2014-12-04 15:50:56

You came with such a strong purpose and high expectations, of course you'd be unhappy, especially in such a short time. If someone wanted to befriend you without asking any questions, even if they were willing, would you really dare? With such casualness and no boundaries, and still no partner, I think your frustration is becoming the norm, and it won't just last two or three days. Your flowery writing reveals unparalleled arrogance and self-importance. Since you're so self-absorbed, yet you're also seeking pleasure, you truly believe the allure of sex is immense. Food and sex are human nature; the ancients were right. I sincerely suggest you relax, focus on working hard to achieve more and earn respect—that should be your top priority. Occasionally, you can just stroll around and read other people's posts—that's a pleasant pastime. If a romantic encounter does happen, it's a reward from heaven for your recent excellence, and having friends here is even more fortunate. I'm reminded of a favorite saying: happiness lies not in getting more, but in caring less. I offer this for your consideration.

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2014-12-04 19:30:17

The so-called "casual and limitless" approach is actually the best possible limit. Without a purpose, where is the pleasure? Driven by sexual instinct, how many people seriously consider whether the other person is truly compatible? Personally, I feel that in these situations, it's about first impressions; if there's a good connection, then you can move on to getting to know each other better. But many online partners don't want video chats, and photos are often fake or misleading. Even after you've gotten to know them and they seem okay, they just want to go straight to a hotel room without giving you a chance to meet in person. No matter what, I don't like that kind of thing.

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2014-12-04 19:31:12

As for what information to exchange, the article exaggerates a bit; really, anything that isn't overly private is fine.