快乐之源泉

2023-07-21 17:05:13

1. These are all things of the past. Why bring up old matters after so many years of marriage? 2. You have a cuckoldry complex. You wish your wife would have sex with other men. Why care about things from the past? If you care about this, I'll have to wonder if you really have a cuckoldry complex!

天下皆为公

2023-07-22 12:56:53

For the sake of love, don't overthink things. Enjoy life, enjoy the present moment. Life is short, why not live it to the fullest?

紫轩西安

2023-07-22 20:55:45

Let go of your resentment and gently guide you and him.

SwapLife

2023-07-24 11:22:18

I didn't tell you because I was afraid you'd hold me accountable and it would affect your relationship. If you really don't care, open your hearts first, trust each other, then talk about this before going out together. Otherwise, it will affect your relationship and the enjoyment of your outing.

iqslel

2023-07-24 19:37:01

@SwapLife That seems to make sense... It looks like the only way to verify this is to go further and see things more clearly before she'll open up.

橄榄树CZ

2023-07-27 01:20:58

If you truly love her, try to see things from her perspective and let her enjoy more happiness. What does it matter whether she cheated on you or not?

山里人也

2023-07-28 12:01:27

This saves on development, isn't that great? Wouldn't it be better for you, your wife, and others to enjoy life happily together?

一步深渊

2023-08-04 18:59:34

Actually, when you mentioned shaving, I already felt that the affair was a done deal, because I shaved back then too. As for why, it's hard to say, since we're not young girls anymore. Besides, you won't get the answer you want from her now; anyone would be the same, refusing to admit it no matter what. Like when my husband showed me my hotel records, I made up all sorts of lies, saying I'd deny it to the death. I wasn't thinking clearly then, but I still wouldn't admit it. As for your future, it depends on you. Regardless of what the woman does, you need to understand that when a woman cheats, it's always emotional infidelity. But if she comes back to you, it's because of family and lingering feelings. So, it's best not to break the ice.

iqslel

2023-08-06 11:54:34

@StepIntoTheAbyss Thank you for sharing. Our relationship was indeed very bad back then. Also, a few days ago when I pressed her about it, she pulled out a very old Watson's razor and said she used it to shave herself. Honestly, I find it hard to believe: For so many years, from living together to marriage, she's carried it with her all the time? Besides, since the answer is so simple, why didn't she say so sooner?

iqslel

2023-08-06 11:57:57

@MountainManShe's indeed very receptive. When I first told her about my fantasies, I thought she'd get angry and call me a pervert, but instead she asked me, "As long as you don't mind me, it's fine." While staying at a hotel, the phone rang in the middle of the night. I answered and said, "It's definitely a female masseuse." She replied, "Not necessarily, it might be a man."

iqslel

2023-08-06 11:58:49

@StepIntoAbyss Did you scrape yourself? Was the other person a familiar friend or a stranger?

行走人间

2023-08-16 14:44:14

In truth, men, without exception, have an insatiable need for vaginas. There are at least tens of millions of members in the 69 group. If we all worked together to form a vagina-fucking group, let's get moving, find some time, invite 10 men and 10 women, and stay in a secret mountain villa for a week. What would it feel like to repeatedly fuck each other? If a man fucks a hundred vaginas in his lifetime, and a woman is fucked by at least a hundred men, I think my life would be worthwhile. To put it bluntly, if you're 35 years old, and you've fucked vaginas of 16, 20, 29, 35, 42, and 55 years old, accumulating to 100 vaginas, don't you think that's a pretty good life? Even emperors are few in number. Life is short; it passes in the blink of an eye.

行走人间

2023-08-16 14:44:40

It's normal that you can't accept letting someone else sleep with your wife. What man would willingly accept that? In short, look at any big star—which one hasn't been slept with by directors and producers? To succeed, you have to utilize resources. An ordinary woman isn't that precious. Ultimately, it's because men themselves are unwilling to make the effort. Even making friends requires treating them to a few meals, let alone pursuing higher goals. Therefore, most men are unambitious. Think about this: men who marry female celebrities know all too well about their wives' lives outside the marriage.

