狂狼大龟头
2023-02-07 21:45:55
Conquering a woman's vagina means you've likely conquered her.
fanfu1977
2023-02-07 21:46:46
My wife also had memories of being sexually assaulted; she was controlled by someone using a penis, and it only gradually broke free later.
释放的狼
2023-02-07 22:12:25
Once a woman is conquered both physically and mentally by someone, it's very difficult for her to break free. The mere sight of that man reminds her of being fucked by him, causing her legs to go weak and her vagina to become wet. She'll kneel before him with just a glance.
想见彩虹
2023-02-07 22:45:47
Finally, another update!
配合一下
2023-02-08 05:28:15
That's true.
三三两两尔尔
2023-02-08 09:32:15
Your article is the one I've read most carefully on this forum, without a doubt. I really like it!
iami
2023-02-08 12:55:47
You should find yourself a mistress too, then you'll feel more at peace.
abcdefg
2023-02-08 21:54:20
My wife also had sex with her classmate. As soon as she answered his phone, her juices started flowing down her thighs. She said her vagina felt itchy just from hearing his voice.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-09 00:35:10
@狂狼大龟头 I think that's exactly what you said. My wife is completely conquered, and it's too difficult to get her to completely cut off contact.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-09 00:36:55
@fanfu1977 So, while people say men think with their lower bodies, I don't entirely agree. It's even more terrifying when women get involved.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-09 00:39:44
@ReleasedWolf is really frustrated and speechless. Once I see someone's true colors, I feel extremely disgusted with them and tell my wife to stop seeing them. Seeing her reluctant expression is infuriating.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-09 00:41:25
@WantToSeeRainbow Just trying to clear my head, sorry for the mess.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-09 00:42:18
@三三两两尔尔 Thank you so much for your recognition and support!
爱妻行动派
2023-02-09 00:46:25
@iami I really don't have the mood for that. I don't even know what to do with my own wife right now, how can I have the energy to create new trouble? Besides, doing that would damage our relationship and even our family. I think that's the worst option I could consider.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-09 00:49:10
@Let's cooperate. There's more helplessness than anything else involved. My wife is trapped, and I share the responsibility. Breaking off the relationship so easily isn't so easy for her.
sakuramoon
2023-02-09 01:41:22
Your wife is defending K-ge. It seems she's been trained to be a completely obedient sex slave. She prioritizes K-ge's perspective in everything she does. Perhaps only time can resolve this.
sakuramoon
2023-02-09 01:59:37
When my wife first broke up with her ex-boyfriend, whenever I said he wasn't good enough, she would always find fault with herself to defend him and explain why he dumped her. After a few rounds of conversation, we'd start arguing over disagreements. Later, she'd get agitated at the slightest mention of it. It's infuriating. She's definitely being manipulated.
希望我们有缘
2023-02-09 07:23:07
Good article
爱妻行动派
2023-02-10 18:55:05
@sakuramoon I don't know if my wife's situation qualifies as sex slavery, but I don't think it's that serious. Several times, when my wife was about to go on dates, her younger sister told me that Brother K might be there, so I stopped her, and she listened to me and didn't go. My wife keeps saying that the person she truly loves is me, but Brother K might not be the kind of person I'm talking about. My wife says that without Brother K, she wouldn't have been able to get over her past trauma so quickly, and without Brother K, she might not have even met me. Women! Sigh!
爱妻行动派
2023-02-10 18:55:21
@Hope we're meant to be, thank you!
sakuramoon
2023-02-11 01:57:24
@LovingWifeActionist Your wife is beautiful, that's why K-ge helped her out of her slump, investing in her during her lowest point. If it were an ugly, fat guy, K-ge would have ignored her completely. Women always ignore their own value when they like someone, completely considering things from the man's perspective: "He takes such good care of me, so it's all my own choice." I get so angry when I hear that. But I don't know what to say, it makes me seem like I lack perspective.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-11 17:15:56
@sakuramoon My wife is usually quite smart; I think she just went crazy because of K. She's a perfectly normal person; if she hadn't met K, she would never have become so lewd and shameless.
sakuramoon
2023-02-12 03:48:37
@LovingWifeActionist I've read through everything, and it seems like Brother K is quite shrewd. He probably sensed your wariness towards him. If Brother K doesn't have any bad intentions, that's fine. But be careful, buddy.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-12 11:37:30
@sakuramoon We should both be able to sense this. I was chatting with my wife's younger sister yesterday, and she told me that after K's club closed in 2018, his other businesses seem to be declining year by year. Apparently, he was on the verge of bankruptcy at the end of last year, belonging to the group that failed to successfully transform their businesses. His life probably won't be easy. I'm just worried my wife won't make any financial mistakes; as for our physical relationship, there's not much to say anymore.
bj99999999
2023-02-12 16:16:49
Comrade, you still need to update!
