狩猎者1号

2013-11-03 23:19:49

I haven't been able to update much these past few days due to work. I'll explain the whole situation in detail later, though it might be a bit long-winded. I'll gradually write down my thoughts as well, and I hope you'll support me.

gzrzbj

2013-11-03 23:48:37

It's authentic, without excessive description. Perhaps this is true for most couples who haven't been able to let go: they crave excitement yet can also live a mundane life. The reason they can continue is that they feel life is fleeting, and they follow life, follow their instincts, and do what they love...

狩猎者1号

2013-11-04 10:52:59

Many people may have this feeling: in some groups or on QQ, some people often talk about wife-swapping, making a lot of noise but doing little. In reality, most of these people are men indulging in wishful thinking, or some are just discussing it for the sake of sensory stimulation; it doesn't mean they've actually done wife-swapping. From my own experience, people who have done wife-swapping are generally quite low-key and don't talk about it too openly in public; they are a relatively well-mannered group. Because wife-swapping isn't just about physical stimulation, without a certain level of psychological resilience, it can easily lead to marital conflicts. Getting back to the point, on the way back to the hotel, I don't know what other friends who had done wife-swapping thought the first time. I helped the other person's wife back to the room and poured her a glass of water. After drinking the water, she went to the bathroom to shower. During this time, the wife suddenly ran over and said she wanted to say a few words to me, but I couldn't understand what she was saying; perhaps because she had drunk too much, her face was flushed. She asked if she was taking a shower, and I said yes. Her husband also came into our room. I dimmed the lights to the lowest setting, thinking it would create a better atmosphere and less awkwardness. After about 15 minutes, the wife and he left the room. There wasn't the passionate atmosphere I'd imagined, nor the lively scene of a bar. Shortly after closing the door, her wife came out of the bathroom. She wasn't wrapped in a towel or completely naked; she had changed her clothes. She lay on the bed, gesturing for me to take a shower too. When I came out of the bathroom, she had already turned off the lights and was half-lying down watching TV—a late-night channel that always seemed so boring. I asked her if she wanted water, and she said she'd already had some. Slowly, I walked to the other side of the bed. It felt both familiar and strange. I didn't immediately get into the mood; I was afraid she'd be offended. I reached out and held her hand, but she held it tightly. Perhaps it was because I'd had too much to drink, or maybe it was just the first time, and that's how nervous I was. Slowly, the two of us leaned against each other. The room was dark, and by the light shining from the bathroom, I could vaguely sense her maturity and beauty. I tried to take off her clothes. Throughout the process, she wasn't as conservative as I had imagined. We didn't say much; I simply asked her softly if she was used to this kind of embrace. To be continued...

denghla

2013-11-04 17:09:00

That's so well written!

琴琴琴

2013-11-04 21:06:10

Looking forward to sincere communication with you

wenqinglaoshu

2013-11-04 21:41:11

Good, looking forward to your next move.

夜风抚萍

2013-11-04 22:08:41

praise!

康乐一生

2013-11-04 22:22:04

praise

kuaiyu

2013-11-04 23:55:31

It's indeed very well written, realistic and detailed. Looking forward to the next installment...

愤怒的小鸟

2013-11-05 00:03:03

Authenticity is what attracts people, great!

