreme asceticism, but in private it was an era of sexual indulgence. Many people had serious and respectable family lives, but they all had mistresses behind the scenes. They just used their intelligence and hypocritical behavior to hide their personal desires. Churchill's father offended the Prince of Wales—the future King of England—because of such family affairs, and eventually died young.
幸福一家亲
2022-06-18 06:09:27
How old were you when you started playing? I'm 35 this year, is that considered old?
hh9788
2022-06-18 13:21:17
A thorough and insightful analysis, heartfelt and textbook-level interpretation.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-18 13:46:46
@HappyFamily We started exercising at 32. It's not so much about age, but about whether you want to and can face the consequences.
幸福一家亲
2022-06-18 19:53:46
OK, thanks
快乐马
2022-06-19 12:13:21
Such high level of education and manners!
油枪179
2022-06-19 14:52:31
Shake hands! I also like European and American films, but I don't like Japanese films. It's a pity there's nowhere to watch them now.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-19 19:02:47
@oilgun179 Japanese films are woman-centric, with men who are lewd and use their mouths and fingers to lick and touch women, then use various vibrators and dildos to repeatedly torment them; the women are merely objects to be played with. Western films, on the other hand, feature a man and a woman and it's a three-piece routine: oral sex, vaginal sex, and anal sex, followed by masturbation. I enjoy watching family-style films; the male and female leads may not be particularly attractive, but they look natural and comfortable. I remember one film, set in a large bedroom, with a fixed perspective. Every time the door opened, a young man would enter, pull down his pants, and the woman sitting on the bed would give him oral sex for a while before starting to have sex. He'd leave, and another would come in. It looked so satisfying.
小农村孩儿True
2022-06-19 19:04:06
@星湖海*晴雪 Couples should communicate more, including about sex and their thoughts on it. If these things can be discussed, there's nothing that can't be said. Regardless of whether it can ultimately be put into practice, it's much happier than a zombie marriage or a sexless marriage.
kaola999
2022-06-21 11:26:33
Experienced, authentic, and cultured, best wishes to you.
美好的体验
2022-06-22 19:18:10
@小农村孩儿True wrote so well. Also, regarding movies, I've never liked films directed by established directors. I prefer watching films made by ordinary people, like those similar to the Edison Chen photo scandal. They feel very real. Reality is what evokes passion.
小农村孩儿True
2022-07-09 00:09:16
@WonderfulExperience The term "amateur" refers to actresses participating in AV filming for the first time, or women who occasionally make AV films to supplement their income. I like watching homemade films, without directors or scripts.
偿试激情
2022-07-09 04:29:17
Okay! I've learned a lot.
小农村孩儿True
2022-07-09 13:53:21
@HappyHorse Thank you. I have some insights and experiences to share; this is just a summary for everyone's benefit.
小农村孩儿True
2022-07-09 13:54:17
@器大活好69 Are you really that well-endowed and skilled in bed? How many women have you served?
小农村孩儿True
2022-07-09 13:55:51
@HappyFamily is participating in couples' dating events, open to all ages, based solely on eligibility. It's not just about sex; it's about the emotional connection between husband and wife, using sex to enhance their relationship.
Taqxdn
2022-07-12 22:33:22
I've learned a lot and look forward to taking that first step.
绽放树花
2022-07-16 14:55:37
Learned
jikeboy
2022-07-23 10:53:11
carefree
东北小夫妻
2022-08-17 13:12:00
I can relate. We had the exact same experience as my husband and I, but I feel there are a lot of fake couples here. You only know what it feels like after experiencing it yourself.
我恋丝高跟
2022-08-30 23:59:17
It described the current state of most marriages.
sky410
2022-10-09 01:38:52
Well written! The inner thoughts are portrayed very realistically!
tatoo
2022-12-04 21:27:57
@LittleRuralKidTrue Some films with relatively well-made plots are quite good to watch, whether Japanese or Western, but there are too few of them. Relatively speaking, Madonna's mature women series in Japan are generally of high quality, and there's an urge to follow specific actresses; they're realistic and don't one-sidedly masochistic towards women.
小农村孩儿True
2022-12-06 17:21:20
@tatoo My wife and I used to enjoy watching Western films—handsome men and beautiful women with big breasts and huge penises, all bald and without much pubic hair, with a bit of a plot, just the kind of films that are all about sex. I didn't really like Japanese films. Three or five men surrounding one woman, repeatedly attacking her with various instruments. In recent years, I've started watching Japanese films, but selectively. I watch them with my mouth and fingers, and I like films with mature women and young men. But Japanese films rarely have this kind of "sandwich" (sexual intercourse).
tatoo
2022-12-06 20:01:51
@LittleRuralKidTrue I just love watching mature women and young men. Those kinds of women and storylines are really interesting, so sensual and alluring, and I can really relate... Japanese films rarely have threesomes, but lots of double penetration, and for the nymphomaniac type, there might be a sandwich... By the way, neither of you has any interest in mild BDSM?
tatoo
2022-12-06 20:11:21
@LittleRuralKidTrue My personal favorite plot is the one where a married woman's affair is exposed and then she's subjected to mild BDSM. It's a pity that it wasn't well-acted. The novel's "My Wife is a Slave" plot is what I most want to see in a movie.
小农村孩儿True
2022-12-07 11:43:55
@tatoo I have no interest in SM.
小农村孩儿True
2022-12-07 13:28:18
@tatoo I like homemade videos these days. They're mostly made by the people involved, often from Europe or America, and usually feature two or three couples having fun together.
tatoo
2022-12-07 21:48:12
@LittleRuralKidTrue How can I find resources for these European and American homemade products? I'd like to see them.
柳上月
2022-12-08 03:03:13
I always feel that taking that first step is so difficult. Do you have any good suggestions or methods?
柳上月
2022-12-08 03:03:50
@LittleRuralKidTrue I always feel that taking the first step is so difficult. Do you have any good suggestions or methods?
小农村孩儿True
2022-12-08 16:41:07
@tatoo You can search for keywords like big tits, homemade, teens, threesome.
小农村孩儿True
2022-12-08 16:47:52
@柳上月 Over the years, I've also dissuaded some people from fantasizing about bringing their wives out for swapping or threesomes. This activity isn't suitable for everyone, nor is it acceptable to every couple. If both partners really want to do this, they need to sit down, or even have sex, and negotiate slowly. Both parties must be able to accept the future consequences. Not all outcomes are happy. Some have died, some have been arrested, some have divorced, and some have children whose fathers are unknown. But most are still happy.
日后再说as
2022-12-08 20:30:14
This is a textbook example of a blog post. A genuine thumbs up. In a threesome, the woman enjoys the feeling of being a princess, while the man feels like a king. The difference between these two feelings depends on the choice of partners—whether it's a single man or a single woman. Everyone, regardless of gender, has a strong desire for sex.
草原狼666
2022-12-09 17:38:10
It's quite realistic; there are too many couples like this in their relationships these days.
米老虎
2022-12-28 15:43:25
Quite realistic, thanks for sharing.
松梅竹
2023-01-21 15:09:21
Thank you for sharing your journey.
小农村孩儿True
2023-01-30 17:21:37
@Songmeizhu and her husband have been friends for over ten years. Their mindset has changed since before they started dating, during their first time, in the early stages, in the middle stages, and in the last two years. It's become increasingly indifferent.
静夜思2000
2023-03-02 13:21:22
I admire your honesty and open-mindedness.
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