Do you have these common misconceptions about sex?

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Many couples are dissatisfied with their sex life, not because of illness, physiological disorders, or psychological problems, but often because one or both partners have certain misconceptions about sex, which leads to contradictions and conflicts in specific behaviors.
Myth 1: The bigger the penis, the better.
Some people believe that the bigger the penis, the better, and some even consider surgically enlarging it; this is not recommended. Harmonious sexual relations are not significantly related to penis size, but rather to the pleasure experienced by both partners. Just as people vary in height, penis size also varies. Western Caucasians generally have larger penises than Asians. Statistics show that the average length of a Caucasian penis in the United States is 7.5–11 cm when flaccid and 10–18 cm when erect; for Asians, 7–16 cm when erect is considered normal. Penis length is unrelated to male sexual ability and is not the sole factor affecting female orgasm. Generally, medically, a penis length greater than 5 cm is considered sufficient for normal sexual intercourse.
Regardless of penis size, as long as it can achieve a full erection, it will not affect sexual intercourse. As long as the quality of semen is good, it will not affect fertility. Although penis sizes vary, their length and girth are roughly the same when fully erect. Furthermore, the vagina is a muscular canal that can both contract and relax. During intercourse, the lower part of the vagina contracts, tightly gripping the penis; therefore, the length and girth of the penis have little impact on a woman's sexual sensation.
Myth 2: The longer the foreplay, the better.
Women require prolonged caresses because they have erogenous zones all over their bodies, and compared to men, women take longer to become sexually aroused. However, a woman's slower arousal is not innate but rather a shaped trait, and it can be changed. In fact, a significant number of women do not need much caresses from men. If a man is slow to get to the point, it can make her feel frustrated and even completely ruin the mood for sex.
Every aspect of sexual activity requires mutual understanding and should proceed naturally. Some men's caresses don't arise spontaneously, but rather are attempts to highlight their "gentleness" and enhance their partner's experience, often involving suppressed desire. This often results in a passive position; by the time the partner's desire is aroused, the man has lost interest, potentially leading to an unpleasant ending.
Sex is a natural outpouring of life force. If you treat it like operating a machine tool, making every detail follow a set pattern, you will never truly enjoy sex. Only by going with the flow can you achieve satisfaction.
Myth 3: Women should be the passive party
Sexual intercourse is not simply one party "giving" to the other or one party simply "receiving." In sexual intercourse, both men and women have the responsibility and obligation to be the main participants.
Influenced and bound by traditional ideas, many women are afraid that if they acquire sexual knowledge, they will be considered sluts; on the other hand, although some married women occasionally discuss sex in private, the vast majority of them comment on their husbands' performance, and very few people will take the initiative to learn about sex.
A woman's passivity in sexual activity can lead to several negative consequences: First, when faced with a husband's roughness or even sexual abuse, the wife lacks both the internal motivation to resist and the knowledge and methods to encourage change. Second, when sexual disharmony occurs, the wife is prone to blaming her husband excessively, exacerbating the conflict. Even in cases of harmonious sex life, an overly passive wife may struggle to experience pleasure and fulfillment, potentially leading to indifference and estrangement. Even in cases of relatively harmonious sex life, the wife may lack the intrinsic motivation to continuously improve, which can eventually cause psychological fatigue for both partners.

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