2014-08-05 19:06:45

If you want to keep your sweetheart, try to win her back with your past feelings, and also build trust. You trusted her to do things, but she betrayed you. Tell her that this is the wrong path. Also, this guy has his eye on your sweetheart and has definitely tried to sabotage your relationship. Dude, have confidence in yourself. After all, you've been together for a long time, and it can't be worn down by just a few days.

天边寒冰

2014-08-05 20:12:51

Another foolish woman. She has no idea what's most important to her, or who she should cherish most. Her heart won't come back unless you make her completely cut off contact with him. Maybe with time, she'll understand. The original poster is truly pathetic.

夜色温柔@2014

2014-08-05 21:00:53

I believe your wife's actions were just a momentary impulse, and her heart will return. You can't be too hasty. I think the suggestion from the person upstairs to bring a woman, even a prostitute, home is a bad idea. Remember, at this time, never let a prostitute into your bed or defile your body, otherwise, your wife really will leave you!

apple4575

2014-08-05 21:12:26

Damn, that guy is so despicable!

我才是杨杨

2014-08-05 21:23:41

It's definitely playing with fire. Starting with smuggling (sexual infidelity) is bound to cause relationship problems. Bringing other women home is a mistake and will easily ignite conflict. I think a better approach is to encourage her to try other people. Once she's experienced the thrill, she'll agree. After experiencing more people, she'll realize that the feelings she develops with them are insignificant and don't matter. Ideally, try a threesome; it will be exciting for both of you, but you can keep things within your comfort zone. We started with a threesome, and we agreed not to smuggle (sexual infidelity) unless my husband agreed. After experiencing many people, it's mostly just lust; it's hard to develop feelings. This is just my personal opinion, for your reference only!

我才是杨杨

2014-08-05 21:25:46

To add to that, it's better to find things that are far away and hard to get, as they bring back wonderful memories. Things that are too close and frequently come into contact with them are not good!

tw123456

2014-08-05 22:19:58

Your woman is infatuated, and that man is dishonest; you should talk to him.

stqsjs

2014-08-05 22:55:50

My wife is like that too.

wmhui1979

2014-08-06 00:47:07

immature

闵行单男017

2014-08-06 02:55:51

I am a single man and will never interfere with other people's lives.

xh69

2014-08-27 20:29:50

A woman who can't control herself shouldn't be let go!

324sm324

2014-08-28 00:10:00

No, my wife and I have been much more passionate since we started doing this. My wife is also much more obedient; she used to forbid me from smoking, but now she doesn't care. If all else fails, you should find a couple to play with, or go with your wife to play with single men. If that still doesn't work, it just means your relationship with your wife isn't strong enough, and you should stop doing this altogether.

meliu12

2014-08-28 05:07:08

My brother's situation is similar to mine. My wife also went out on her own, but I didn't know. It's been quite a while now, and with my gentle guidance, she's almost forgotten about that guy. Let's chat sometime.

liushui111

2014-08-28 17:12:02

We tried it once; the single man was younger than us, and it felt good. I had a good chat with him, and my wife and I are even more affectionate now.

紫色晨风

2014-09-01 10:44:45

Honey, you have to think about it this way: if you're away for 3 or 4 days, it's no wonder your mind won't come back so easily. You only have yourself to blame. You let yourself go for too long. A few hours or one night is usually okay, but anything over a day is dangerous.

紫色晨风

2014-09-01 10:47:03

Therefore, it's more reliable to find a married couple.

0550oan

2014-09-03 09:28:07

Your woman doesn't know how to cherish you.

sjxkc1

2014-09-06 19:08:48

Thank you everyone for your advice. A month has passed since then. Life is finally back to normal. When I chatted with that guy, I felt he wanted to make my wife his mistress. We had a fight and blocked each other. However, my wife still chats with him every day, but the flirtatious feeling isn't there anymore.

liulang0421

2014-09-07 11:37:52

I've had a similar experience, and I'm currently going through it painfully.

青苹果红了

2014-09-19 12:32:26

Why did you release it for so long when you couldn't control it?

秋羽

2014-10-02 22:42:38

It's safer for married couples to have affairs, because if a man sneaks out, he might want to take your wife as his mistress. But if you're married, other people might not even approve! Find a married couple and have them talk to your wife!

sjxkc1

2014-12-04 10:11:20

Thank you everyone for your concern. My relationship with my wife is much better than before. And I've completely broken things off with that guy.

绿江畔兰

2014-12-04 19:36:14

Seeing that things are better between you and your wife now than before makes me happy for you.

yan77

2014-12-29 14:18:42

You need to have a strong mindset and a high level of trust in your wife! Argue less, and use love to mend the rift in your marriage.

爱你的激情

2015-01-06 22:21:14

I understand how you feel. Your wife is just like mine. My wife had sex with that guy almost every day, and she had already given her heart to him. She cooked for him carefully every day and ignored me. It really made me furious. Actually, that guy didn't love her; he was just playing with her. It took half a year for my wife to start to come back to me, but I still don't know if she has really come back.

约夏湖畔

2015-01-31 17:27:31

In that case, you shouldn't let your wife live with him; that's the key point. Also, you need to know what they talk about and be constantly vigilant.

爱你的激情

2015-03-02 16:04:55

I'm crying my eyes out right now because of her deception. I don't trust her at all anymore. I really don't know if they're still in contact. I feel like it's caused me so much pain, it's so hard to heal, and it's so difficult to trust her again.

爱你的激情

2015-03-02 16:05:32

You can also add me on QQ to chat.

我是好人啊

2015-07-27 16:24:00

Looking for sincere single men to be your partner in Linyi.

lphaha1

2015-08-27 08:08:36

Trust is fundamental.

沙漠绿洲123

2015-09-06 12:54:17

Honey, don't rush things. First, look for the reasons within yourself. To keep someone, you must first win their heart. If you don't hold as much importance in her heart as others, even if you don't help her find someone, she'll find someone else herself, or even leave you. The key now is your importance in her heart. Work hard to improve yourself. Only then will she feel that you love her.

waiwq521

2016-08-09 14:08:19

I also want to let my wife go out, but I'm afraid of this.