The understanding of adultery (the borrowed feeling is very apt).

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Here, I want to remind everyone on this forum that when you fantasize about being cuckolded, you're already planting the seeds of this possibility. Of course, I won't comment on men who enjoy sleeping with other men's wives for free; just be careful not to become the object of someone else's fantasy!
I mainly want to talk about those of us who enjoy being cuckolded. Out of 100 men, at least 30 have this fantasy to some extent. Of those 30, at most 15 want to make it a reality, and of those 15, no more than 5 have the means to do so. Because this isn't just a one-person affair; the hardest person to conquer is your own wife. It's an insurmountable mountain. Developing your wife's interest must be gradual and patient; don't be impatient, or you'll create resentment and resistance, making further development much more difficult. Don't complain if she disagrees; after all, this kind of thing is still considered quite avant-garde by conservative women, and she loves you, doesn't she?
For those of you who currently have a strong desire to try this, and who have the means to do so in reality, before you guide your wives to sleep with other men, you must seriously consider whether you are mentally prepared and whether you have the qualifications and psychological resilience to enjoy this kind of thrill.
First, you must have a happy and harmonious family, at least so that neither of you is willing to easily abandon the family in the event of a crisis of trust! Couples who are prone to arguing should not try this, not even think about it. Couples with psychological barriers between them should also not try this; mutual trust is essential!
Second, you must have a certain economic foundation and ambition. Being poor, without a car or house, and lacking any drive or ambition is also unacceptable. Imagine you riding an electric scooter while someone else picks up your wife in a BMW; this disparity will make your wife feel ashamed when she sleeps with someone else. And you yourself will feel even more embarrassed.
Third, don't worry about whether other men are handsome, have large penises, are sexually capable, or how many times they bring your wife to orgasm. Everything should be based on your wife's standards. What you find attractive, your wife might not. Although it's just a physical activity, a woman won't experience much pleasure with someone she doesn't like, and it will cast a shadow over such activities. Eventually, she might suddenly reject you, and you won't be able to bring her back.
Fourth, and most importantly, don't worry about your wife secretly thinking about another man, having a crush on him, or even falling madly in love with someone who once gave her pleasure in bed. This is very possible, just like everyone has experienced online dating—it's a common process. Don't expect her to simply enjoy the pleasure of sex. This is the difference between men and women. Men can satisfy purely physiological needs, like eating and drinking; regardless of the taste, they'll feel full. Women, however, will always have some emotional involvement; otherwise, they wouldn't experience pleasure. If you were the one who started this whole thing, then please be more forgiving. If you have a strong enough mentality, you can even share the joys and sorrows of her relationship with her. But you can absolutely rest assured, she won't be foolish enough to abandon you and run off with someone else. They might have a period of passionate romance, but it won't last long, just like when you were dating. Women aren't stupid. Although they can be very emotional at times, they are more rational than anyone else when it comes to marriage and family. If you are tolerant and loving enough, allowing her to experience pleasure in sex with others without any worries, you will also be happy and receive her genuine gratitude!
Fifth, if you really do reach this point, then please be more considerate in daily life and avoid arguing over trivial matters. Even if you do argue, never attack her for cheating. Absolutely not! Once you bring that up, the demons within you will be unleashed, and the consequences could be dire.

Furthermore, I'd like to say that this kind of unconventional sexual game provides men with immense psychological stimulation. It might be very exciting at first, especially during the anticipation. However, once you ejaculate during intercourse, the passion fades, leaving only endless regret, suspicion, and pain. (Therefore, I suggest that you don't make love too intensely, and don't exhaust your energy. Focus on foreplay and the aftertaste for her. If you really want to have sex, prioritize her and save your energy to combat the emotional trauma after ejaculation.) You might swear you'll never do it again, but once the image of another man having sex with your wife is imprinted in your mind, it's impossible to erase. After a day or two of regret, you'll want to try it again the next time you have the desire, or you'll tell yourself it's the last time... and you'll fall into an inescapable cycle. The more a couple loves each other, the more painful and exciting it becomes. Over time, you'll lose interest in mundane sex... and then you'll try all sorts of perverse games, just like drug addiction. However, don't worry, this kind of pleasure won't last long. Either you'll experience both joy and pain before settling into a more mundane relationship and loving each other even more, or it might develop into BDSM!

Finally, I want to say that there are all sorts of people online. No matter what you do, safety should always be your top priority. When exchanging partners or doing anything else, always use condoms to avoid unnecessary trouble. If the other person isn't your ideal type or behaves inappropriately, make an excuse about an urgent phone call and leave quickly. Don't be shy; don't settle for this!
Okay, that's all for now!

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