新思维大叔

2023-02-11 08:45:42

I can help you.

幸福蕉蕉

2023-02-11 11:12:36

Same here, mine is too.

qiutian00

2023-02-11 11:41:07

It's so hard. During sex, you can say anything, but I'll never admit anything. I've tried for years and it's still the same. I've given up.

爽极

2023-02-11 12:21:04

There's no good way to deal with it, she just won't talk to me.

快说啊fly

2023-02-11 12:51:26

Have you registered a secondary account?

缘来的梅开四度

2023-02-11 12:55:00

Find a single man in your local area who possesses qualities you lack, and who is also the type your wife has secretly longed for. Introduce him to her (meet him over dinner in person), add him on social media under some pretext, and then slowly and steadily pursue him. This might be a lot of work for you (the planner), as you need to search and find suitable candidates, but this method is feasible. Most other methods will likely end up being ineffective and a waste of effort.

我叫灭绝师太

2023-02-11 14:57:42

Time and impact are not enough. Continue to stimulate during sex, show more care and surprise your family members with small gestures, and always prioritize love.

rembony

2023-02-11 15:50:06

Like my wife, this is the most difficult to develop.

年轻就是一切

2023-02-11 19:12:38

@HappyBananaI'llHelpYou

老五家的六少爷

2023-02-11 20:17:24

Don't rush things; haste makes waste. Start with topics she likes: children's education, clothes, skincare and cosmetics, nail art. Don't jump straight into talking about sex—is she naturally promiscuous?

qiutian00

2023-02-12 09:36:22

@Angel'sWill My wife is a chatty person, so I secretly added her as a friend online. They chatted for over a month and initially got along very well. I told the friend about my wife's hobbies and other things. But then, without my knowledge, my wife deleted him. Later, I asked the friend, and he said he couldn't ask her out no matter what. The biggest achievement was that my wife made a voice call to him while we were having sex, and the friend heard her moaning. I didn't even know!

台州夫妻34

2023-02-12 19:43:29

My wife is the same; she never adds strangers on social media.

窜动的火苗

2023-02-12 21:47:28

@qiutian00, I feel the same way.

开放式婚姻

2023-02-13 04:32:55

My wife initially refused to chat or add me as a friend, but then she came up with a plan: I would secretly send red envelopes (digital cash gifts) to single men, who would then send her red envelopes in return to increase her favorability. The prerequisite was that the single men were good at chatting and "training" her. We've already had two threesomes, and we're planning to do a few more next.

禁区体验

2023-02-14 19:34:29

My wife agrees during sex and really wants to be with other men, but she doesn't agree afterward.

huazi1999

2023-02-21 14:59:54

There's a way to do that. You can share a screen on one phone and watch a movie (three people in total) without her knowing.

陌路w

2023-02-22 17:08:23

Are there any experienced people here to exchange tips?

万千宠爱

2023-02-24 15:42:25

@Forbidden Zone Experience This is almost a success. My wife initially only agreed to be stimulated during sex, and after more than two years, she finally gave in.

loveallw

2023-02-26 12:26:01

@How can Uncle New Thinking help?

渡劫者

2023-03-09 08:33:31

I have the same question; it seems there's no solution.

缘来的梅开四度

2023-03-09 19:43:16

@SharedWife We're too far apart, otherwise I could give it a try. And my intuition tells me I can handle her, provided she's near me; only then will I have the patience to take on her like an ant trying to eat an elephant. We're too far apart, so I can only offer you some advice, nothing more.

龙王帝

2023-03-21 07:02:06

My wife is not a stranger either.