开放式婚姻
2023-02-13 16:27:18
Good article
爱妻行动派
2023-02-13 23:38:41
@bj99999999 Lately, I feel like my wife and I have both experienced some changes in our mindset. We haven't fully sorted things out yet. I asked my wife to cut off contact with Brother K, but judging from her attitude, it seems like she's only barely managing to refrain from initiating contact or offering herself to him. Sigh, it's so frustrating! I can't calm down and can't update properly.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-13 23:38:59
@OpenMarriage Thank you!
sakuramoon
2023-02-14 05:58:40
@LovingWifeActionist This... I'm afraid your wife was feeling really pent up, and after being called over by Brother K with high expectations, she played even harder. Now you're in a dilemma, buddy. Has Brother K been focusing his attention on your wife lately?
爱妻行动派
2023-02-14 13:27:49
@sakuramoon That's exactly what you said, a real dilemma! Let's not even talk about my wife's physical relationship; she's already gone that far, there's nothing she can't let go of. My sister-in-law told me that in her husband's circle with Brother K, a whole bunch of people have already gone bankrupt. And my sister-in-law's husband is a businessman himself, so he understands all too well the mentality of those business owners who are still struggling on the verge of bankruptcy. He knows all too well how much these people want to make a comeback. My sister-in-law earned a lot of money through her body over the years, most of which went to fund her husband's business. Ever since my wife confessed to me about being a prostitute… She also mentioned that she earned nearly two million yuan in the years she sold her body, and that I had given her a considerable amount over the years of our marriage. Before the Spring Festival, I told my wife that no matter how much fun or womanizing she went out, she absolutely could not have anything to do with money. I said that even if she spent all her money on the child she had with her ex-husband, I wouldn't have any objections, but she absolutely could not spend money on the men around her. That was my bottom line. Once that line was crossed, it would be a bottomless pit, and if it came to that, our marriage would be over.
sakuramoon
2023-02-15 05:08:26
@LoveYourWifeActionist, they probably don't care about your wife's little bit of money. What I'm worried about now is that they'll set their sights on your business. One day your wife will come back and say that Brother K has some project that's short of cash flow and just needs your resources to make it happen. In the end, she'll make it seem like you're abandoning someone in their time of need if you don't agree. It's despairing to think about.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-15 13:53:06
@sakuramoon Actually, I made my wife completely break up with K. I believe that with her intelligence, she should understand that even if he goes bankrupt, I wouldn't help him. What I've always worried about is that the money my wife worked so hard to earn by selling her body will be used to fill K's bottomless pit. For someone on the verge of bankruptcy, although the money my wife earned from selling her body plus what I've given her over the years is roughly several hundred, it certainly won't bring him back to life. But even if he's barely surviving, he won't so easily give up the chance to try again.
sakuramoon
2023-02-16 03:42:20
I think there's one situation where your wife might give money to K. Some women always want to help their men in their most vulnerable moments, hoping K will genuinely believe that your wife isn't just a sex toy but a person of feeling and loyalty. They mistakenly believe that the money they saved before marriage can be given away freely without considering their husband's feelings. This is the easiest situation for K to fall into. A guy like K will take your wife's money and then say, "Consider this a loan, and I'll charge you 3% interest." He might even make your wife incredibly touched, fantasizing about the praise she'll receive for helping someone she likes so much. To be honest, my wife lent my ex-boyfriend 20,000 yuan to buy goods after we broke up. It was all her hard-earned money, and I didn't really say anything, since we were just boyfriend and girlfriend and I shouldn't interfere. But hearing it back then made me feel so choked up that I couldn't sleep.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-16 12:22:18
@sakuramoon Yes! I think your analysis makes a lot of sense. A couple of years ago, my wife told me that she saved all the money she received. When my wife goes out, she always uses my card, so she rarely has a chance to spend the money I give her. Sometimes she buys clothes, belts, shoes, etc., for her lover, and she uses my card there too, but she always tells me when she gets home. I've reminded her before that she should never lend money to her lover, and she's never done that. My current concern is that a lover like K holds a very special place in my wife's heart. If she wants to help, she probably won't ask me, but my wife has a lot of money of her own. If she uses her own money to help K, and this situation really arises, I don't know how to handle it.
sakuramoon
2023-02-16 17:04:10
@LovingWifeActionist There's no solution to this problem. I think unless K does something to truly break your wife's heart, she'll always have a place for him in her heart. She's used to giving with K, but used to taking from your warm home. The money isn't much, but I feel like a victim in her eyes. I often wondered if I went bankrupt, would my wife be willing to lend me money to weather the storm? The more I thought about it, the more frustrated I became. Luckily, my wife's ex-boyfriend wasn't very magnanimous. I told her to try asking him for money, but he kept dragging his feet and eventually blocked her on QQ, showing her his true colors. But I think K is a different story. You'd better watch out, buddy.
