2015-09-20 11:12:17

Sympathy

2015-09-20 11:36:08

The first time should start with your wife making the date alone or in a threesome. Otherwise, there will be too many concerns about swapping, making it difficult to do well.

M3P

2015-09-20 12:03:45

Personally, I think the first time should be with a single man for the wife.

刺激与快乐

2015-09-20 12:53:05

It's a very real feeling—the anticipation before making friends and the subsequent inner conflict. You might really regret it after trying it out, or maybe it will actually strengthen your relationship with your spouse. I'd like to try it too, but I'm conflicted. Haha, if possible, I'll be more open-minded.

六九夫妻号

2015-09-20 12:55:40

Wishing you success soon!

0315yutian

2015-09-20 13:12:54

Suitable for first time looking for a single man

快乐同行ab

2015-09-20 14:01:16

I feel the same way; I'm still not completely open-minded.

闷骚男694

2015-09-20 14:07:35

You're too nervous.

zxy8808

2015-09-20 14:57:17

You haven't fully embraced life, Wu; your wife is more open-minded than you. Looking forward to the opportunity to exchange ideas.

lmjdeadman

2015-09-20 15:16:38

t empathy

感受心情

2015-09-20 17:04:36

Still not ready

xichuangjianzhu11

2015-09-20 17:08:40

It's because you weren't prepared; starting so hastily will affect what happens later. I advise you to think it through before you play. Actually, there's no question of who loses out in this situation.

爱情骗子星

2015-09-20 19:07:13

It is the process of transitioning from physiological stimulation to psychological stimulation.

kelvinlee

2015-09-20 19:31:33

You weren't prepared.

睡的头生疼

2015-09-20 23:34:30

The first time was a bit of a struggle, but I guess it'll be easier next time.

此情可以成追忆

2015-09-21 00:18:16

The reasons for the separation were threefold: first, the original poster was unprepared; second, he worried his wife wasn't ready; and third, he lacked a proper conversation with his wife before they separated (perhaps because he wasn't prepared, hence the lack of communication)...

醉生梦思

2015-09-21 01:23:16

There's definitely a difference between what you imagine and reality!

另类完美

2015-09-21 11:44:08

Your wife has definitely let go of her inhibitions, but you haven't. Since you're not ready, it's best not to do it yet, otherwise it will affect your marriage in the future. Married women are often unable to resist temptation.

海洋之心020

2015-09-21 12:48:03

This is a very real experience. I hope to share it with you. Looking forward to your reply!

白开水99

2015-09-21 13:05:00

For the first time, the couple shouldn't separate; they can try having intercourse without exchanging partners. Then, they can decide whether to continue based on the situation.

醉生梦思

2015-09-24 05:47:17

This situation is suitable for a threesome! Not for swapping.

hwu2010

2015-09-24 11:01:38

For the first swap, it's best to sleep together. Two men should first serve the shy wife, making her feel good before she relaxes.

lieo0001

2015-09-29 21:37:12

It's written very realistically.

0752hy

2015-10-15 13:27:37

It's so true; it's all about the hurdles we all struggle with!

新生活下的时代好夫妻

2015-10-24 23:27:51

It's more of a psychological barrier; I wasn't fully prepared. If this is how it feels the first time, it will be very difficult to start the second time.

相约玫瑰丛中

2015-12-17 23:37:42

It's completely true; I've felt that way before. Now I'm completely open about it.

疯了，晕了！

2017-03-04 09:28:05

Well written. I agree.