2013-04-10 09:18:48

How could this happen? And it's a doctor, no less. How old is he?

2013-04-10 09:47:43

Don't jump to conclusions and say someone is useless. There could be many reasons why he might act this way: 1. He's worked all day and then drove a long distance from one city to another, so he's tired; 2. It's his first time doing this, and he's too excited; 3. And most importantly, you're too beautiful and sexy, making him unable to resist!

金箍棒77

2013-04-10 11:14:00

Sigh, I guess it's because he was nervous. Or maybe he lacked experience.

有缘千里会

2013-04-10 11:21:40

You could consider a threesome; maybe that would be better.

mbonbo

2013-04-10 11:37:25

Perhaps this is the first time. To label him as "not having" is a bit much.

yuese123

2013-04-10 11:39:43

Sister, you shouldn't have said that. You should have been more understanding. Maybe she was just overly excited because it was her first time. What you said was really hurtful!

fdsunny2002

2013-04-10 11:46:07

Another possibility is that you didn't attract him enough, which could also lead to this situation.

永恒的

2013-04-10 11:50:03

That kind of man, sigh, that's exactly what my lover's husband is like, haha...

AYSJ

2013-04-10 11:50:36

Something's strange; there's something wrong with the method.

AYSJ

2013-04-10 11:52:16

That's pretty good, add me! Looking forward to it.

梅酒沉清

2013-04-10 11:56:37

Perhaps it was due to nervousness, or perhaps it was premature ejaculation, but usually the best approach in such situations is to reassure and encourage each other, helping everyone relax. During my first threesome, I was also out of sorts for the first hour, with mixed feelings. Later, the couple patiently chatted and joked with me, and for the next three hours, I became increasingly energetic. We only rested when we were both too tired to move.

找人操逼

2013-04-10 12:15:26

It's really bad... If we're meant to be friends, maybe we can be friends. I'm 24, single male.

有缘千里会

2013-04-10 13:36:37

The original poster should be happy; it's probably because you're very attractive, and the doctor might be nervous because it's his first time. A man in his thirties who has already ejaculated twice in one night is physically exhausted, and having failed, is even more nervous psychologically. This is understandable. Since the original poster is satisfied with everything else, perhaps they should spend more time together; getting to know each other better will make things easier.

寻夫妻激情3P

2013-04-10 13:46:31

I'll give you passion.

常州夫妻1982

2013-04-10 14:14:59

There's still a lot of room for improvement; they've been thoroughly abused.

lifeoflove

2013-04-10 14:30:25

Give men some encouragement, they'll perform even better...

zaoanbeijing

2013-04-10 14:34:36

Haha, I wonder how that doctor would feel after seeing this.

zfz98

2013-04-10 14:41:39

Haha, what you wrote is wonderful. As long as you feel it, that's enough. Some things can't be forced.

zfz98

2013-04-10 14:46:14

But the principle of a threesome is that the husband must be present. Maybe he'll behave better if his husband is there. Haha.

守望夫妻

2013-04-10 17:58:05

Three times a night is enough.

love+sex

2013-04-10 18:15:15

It seems this friend's premature ejaculation isn't due to attraction to women or nervousness, but rather fatigue or poor physical condition. While a woman's strong attraction might cause premature ejaculation the first time, repeated occurrences suggest a physical issue. Men shouldn't push themselves when they feel tired, haha.

he0799

2013-04-10 19:36:30

Seriously? That was a fast reaction? It's useless.

hi.canada

2013-04-10 20:16:53

The author seems to be a well-mannered and reserved woman. The process was somewhat disappointing; it seems the man hadn't told her details about his performance beforehand, such as the duration being too short. It's likely the man's central nervous system was highly aroused, leading to rapid ejaculation, and had little to do with nervousness. In the future, the author should learn more about her partner beforehand and establish some rules, such as oral sex but no blowjobs…

真诚abcd

2013-04-10 21:25:36

This man must be too excited.

wensange

2013-04-11 00:56:41

Haha. The important thing is that the person is okay; things can be improved, so keep up the good work.