yin07253

2013-11-05 01:03:19

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狩猎者1号

2013-11-05 01:26:32

这段时间事情比较多断断续续的空了就写上一段。。各位朋友给我的留言我也看到了没想到还是会有这么多朋友关注着我。这里我也是想给大家一点小建议。换妻不仅仅是肉体方面得接触不像生活中那样我有需求了可以出去找个小姐花点钱就可以解决了但换妻更多的是精神方面得考验也许在网上我们看到的基本上是成功的经历和故事。。我们有没有想过它带来负面的一些影响所以在考虑换妻的朋友如果感情不稳定的最好是三思而后行。也许你也可以像我之前说的在群里面去享受一下那种幻想的滋味。真正要换妻的人也不是随随便便在群里面发发信息就可以了给你真正回复的人无疑都是一些幻想家雷声大雨点小更何况这样交流之后过个几天马上就说要换妻其实是对谁都不负责任。。对方的人品你了解吗找夫妻交友的时候不仅仅是交换更多的是换过之后它会不会影响到你的生活会不会影响到你的工作或者家庭等等短时间里面我们能聊上天的无非就是有这样的共同爱好的人但至于了解对方还是要有个过程的。。那就是时间问题了。。谁都不想因为换过一次之后会带来的一些麻烦。。女人的身心这时候其实是最薄弱的她们不仅要打开传统观念的约束还要承受多方面得压力。。在换妻的朋友特别是第一次换妻的朋友要选择的对象得自己好好的去把控了。。。也许我说的有点多了考虑的也许复杂了能采纳的可以采纳不能采纳的可以忽略而过。。我没有什么恶意所描述的只是针对我个人的观点。。在继续我的故事，很多人也许很期待我们整个交换的过程和心里到底是怎么样的。当我躺到床上的时候我那会的压力感觉特别大因为我的妻子在另外一个房间我不知道她们的情况怎么样了这一点我也能感受出她的感受了。她的脸上其实也已经表现出了这样的顾虑。。其实那时候的性欲并不是我们现在坐着电脑旁的那种刺激的感觉。场面会有那么的刺激其实那会说真的我是力不从心了抱了好长一会儿我才慢慢的去吻她好一会儿她也才慢慢的回到那种状态前期的接吻我并没有直接的舌吻我当心她一下子接受不了轻轻的吻住她的嘴唇等她嘴巴慢慢张开的时候才开始有了后面的舌吻。。她的舌头比我老婆的要软很多这是我能马上感觉到的、、有过多位接吻经验的人应该都会有这种感觉每个人的舌头柔软硬度都会有一定得差别当然这和接吻技术是没有什么关系的。。视乎我们两个人都沉浸在这样的气氛中我抚摸着她的脸她则更多的是紧紧的抱着我有时候有不敢碰到我。。内心的纠结还是没有投入进来这我就不知道了，也没办法去揣测她当时的心里想法。。很多时候我总会在想女人什么时候是最性感的也许很多人认为全裸的女人最性感也许有人会认为有大胸有身材的女人最性感但我认为隔着一件薄薄的衣服透着衣服呈现出来那种隐隐约约的感觉才是最性感漆黑的房间我没办法去判断这样的性感隔着衣服却给我找到了另一份感觉我没办法形容那时候的感觉只感觉很舒服在接吻过程中慢慢的我把一只手开始往下去抚摸她的身体她并没有反对也没有主动的配合只是静静的躺着一晃又到凌晨1.30了今天先到这这几天基本上都会写一点可能过程说的有些啰嗦希望大家别建议我得先休息了白天还要很多事情等着我去处理-------

绿色的梦888

2013-11-05 03:51:52

Savor the experience carefully and write slowly, detailing your inner journey. Looking forward to even more exciting developments to come, cheering you on!

hanfeng2

2013-11-05 10:28:53

Well written, looking forward to more.

