2013-09-06 09:52:31

I feel the same way; there's a slight sense of disappointment even when experiencing excitement.

2013-09-06 09:56:26

The most important thing is that one genuinely has the desire to have a cuckolded wife, rather than being misled by others to follow a trend.

铁骑军

2013-09-06 10:10:04

That makes sense. Luckily, I haven't taken that step yet. I guess our bottom line is just a video call. Actually, you could also find a single woman. Who says a threesome has to be two men? Two women and one man, or two men and two women, are also fine. If you really want to find psychological balance, then find a couple swapping partner or a single woman. That way, you won't feel too disappointed. I hope my words can help you.

老扁

2013-09-06 10:10:14

I really have that feeling, but when I calm down, I can't help but fantasize about the exciting expressions and feelings my wife makes with other men.

fourpshow

2013-09-06 10:12:23

I've read it! Four skins are still the most balanced, both mentally and physically.

wgq

2013-09-06 11:01:49

The original poster should first experience couple swapping, and then if interested, try 3P or triple penetration.

wgq

2013-09-06 11:04:32

fourpshow: 2013-09-06 10:12:23 I've read it! Four-person sex is more balanced, both psychologically and physically. 3P refers to 2 men and 1 woman, 4P refers to 3 men and 1 woman, and so on.

339wj

2013-09-06 11:31:05

I feel the same way. Think it through before taking the first step.

wxl7318

2013-09-06 11:32:59

It seems they moved too fast. A husband definitely needs a gradual adjustment period psychologically. Perhaps starting with sharing the same bed without changing partners is best. Most of the articles online about how exciting it is for husbands in threesomes are fabricated by single men. If a single man is psychologically healthy, why doesn't he bring his wife or girlfriend along? The fact that they're going out for entertainment without their women's knowledge speaks volumes. Threesomes are best started with couples engaging in casual sex; the results are quite good, and two men taking turns servicing their respective wives would be even better.

中年夫妻A

2013-09-06 11:49:32

There was a slight sense of disappointment even while experiencing excitement.

让老婆更骚

2013-09-06 12:37:22

That's because you haven't truly accepted it yet.

大连桃花岛

2013-09-06 13:51:05

There's a first time for everything, right?

mbonbo

2013-09-06 14:19:56

I understand, but once you've done it, don't regret it, and definitely don't complain to your wife!

星河1

2013-09-06 14:26:25

wgq: 2013-09-06 11:04:32 fourpshow: 2013-09-06 10:12:23 I've read it! 4P is more balanced, both psychologically and physically. 3P refers to 2 men and 1 woman, 4P refers to 3 men and 1 woman, and so on.

sshalex

2013-09-06 14:47:21

Some people adapt, some don't. Actually, humanity's earliest form of marriage was group marriage, then monogamy... Now, with monogamy, our discomfort stems from thousands of years of feudal tradition.

sshalex

2013-09-06 15:05:44

Possessive men can't stand even looking at their wives, let alone replacing them. They might be fine with it for themselves, but if their wives are involved, it's a catastrophe. The truth is, while you're having affairs with other wives, others are having affairs with yours too; it's just a matter of whether you know it or not. Most Chinese people have a get-rich-quick mentality. They think, "I'll take advantage of you, so you better not take advantage of me." Either don't have affairs at all, and don't have affairs with your wife either, and live a quiet life. Or be more carefree and allow her to have affairs even if you're having them. If you can't stand your wife being with other men, think about other men's husbands before you sleep with them.

有点想你

2013-09-06 15:23:42

I haven't tried it, but it feels real. The most important thing is that my wife is happy!

chyd123

2013-09-06 16:04:11

There was a slight sense of disappointment even while experiencing excitement.

情趣多

2013-09-06 16:54:49

Actually, the most exciting part is when you don't participate in a threesome; the most exciting part is when all three people achieve their goals.

sense10101

2013-09-06 17:27:55

I agree with Changsha Panda's point of view; it's just that my own mindset hasn't changed.

济南晴儿0531

2013-09-06 19:38:01

Okay, thank you.

laowuwu

2013-09-06 21:35:12

This is all a matter of psychological resilience.

sexsex9

2013-09-06 22:01:57

You're right. If you're having a threesome for your own thrill, then that's fine. But what if you put yourself in your wife's shoes and wanted to create passion for her? My husband says I always make him feel great during sex, and he wants me to have wave after wave of orgasms.

tukun

2013-09-06 22:19:20

I agree with 17318's statement.

swx2013

2013-09-06 23:11:08

Don't blame your wife. If you feel uncomfortable with this, then let's start with swapping. That might be better, or even a threesome.

相约午后

2013-09-07 07:09:06

The motivation for playing games differs, leading to different experiences. It depends on whether you want to make your wife happy and excited, or whether you want to get excited for yourself.

莫陌。

2013-09-07 10:32:02

My thoughts are exactly the same as yours.

晨枫520

2013-09-07 13:57:53

Understanding and tolerance, haha.

幸福的夏天

2013-09-07 18:57:40

My true thoughts. Let's discuss them sometime.

月亮哥

2013-09-07 20:01:13

They both have their reasons, and they all seem to make good points. It's important to maintain a balanced mindset before making a decision.

爱你a

2013-09-07 20:45:45

"After this experience, my wife's mindset, especially regarding sex, has changed somewhat." Could it be that my wife has developed a liking for threesomes?

