2012-11-01 16:01:45
I've always wanted to have sex with a stranger, but she's afraid of strangers, so I haven't brought it up again. Now I've found someone suitable, but I'm hesitant because of feelings. The man likes my wife, and of course, I completely trust and rely on her. I'm just worried that after we've had sex, he might become attached and keep bothering me. I don't know him well. My wife says it's okay, I hope so! It's a bit of a shame that I won't be able to see my wife's first time having sex with someone else.60748

2012-11-02 17:17:27
I'd also like to watch single men have sex with their wives; you can contact me...60748

2012-11-02 17:28:28
Call the man's wife, and the four of you come together.60748

2012-11-02 17:34:19
Gradual progress is fundamental; things will fall into place naturally.60748

2012-11-02 17:36:58
Just like my wife's first time, I didn't sleep a wink the night she went on her date. My heart was pounding all night. The guy had no idea that I was the one who encouraged my wife to go.60748

2012-11-02 19:46:05
You should have been there!! You took care of your wife, so she should also take care of your feelings!!60748

2012-11-02 21:35:08
It should be sex without affection. It's very dangerous for you to let your wife be alone with that man like this. I'm worried that the man will become entangled with your wife.60748

2012-11-02 21:42:59
If your lover is pursuing your wife, and your wife is conflicted, and your lover wants to have her all to himself but can't, his resentment will cause trouble. Some people are too arrogant or, for some reason, can't accept defeat. Once things don't go as they want, they can't accept it and may resort to unscrupulous or even crazy methods.60748

2012-11-02 22:49:43
Think of a way to make sure you can't see it. Behind the hotel curtains, or you could install a wireless camera beforehand. I have experience with this.60748

2012-11-02 23:44:30
They made love twice tonight, but unfortunately my wife told me she didn't have an orgasm at all. It's a little disappointing that I didn't see it. We made love again when we got home, and my wife had two orgasms this time. She said that even though she didn't have an orgasm, it was still a little stimulating and exciting, after all, it was her first time having sex with another man! Anyway, as long as my wife is happy, that's all that matters. Really, I love her very much.60748

2012-11-03 00:04:11
I'm also worried that the guy might harass my wife, but she says he won't, and I believe her. However, I don't want this relationship to last long either.60748

2012-11-03 08:24:47
You can call him to hear your wife's moans during sex.60748

2012-11-03 09:16:24
Since you're so worried, I really don't understand why you didn't go with him. Let that man know you encouraged your wife to come out, and that he'll understand that your guidance was the reason she came. He'll thank you, and he'll respect you and consider you a friend. If you don't go, and your wife goes alone, he'll think she's having an affair. Then, they might do things behind your back, leading to an uncontrollable situation. You yourself wanted to go, but you were worried your wife wouldn't be open. Even without you, your wife is open; the text says she didn't even have an orgasm. So why didn't you go? Instead, you stayed home, spacing out and overthinking. I think you're very cowardly. As a man, if you want something, you need to take the initiative and bravely fight for it. Your wife is already cheating on you, what are you afraid of?60748

2012-11-03 09:17:25
Even though your wife didn't go, she still didn't relax (I forgot to type "didn't"), and the article says she didn't have an orgasm at all.60748

2012-11-03 09:17:59
ning0708: 2012-11-02 22:49:43 Think of a way, how could you not see it? Behind the hotel curtains, or you could install a wireless camera beforehand. I have experience with this. This brother's "experience" is a terrible idea!60748

2012-11-03 09:21:29
If you want to go see it, go see it yourself. If you want to participate, participate actively. Remember, you are the director. If your direction results in your wife's satisfaction, your satisfaction, and the satisfaction of single men, then you've directed it. If you're the director, hiding behind the scenes, silently suffering, and worried that some man is cheating on your wife, then in reality, he's already cheating on your wife. Your wife isn't mature either, saying she can't let loose with her husband present. Did she really let loose on her own? Didn't she also not reach orgasm? Instead, she only came twice with you after returning home. Given this, you're still cooped up at home, letting your wife fly a kite. If the string breaks, the kite will truly never be brought back.60748

2012-11-03 10:22:07
I will not agree to that.60748

2012-11-03 10:53:50
Take it slow! There's still some unresolved issue in my mind, and it's a little hard to accept right now!60748

2012-11-03 11:15:00
Actually, you don't need to worry. You should trust your wife. I often let my ex-wife go solo, and she would often sleep with her boyfriend at his house for a night. As long as you and your wife find it exciting and your wife is happy and satisfied, that's all that matters.60748

2012-11-03 12:35:54
I suggest you don't let your wife go out alone. Since you're so open about it, you should face things together as a couple. Otherwise, things might go wrong.60748

2012-11-03 16:02:46
Well, things will get better if we take it slow, it's just that I'm still not quite used to it yet.60748

2012-11-04 13:35:43
Three's Company---Commoner: 2012-11-03 11:15:00 Actually, you don't need to worry. You should trust your wife. I often let my ex-wife go solo, and she would often sleep with that guy at his house for a night. As long as you and your wife feel excited and your wife is happy and satisfied, that's fine. Why did she become your ex-wife?60748

2012-11-08 00:19:23
You want your wife to be sexually satisfied, but you can't be too indulgent with her. You need to understand that you should always keep the initiative in your hands. Why don't you talk things out with your wife? In other words, you should negotiate. If they don't agree to your conditions, you can of course take back your decision! Let them not have their way. Aren't territorial disputes in China resolved through negotiations?60748

2012-11-09 19:38:23
Let her play by herself first. After she's played a few times and feels more comfortable, then you can play together as a trio.60748

2012-11-26 16:32:02
The husband should actively participate in a threesome; that's what makes it exciting.60748

2012-12-03 14:59:34
Hello, I live nearby, but not in the same city, so don't worry about any entanglements. Also, I encourage threesomes with couples. I don't know if you agree!60748

2013-01-25 21:41:45
Hey bro, I'm from Xuchang. Let's chat sometime, we're not far apart. I'm a newbie too, we can "share a room" without switching, but I don't think that's easy to accept. We can switch when the time is right, let nature take its course...60748

2013-03-15 21:45:20
I also want to see my wife making love with other men; single men can contact me.60748
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