yybb520
2023-02-17 00:18:54
The vagina is the gateway to a woman's soul.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-17 17:22:04
@sakuramoon I've thought this through very well. Since the money is with my wife, whether it's given to her by me or earned by her selling her body, it's her money. How she spends it is her decision. If things go wrong, I might be quite disappointed. I also hope that through some events, my wife can see my true colors.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-17 17:22:35
@yybb520 I've always thought this statement makes a lot of sense.
youke123
2023-02-19 15:34:54
youke123
2023-02-19 15:51:55
Furthermore, you must believe that while A-M may favor her lover, her heart isn't with him. It was your more than ten years of dedication that truly helped her recover. A-M never realized this, still believing that her period of self-destruction was the way out. This is as wrong as a person in pain drinking alcohol, thinking it heals their suffering. The security you gave her is irreplaceable. I sense your wavering from the title of this article. Yes, A-M's behavior makes it hard for you not to question your own understanding. But you really need to believe what I'm saying. If you don't understand, then I sincerely recommend you read "Gone with the Wind" again. I think you'll understand why true love is so painful, and how blissful it is to overcome this pain. If you can't overcome this pain, love will disappear. I think this is love's test for everyone; only those who can withstand it can understand what true love is.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-20 00:15:55
@youke123 First of all, thank you! I feel you've read these logs very carefully and analyzed them very thoroughly. Over this period, I've also seriously reflected on everything my wife and I have experienced since we met. I can feel that my wife still loves me very much; I've always been very certain of that. However, I've also handled some things poorly, and I might have spoiled her too much, supporting her gambling without any clear rules or boundaries, which led to her gambling escalating. You're absolutely right. What I need is for my wife to be steadfastly on my side at all times. These past two days, my wife has been on her period and stayed home. She had a frank and open talk with me, and the result was very satisfying. This time, my wife has truly and completely cut off contact with Brother K. Mainly, after my serious analysis, I realized that Brother K's actions were all about investing, training my wife, and turning her into his money-making tool. On this point, my wife has finally fully accepted this fact, which is what I wanted to see most.
别把辣椒当主食
2023-02-20 14:06:42
Being flirtatious is in most women's nature, but if a woman suddenly starts pretending to be innocent in front of her husband, she needs to seriously reflect on her behavior.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-22 00:48:42
@Don't treat chili peppers as a staple food. It's alright, but my wife usually puts on a pretty convincing act of innocence in front of my mom.
别把辣椒当主食
2023-02-22 14:45:59
@fanfu1977 As long as I'm always within my husband's sight during activities, that's fine.
呕心依旧808
2023-02-26 15:14:50
My wife is also being controlled by her lover and can't break free.
爱妻行动派
2023-02-27 14:19:39
@呕心依旧808 My wife has completely broken up with her lover, Brother K, and also with three other lovers who were close to him. These past few days, she's found two other handsome, well-endowed men to replace him as lovers. My wife says these two men used to be her friends with benefits. A few days ago, when she had her period, she went to the hospital with them for some tests, and now they've started having unprotected sex with her.
向上天天69
2023-03-02 06:02:58
@youke123 Your analysis is spot on! I really want to chat with you.
呕心依旧808
2023-03-02 18:50:32
@LovingWifeActionist, is your wife wearing an IUD?
爱妻行动派
2023-03-02 22:32:32
@呕心依旧808 I've always worn an IUD. My wife likes group sex, and if I wear a condom, she doesn't produce as much lubrication.
salsf
2023-03-18 01:28:42
@LovingWifeActionist says the best way to get over the pain of an old relationship is to start a new one. It seems your wife has a deep understanding of this.
爱妻行动派
2023-03-22 15:44:09
@salsf That's really true, mainly because my wife has a strong sex addiction and can't live without a man.
salsf
2023-03-24 17:22:12
@爱妻行动派 (A devoted wife) is probably beyond redemption after being "developed." The more security her boyfriend can provide, the more reckless she becomes. However, it's best not to stick with one third party, as they can easily control you. It's better to treat it like having a human massage stick; who knows who's manipulating whom?
爱妻行动派
2023-03-25 09:14:04
@salsf So I keep comforting myself like this, it makes me feel better.
salsf
2023-03-25 17:43:37
@LovingWifeActionistBrother's mindset is good. If you get completely absorbed in it and neither of you is holding back, it's easy to overdo it and lose control, which can be unpleasant. Just consider it youthful indulgence.