行走人间

2023-08-16 14:45:04

In reality, most men don't understand women. In fact, women generally find the vagina dirty. Even if you give her oral sex and she feels good, she doesn't like it in principle; she'll think you're pathetic. "Look at how dirty it is, you don't mind, why don't you go lick a garbage can? You're a loser." She'll think you're always thinking about these things, that you have no ambition. In short, it's about money. When life isn't comfortable, women feel insecure. They don't have the time or inclination to think about these things—that's the crux of the matter. So, focus on making money. With money, you have a higher quality of life and a more refined lifestyle. Her attitude stems from the pressures of life.

行走人间

2023-08-16 14:45:36

Your dad isn't Li Gang, what resources do you have? You gave your boss two million, do you have that? Your wife's vagina is a resource with no cost. To put it bluntly, even if you use it yourself, you're still using sexual resources. If your wife married you but couldn't have sex with you, you'd definitely leave her. Vagina is a woman's capital. Otherwise, are you stupid? Give her a dowry? Your future depends on your courage. If your wife is comfortable, your boss is happy, your clients are satisfied, why worry about not achieving success? Don't hide your wife's vagina at home, everyone has a vagina, right? You need to understand, use it. Our vagina is just as good, isn't it? Although we don't have social status, we still have the most beautiful resources. Tell your wife there's a reason for being poor. The poorer you are, the more you cling to dignity and face. The poorer you are, the more you want to take advantage of others.

行走人间

2023-08-16 14:46:00

Have you ever been to Zhejiang? Zhejiang is incredibly wealthy. Which rich man's wife doesn't sleep with the boss? The more they sleep with, the richer they become. Let me tell you, rich men's wives are arranged to sleep with their husbands under their wisdom and direction. Tomorrow she'll sleep with Boss Zhang, the day after with Boss Wang—it's all pre-arranged by her husband. Now they're cracking down on pharmaceutical corruption, right? Those pharmaceutical representatives, if they don't sleep with responsible doctors, how can they get contracts? Aren't they men? Doesn't he feel bad about his wife sleeping with them? It's all the same. They've just seen through society and life. Morality is for the poor. Make good use of the resources you have. Don't spend your days miserable thinking you're so capable. Back in the day, an electrician in my unit arranged for his wife to sleep with the department head. Within days, he was promoted to purchasing agent, and his wife to cashier. Wow, they became rich in a year! Purchasing agents are so lucrative. And what about us? We're still working ourselves to the bone, trying to get praise for our abilities.

行走人间

2023-08-16 14:51:19

Your wife shaved her pubic hair, need I say more? Need I even ask? It's obvious another man told her he preferred hairless women. So, she shaved it off. You need to seriously consider the pros and cons of this. You're a man; what man wouldn't want to sleep with someone else's wife? Look at the single men on the platform; no matter what high-sounding words they use, their essence is wanting to sleep with other men's wives for free. Meanwhile, their own wives are always using the excuse of not agreeing, unwilling to give anything in return. Remember, poverty has its reasons. The poorer you are, the more you cling to dignity and face. The poorer you are, the more you want to take advantage of others. Why are you digging into this? It's easy to lose control and eventually leave you. Let her have fun, support her having fun, but she can't fall in love with the other person. Later, you arrange for her to have fun; make good use of this cost-free resource.

iqslel

2023-08-16 15:27:56

@WalkingInTheWorld's words are very true. A few days ago, my wife said that she used her usual razor to shave her armpit hair because she was bored and lonely during a short holiday. However, your experience also makes a lot of sense.

iqslel

2023-08-16 15:33:25

@WalkingInTheWorld, I was deeply moved by what you said. To be honest, although my wife insists she's never been penetrated by anyone else, I'm still somewhat skeptical. One piece of evidence is that I mentioned to her that I'd seen the masseuses' vaginas at a massage parlor, but she didn't hold it against me; she just complained a little and that was it.