freebit

2015-03-26 08:45:47

It's important to discuss the details with the single man beforehand. If the wife is relaxed, the single man won't be too nervous.

够深、够猛

2015-03-26 09:22:31

It seems like you haven't let go yet. Keep up the good work!

ck168

2015-03-26 09:50:08

I'm speechless that you guys booked a room.

zzhang1986

2015-03-26 12:32:09

I don't think who pays for the room is an issue because we talked for a long time beforehand and felt good about each other. Neither of us would care about the money. Besides, I was working overtime that day and came out late. The main purpose of my previous posts about single men paying for rooms was to warn single men who are still struggling to make ends meet to think twice. In addition, my wife and I also benefited from the event, so there's no question of who takes advantage of whom. It's just a matter of each getting what they need, so I won't dwell on this issue.

duyi1234

2015-03-26 14:17:21

This single guy is too reserved and boring!

大猛牛

2015-03-26 15:31:20

This single guy is such a coward!

爱情骗子星

2015-03-26 15:56:34

As a viewer, all I care about is: you've achieved your goal, so what's your wife's state now? Could you describe it in detail in the next diary entry? Because you coerced your wife into fulfilling your desires, now you should be concerned about her emotional state, right?

zzhang1986

2015-03-26 17:24:08

The term "coercion" is incorrect because I didn't coerce my wife; my tone was just a little forceful. Her current attitude is ambiguous; I think she's still uneasy and afraid I might have feelings for her. So, I'm continuing to have her single boyfriend chat with her, tease her, and try to gently guide her. I'm currently on a business trip in Guangdong. After returning to Beijing, I'll continue to work on developing my relationship with her and try to arrange our next activity as soon as possible.

说四花香

2015-03-26 19:52:58

The main problem is that I haven't adjusted my mindset. I'll get used to it later.

cndi1988

2015-03-26 21:32:49

If you'd like to try it again, we can discuss it further.

159A

2015-03-26 22:34:45

I'm also in Haidian District, can we talk?

woaixiaoya2012

2015-03-27 00:28:22

In many cases like this, if a single man is too nervous to get an erection the first time, he can try other methods to get into the activity first, such as giving the woman oral sex, etc.

紫色晨风

2015-03-27 17:30:56

Often, it's a communication issue, and also a matter of initial awkwardness. Be tolerant. Not every couple starts out with someone they're naturally compatible with. Take it one step at a time. Best wishes to you both, also in Beijing!