爱妻行动派
2023-03-26 22:47:38
@cloudf You're absolutely right. I've seen many netizens say that my wife might have a severe sex addiction. Fortunately, the COVID-19 pandemic over the past two or three years has largely suppressed her sex drive; she's not as fervent as before.
爱妻行动派
2023-03-26 22:51:35
@salsf That's not wrong, but I've been so busy with work. Now that I've taken over the company, I have to be responsible for it and its employees. Otherwise, I really don't know if I could control the wildly growing desires within me.
salsf
2023-03-27 23:04:07
@LovingWifeActionist So men really should prioritize their careers. If you're successful, your wife might just indulge in a few niche activities, and as long as it's not illegal, nobody can say anything. But if you don't have your own career, it's a different story. Women admire strength, and a strong career is a man's armor.
爱妻行动派
2023-03-29 22:59:45
@salsf So, while I can't change the fact that I'm not physically strong enough, I have to work hard to become stronger in other areas. Although it's somewhat like following in my father's footsteps, I've also worked hard enough. Compared to my family, the men my wife is seeing are far less well-off.
salsf
2023-03-31 01:46:24
@LovingWifeActionist It's perfectly normal for a son to inherit his father's business. As a father, he wants to leave the best and most to his children. But for a son, knowing how to take over the business is a complex skill. Aren't there many examples of spoiled rich kids who squander their parents' hard-earned success? So, brother, don't be modest. Develop and expand your business, and it will flourish. You won't have to worry about your wife not wanting you around.
wht0325
2023-04-11 03:19:33
My wife experienced something similar. She was once conquered in bed by a man, and we even did it together for a long time. At first, she thought he was nice, but as we spent more time together, more and more of his flaws became apparent, and she gradually got annoyed with him and stopped participating much. When they were together, he and my wife were incredibly engaged during sex, their coordination like that of an old married couple. My wife said he was the most passionate in bed. In the beginning, she often brought him home for sex, and I'd seen him many times on my way home from work. Later, she got tired of him and wisely stopped bringing him home so often. It was because he satisfied my wife so much in bed that when I tried to analyze his behavior for her, she initially wouldn't listen. But after I explained it to her more often, even she, usually so naive, gradually understood, and the love she felt for him because of sex faded considerably. Perhaps it's because of their long-term intimacy; physically, according to my wife, he provides a feeling that no one else can give her, and every time she's with him, she experiences unparalleled physical and mental pleasure. So even though I knew he was no longer a suitable woman for a romantic relationship, we were physically inseparable, and I had no choice but to accept this reality. Before, when we were together, I willingly licked up every drop of his semen inside my wife. Perhaps because of this aversion, now whenever my wife comes home after having sex with him and I have to lick it up (we've developed a long-standing habit of me licking up the semen before washing the dishes after she goes out), even though I know it was him, I don't swallow the semen that used to flow out as I used to. I secretly spit it into the wastebasket next to the bed while licking. Indeed, as the author said, once you conquer a woman's vagina, she can't live without you.
爱妻行动派
2023-04-12 15:21:47
@salsf Thank you so much! Brother, it's truly not easy to find someone who understands me here.
爱妻行动派
2023-04-12 15:24:07
@wht0325 Having had similar experiences, we understand each other's feelings even more. Once a woman's cunt is conquered, she's completely hooked.
salsf
2023-04-12 16:50:25
@LovingWifeActionist To paraphrase a Western proverb, "Render unto God the things that are God's, and unto Satan the things that are Satan's," life is similar. Sex and work are not everything. I think this statement can be understood from two sides. Sex isn't everything. As my brother mentioned, the unique family sex situation doesn't affect his wife's fulfillment of family responsibilities. You can interpret this as a contrasting personality, or you can see it as her understanding of priorities. The same applies to my brother. Although his seemingly unusual sex life might excite outsiders, work and career are still his main focus as a man and a businessman. So, sex is sex, and life is life. From a dialectical perspective, this is a matter of primary and secondary contradictions.
salsf
2023-04-12 16:52:02
@LovingWifeActionist Hahaha, I'm just a professional habit of analyzing the mechanisms of problems; it's an occupational hazard. I'm honored that you've hit the nail on the head, but perhaps everyone here is more or less preoccupied with their own thoughts and doesn't bother with analysis. You flatter me, bro.
爱妻行动派
2023-04-12 22:10:44
@salsf Okay! Thank you! Then let's keep sex separate from life.
深圳小绿123
2023-04-12 22:39:44
@yybb520 This is so well written, so insightful!
深圳小绿123
2023-04-12 22:40:17
@LovingWifeActionist: Separate sex and love, don't let them interfere with each other, I completely agree with your statement.
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