开心人生

2013-04-11 02:20:20

A man who can't put out a fire should never start one!

lian1988

2013-04-11 13:30:21

How can a man who can't even satisfy a woman be considered a man?

深圳十八公分

2013-04-11 15:36:25

Shenzhen hunk. Thumbs up!

南宫雁

2013-04-11 15:50:24

Ha ha

情感兔子

2013-04-11 20:45:14

I'm really looking forward to it!

sxtpy

2013-04-12 10:18:16

Hahaha

一网情深520

2013-04-12 13:14:45

The man was too excited

风起无沙

2013-04-12 14:21:20

Aren't you excited?

chuhe0000

2013-04-12 17:11:45

Thank you all for your support and encouragement. I also want to clarify that I've been tired and exhausted these past two days, so I haven't been on 69 and haven't been able to reply to your posts promptly. When my husband came home, he didn't scold me but kindly criticized me. Feng, I'm so sorry. I didn't mean to, and I certainly didn't mean to hurt you. It was probably late at night, and I was just too disappointed. I apologize again. If possible, my husband agrees to let you try again. Please understand, I didn't mean it.

kimiko.

2013-04-12 18:52:53

Looking for a muscular man in Suzhou

一起交流

2013-04-12 19:09:27

Haha... That must be so frustrating...

hencaoni

2013-04-12 22:50:18

He made that estimate because he was too excited or too tired; he should make another estimate.

义乌男

2013-04-13 20:07:05

It's probably because you're too assertive that he feels pressured.

FK615FK615

2013-04-13 20:18:01

Perhaps it's due to unfamiliarity and nervousness. In my experience, the first time is very firm and long-lasting, with an indestructible strength. I hope to make friends.

呕心依旧

2013-04-14 14:51:16

This is normal; everyone's abilities are different.

wxrd

2013-04-15 23:04:22

Perhaps I was too nervous.

美妙的美妙

2013-04-17 08:49:54

Please don't complain. I think you're a very cultured woman, and you'll meet someone even better. Best wishes to you both.

zhangjiaju

2013-04-29 22:20:28

No way. That would be so pathetic.

koujiao69

2013-04-29 22:26:09

This is... tragic...

阳光猛男

2013-04-29 23:00:51

Maybe I was too nervous.

ddd.jjj.gggg

2013-05-16 21:05:53

I don't watch it much.

有梦就说

2013-05-17 05:40:55

That's the worst-case scenario; without a good start, it'll be very difficult to get back on track. Maybe you can lead me to the third floor for a try?

海边人家

2013-06-04 09:15:27

Please don't blame him. I think there are several reasons: 1. Due to work or life setbacks; 2. He may be tired from driving for a long time; 3. He hasn't had sex for a long time; 4. He may be under psychological pressure because you are too beautiful; 5. He may actually have premature ejaculation. This may be a defect of some well-mannered men. I have encountered the same situation before, and the second time was different. Please arrange to have foreplay and communicate slowly next time. I think you will definitely have a happy sex life. I also want to remind you that if you are successful the first time, you should carefully consider whether the person is experienced and also avoid dating too many people.

xinglinxuetong

2013-08-15 18:24:26

The first time is inevitable.

长春单男真诚交夫妻友

2013-08-15 18:57:19

Haha, sis, you're killing me with laughter! Sigh, everyone's in this situation is pretty conflicted.

funman69

2013-08-15 19:21:49

Contact me, that scenario won't happen again. I'll be working in Hefei for the second half of the year.

绿江畔兰

2013-08-15 19:23:04

There are some particularly sensitive people. I'm very sensitive myself. I can't handle any drama. His over-excitement might also be a factor. Someone like that must be good at flirting. We still need a period of adjustment.