狩猎者1号

2013-11-05 10:50:57

Slowly, I tried to unbutton her clothes. This was a quick process; her buttons came easily. But I could feel a difference in a woman's body after childbirth, especially later when unbuttoning her bra. Her breasts felt particularly soft, lacking the elasticity of a young girl's. These actions were all done in bed. I started moving from my mouth to her neck and could clearly feel her breathing change, becoming more rapid. Her reactions began to emerge as I kissed her breasts. I could feel her body begin to twist, though not much, but I could still feel it. When my hand moved down to her lower body, her legs were tightly clamped together. I didn't penetrate directly, just caressed the outside of her thighs. Her wariness gradually subsided, and finally, her legs opened easily. She seemed afraid she might slip out, and one hand would intentionally or unintentionally cover her breasts. Perhaps it was because it was my first time, and I felt embarrassed in front of others. My sexual desire was aroused, and I didn't think as much. My rationality was driven by emotion. I quickly took off her pants. When I entered, it was loose down there, and I didn't feel anything special. That's how my first time ended. I didn't have any particular feelings about it. After we finished, we didn't go to sleep immediately. We found a topic and chatted until late at night. She asked if it was my first time. I said yes. She said it didn't feel like it. I hugged her tightly and said, "What doesn't feel like it?" And so, like a married couple, we found ourselves in a state of blissful ignorance. In this atmosphere, our feelings for each other reached a new level. Around 10 a.m., my wife texted me to ask if I was awake. Still half asleep, I told her I'd relax a little longer because I'd gone to bed too late the night before and wasn't energetic. Looking at her in bed, she was fast asleep, one arm around me, sleeping so sweetly. I gently kissed her face. "You're awake," she said as soon as she opened her eyes. That morning, she was more proactive, less reserved than the first time, and often cooperated well. Afterwards, I told her, "I feel like I've developed a faint feeling for you. But it's not love, just a feeling in my heart." She looked at me and rested her head on me. We both knew we couldn't develop any feelings from just one time; it would affect both of our families. We kept our unspoken thoughts buried deep inside. We spent three days in Hangzhou. For the next two days, we weren't together; they had their own work. My wife and I also took the opportunity to vacation in Hangzhou. On the way back, my wife was very happy because I had taken her to many shopping malls in Hangzhou, where she bought a lot of clothes and cosmetics. She didn't mention what happened the night of the exchange, and I didn't ask. Perhaps it wasn't the right time to talk about these things. It wasn't until a week later that my wife talked about her feelings during the exchange.

点西蒙

2013-11-05 15:06:12

My own experience suggests that men who have had wife-swapping are generally quite low-key and don't usually discuss it too openly in public. This reflects their relatively high level of civility—which touched me; it also felt genuine.

renlao

2013-11-05 18:42:40

I don't know how to convince my wife; she's unwilling. Please help.

马达带动

2013-11-05 20:32:08

Well written, very true! I envy you two for finding such a wonderful couple! Best wishes to you both!

123123aaabbb

2013-11-05 20:45:05

Absolutely wonderful

深秋雨夜

2013-11-05 23:37:55

Great post, thumbs up!

aixueyilong

2013-11-06 09:54:34

Follow your life, follow your instincts, do what you love... Life is too short to miss out on enjoyment.