爱好3P

2013-09-08 15:08:51

I feel the same way. I've had a few threesomes with two online friends and my wife. What I found exciting was the feeling of my wife agreeing to it; the actual act itself didn't seem as exciting.

看看12345678

2013-09-08 17:36:28

This idea is very realistic. Changing it would be a good idea, more balanced, and wouldn't leave you feeling too disappointed.

xznbsy526

2013-09-09 14:18:35

Iron Cavalry Army: 2013-09-06 10:10:04 That makes sense. Luckily, I haven't taken that step yet. I guess our bottom line is just a video call. Actually, you could also find a single woman. Who says a 3P has to be two men? Two women and one man, or two men and two women, are also fine. If you really want to find psychological balance, then find a couple swap or a single woman. That way you won't feel too disappointed. I hope my words can help you, bro. A 3P is two men and one woman, or two women and one man is called a double flight.

高瞻远瞩

2013-09-09 14:24:40

It's best to start by not changing partners during intercourse!

此情只可以成追忆

2013-09-09 14:49:43

xznbsy526: A 3P must consist of two men and one woman; otherwise, it's not a 3P. For example, two women and one man would be called a double penetration.

柔酷男

2013-09-11 16:36:17

Learning...

shanghai1111

2013-09-11 18:57:07

My wife and I both want to try a threesome, it's so frustrating!

泸沽湖

2013-09-15 19:36:08

It shows you love your wife, I feel the same way, but we've never had a threesome and I'd like to try it too.

托尼A

2013-09-15 20:03:08

That's absolutely right! If you're not ready or are still preparing, you can choose to swap partners! Start by meeting in person and having coffee! Waiting until you're ready for a threesome? That's when you become a seasoned veteran! Only when you and your spouse can resist temptation can you truly enjoy it! Exciting and pleasurable sex is like fine wine! It can also be poison! It depends on the individual!

失意浪子

2013-09-15 22:27:19

My wife and I really want to switch partners, but we don't know where to find them.

飘缘

2013-10-11 20:41:09

I haven't experienced it myself, so this is how it should be from an outsider's perspective.

lp3p

2013-10-11 20:59:18

I believe you'll want to do it again, because there are exciting and stimulating elements involved. Maybe before long you'll start fantasizing about it again, haha.

带着面具生活

2013-10-11 21:15:35

Dilemma

舍得夫妻

2013-10-15 00:41:50

My wife is afraid of getting addicted.

真诚夫妻爱爱

2013-10-19 23:42:40

Anyone coming to Jinan? I'll treat you to some skewers.

石家庄爱心人士

2013-10-29 09:24:33

Are there any couples willing to video chat? Please contact me.

奉贤夫妻266

2013-12-19 18:26:58

I felt it a little at first, but I don't feel it anymore.

尊重快乐

2013-12-26 15:48:31

Everything takes time. If you find it hard to accept being single, try wife swapping first. Once you both can accept it, then you can move on to other things. Letting your wife do things shows you love her, and her jealousy proves you love and care for her. But more importantly, it's about making your future life more exciting and less mundane.

联通@移动

2014-02-09 21:24:57

Skilled at training and developing married women ##Looking forward to in-depth training and development of your slutty wife@@

日后再说as

2014-05-06 16:20:45

I don't want to spend every day on QQ testing whether we're compatible, until we're exhausted and go our separate ways. Next year we'll both be a year older! Acceptance is fine! Disapproval is also fine!

日后再说as

2014-05-06 16:22:52

The comments are all well-made, but I particularly support sshalex: Possessive men can't stand even looking at their wives, let alone switching. They're fine with it if they're having sex, but if their wives are, it's a disaster. The truth is, while you're having sex with other wives, others are having sex with yours too; it's just a matter of whether you know it or not. Most Chinese people have a get-rich-quick mentality. They're thinking, "I'll take advantage of you, so you better not take advantage of me." Either I don't have sex, and my wife shouldn't either, and we should live a quiet life. Or I'm more easygoing and allow her to have some fun even if you're having an affair. If you can't stand your wife being with someone else, think about that other woman's husband before you sleep with her!

享受生活69

2014-05-06 16:53:31

Brother, you must get your attitude right.

紫色寻恋

2015-01-30 19:55:56

We are a couple from Tai'an. Can we add each other and chat?

愤怒的棒槌

2015-05-10 00:00:43

It's normal. In a threesome, the husband is the greatest. You need to be careful: Do you have cuckolding desires? Do you genuinely want your wife to have pleasure? Will you get jealous? These are all things you need to overcome. In any case, I still hope you'll be happy.

硬汉

2016-10-01 18:35:08

Honestly, I'd rather my wife cheat on me with other men and we just have sex. It would be more exciting if she came back and told me about it afterwards.

难实现的梦

2016-10-01 19:35:24

People have vastly different mindsets! As long as you express your opinions, there will always be those who resonate with you and those who disagree!

菲要挨操

2016-10-01 19:39:44

We've done it a few times already, and I think the most exciting part is when the wife is meeting a single man for sex, and the husband waits downstairs at the hotel, guessing what's going on. To enjoy this unique thrill, the husband needs to imagine the single man as his tool, and then the original poster's concerns will disappear. Of course, the prerequisite is that your relationship as a couple must be absolutely good.

舔舔想你

2019-06-27 09:34:56

It's clear you two have a great relationship.