狩猎者1号

2013-11-06 15:02:55

狩猎者1号

2013-11-07 13:26:52

这几天由于工作的原因一直断断续续的在写明天得出差了可能需要一段时间才能赶的回来。。如果你们觉得我写的还可以的话多多支持也可以给我一点信心妻子描述对方丈夫在床上的前奏很多可能对他来说抚摸性质大于性爱也许跟他的年龄有关比我们大了10岁左右在他面前妻子就像是一个少女感觉就是完美的。。。当然完美是我自己添加上去的。在脱去妻子胸罩的时候他是从妻子背后拥抱着的脸就添在妻子的脖子上面双手轻轻的抚摸着妻子的身体慢慢的移动到妻子的身体上。。。妻子感觉很痒也不是很舒服可能对没有感情的人的一种正常反应。。躺着之后他开始亲吻着妻子的身体时不时的也会夸下妻子这是回来之后妻子比较得意的一件事情总爱在我面前来夸她自己的身体有多么的优秀老夫老妻了说实在的我看多了也没有特别出众的地方妻子总爱跟我得意说对方说她身材好玩的太累了妻子其实并没有什么特别的性欲只是希望对方能早点结束。。妻子半睡半醒的任由对方在抚摸着对方开始去亲吻妻子乳房的时候妻子嗯了一声可能就是因为这一声激情了他的性欲慢慢的把手移动到了下面妻子很多时候想去碰他又不敢碰总感觉不是很适应知道对方男的拿着妻子手让妻子抱着他的时候妻子才敢轻轻的抱着他。。期间他一直想去亲妻子的下面因为那里对他来说太有吸引了了一个没生过孩子的女人身体的诱惑总是会变的那么的神秘。。但妻子一直没有同意他后来对方没办法只能亲吻着她的大腿和小腿的外侧。。这样的过程可能持续了很长时间后来妻子的回忆整个过程并没有什么特别的感触只是对方比我要胖一些妻子的心里总是还有一些东西没办法放下的他进入妻子的身体之后妻子才开始有了比较强烈的一些感觉。妻子不敢表露的太多情绪在外人面前。。总个过程下来妻子并没有和对方有过嘴对嘴的接吻。。这是妻子可能无法接受的一件事情其它的她都已经能放开就是接吻这个事情跟我在一起也吻的比较少妻子跟愿意跟我嘴唇对嘴唇的拥吻。。。整个过程下来对妻子来说应该是平淡的，这一切并不是看电视时候那种想象的刺激感跟我做的时候可以有很多的想象空间而是但想象付出与实践中的差距带来的感受。。。这样的体验就像是她第一次给我的那种感觉差不多没给我之前我们都有共同的想象空间真正给我了之后才发觉其实也就那么回事。。。我并不知道大家的感受是怎么样的。。女人有些时候其实也是很好奇的就是不敢表露就拿我妻子平时上网偶尔也会去关注下这方面的一些新闻性方面得很多东西她都会去了解下每次看完之后总要把游览过的网页清除的一干二净。。很多时候也总会抱着一些好奇的心理来问我一些男性的话题。。之前我给她说的太认真了她就容易生气我说的太简单了又说我是在应付她的话题当然这些是跟换妻没有什么直接关系只是我个人的一些心得。。。妻子后来说到那天早上给我电话其实是跟他做了一次之后睡不着就给我电话的。。那会她还在熟睡对方男的轻轻的抚摸着妻子的身体，妻子并没有任何的去拒绝他不是因为做过一次了放的那么开而是妻子还以为抚摸她的那个人是我。。但他亲吻妻子下面的时候妻子慢慢的伸开了大腿整个过程都是在被窝里面进行的。。妻子只是轻轻抚摸着他的身体。。早上的一次很快就结束了因为对方男的对这一次感觉很有胜利感。。后来妻子问我他这样的情况是不是早泄了。。。。就因为这一次的换妻之后很长一段时间我就在没有什么想法玩换妻了。。。因为已经体验了内心的有些东西自己心里面总感觉放不下。。。2个月之后也就是前段时间他们后来又跟我联系上了。。但并没有谈换妻的话题只是再次邀请我们去杭州度假。。真正对换妻有感觉的其实就在第二次之后。第二见面是在她家她孩子刚好那段时间回来家婆婆带着我们四个人后来一起去游玩了杭州附近的一些景点然后在家一起烧饭做饭感觉特别的温馨。。慢慢的四个人直接开始有了一些感情方面得接触彼此之间的关系才慢慢地融入进去。少了一份尴尬多了一份情感。。。第二次的换妻整个过程比较浪漫心中未能放下的在第二次之后改变了很多。。希望等我出差回来在描述我们的第二次经历。。我们并不是想尝试跟多的夫妻交换而是找到这样一对有缘的夫妻彼此间有一定得好感度就已经够了。。也不会给我们的生活带来什么麻烦。。轻松舒适的交友可以胜过一切的激情刺激

braveheart

2013-11-11 00:11:53

欣赏！

wg5518

2013-11-12 02:42:44

深受启发，不错的心理描写！

xiexiaogan

2013-11-12 05:30:05

顶—下，写的很好很真实！也很向往！

zyz-zyz-zyz

2013-11-14 12:44:36

写得太好了，期待续集

笑看人生0531

2013-11-16 10:17:41

很真实

wlt123

2013-11-16 11:30:11

期待中

dxybeichen1

2013-11-20 20:05:49

很真实，不错，

此情只可以成追忆

2013-11-20 20:56:42

尽管写的很真实，但很反感换妻这两个字。

百度浙江

2013-11-23 14:04:46

期待

达盖二

2014-02-16 00:28:34

zyz-zyz-zyz

2014-03-08 17:43:07

Good article

雄哥哥哥

2014-04-16 13:58:04

Well written, it's your own experience. Please share!

幸福爱交友

2014-06-28 16:54:44

It's authentic; it captures the genuine feelings of someone experiencing wife-swapping for the first time.

黄瓜一号

2015-07-22 16:19:52

This is the first time I've read your post, written after so long, about your inner journey. It's so poignant and full of genuine emotion. A belated review.

南昌优秀夫妻

2016-06-14 14:56:20

The real version. Thumbs up.

南昌优秀夫妻

2016-06-16 11:24:49

I really like it.

yy13520

2016-06-18 12:09:47

It's a very real feeling, and it's worth revisiting!

情深深,雨朦朦

2016-06-19 01:53:55

Without real experience, one couldn't write about such delicate emotional changes. Life is like a fine wine; only by picking up the glass can one truly savor its flavor. The author's experience of unique intimacy with his wife is exemplary; I applaud you and wish you both the best.

情深深,雨朦朦

2016-06-19 01:54:43

Looking forward to more updates from the author.

菲要挨操

2016-07-23 15:17:09

The account is very realistic; I experienced the same thing the first time. However, we had a single man come; my husband said he doesn't like swapping, he just likes the feeling of a single man having sex with me.

南昌优秀夫妻

2019-05-04 15:36:07

Wife swapping isn't just about physical contact. Unlike real life where you can simply go out and pay a prostitute to satisfy your needs, wife swapping is more about a mental test. What we see online are mostly successful experiences and stories. Have we considered the negative impacts it can have? Therefore, friends considering wife swapping, especially those with unstable relationships, should think carefully before acting. Perhaps you can, as I mentioned before, enjoy the fantasy in a group chat. People who genuinely want to swap wives aren't just randomly sending messages in groups. Those who actually reply are undoubtedly dreamers, all talk and no action. Moreover, it's irresponsible to immediately propose wife swapping a few days later. Do you know the other person's character? When looking for partners, it's not just about exchanging partners; it's about whether it will affect your life, work, or family. In the short term, we can only chat with people who share this interest, but getting to know each other takes time. It's just a matter of time. Nobody wants the trouble that comes with swapping once. Women are at their most vulnerable, both physically and mentally, at this time. They not only have to break free from the constraints of traditional values but also bear pressure from multiple sides. Those involved in wife-swapping, especially first-timers, need to carefully choose their partners. Perhaps I've said too much, or my considerations may be complicated. You can adopt what you can, and ignore what you can't. I have no malicious intent in describing this; it's just my personal opinion. Agreed!!!

美人独凭栏

2019-05-04 16:24:09

@Hunter1, I can tell you've put a lot of thought into this; it shows you love your wife. Taking that first step is really hard; we haven't even done it yet.

南昌优秀夫妻

2019-05-09 22:57:26

Many people have this feeling: in some groups or on QQ, some people frequently mention wife-swapping, making a lot of noise but doing little. In reality, most of these people are men engaging in wishful thinking, or some are discussing it for the sake of sensory stimulation; it doesn't mean they've actually done wife-swapping. From my own experience, people who have actually done wife-swapping are generally quite low-key and don't discuss it too openly in public; they are a relatively well-mannered group. Because wife-swapping isn't just about physical stimulation, without a certain level of psychological resilience, it can easily lead to marital conflicts.

南昌优秀夫妻

2019-05-09 23:04:14

Women are sometimes very curious, but they just don't dare to show it.