Let's talk about the importance of foreplay

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I've been a member of the 69 community for over a year now (I can't even remember when I registered), and I've encountered all sorts of personalities and character traits here. I've also been fortunate enough to meet several couples. Some are seasoned veterans, while others are complete newbies, like me. Without exception, all of them are people of excellent character, and I'm honored to know you all. Of course, there have also been many fake couples (claiming to be married but then telling me their wives haven't agreed yet) and single men whose character is questionable who have added me. Luckily, I've never been driven by lust, and I have a certain amount of social experience (maybe at this age all I have left are lessons learned, haha). I've never been scammed. And I've never had a verbal conflict with anyone, thankfully.

In conversations with many members, although most of the time we talk about work, life, and hobbies, we inevitably touch on some sexual techniques. I consider myself quite experienced! I've shared foreplay techniques and its importance with many friends, but I'm usually very busy with work and often don't see messages or comments until several days later. To avoid anyone feeling I'm being secretive, I'm starting this thread to discuss foreplay, hoping to spark some discussion.

First, foreplay is very important. How important? Let me put it this way: I believe that sex without foreplay isn't sex; it's just mating, a release of desire, unrelated to love. (Even dogs sniff and lick when mating.) Furthermore, without foreplay, women don't feel love; they only feel like a tool for release. Also, without foreplay, over 70% of women won't experience orgasm, especially those who only experience clitoral orgasms and not vaginal orgasms.

So, how should foreplay be done? I believe all formulaic textbooks are dogmatic. There's no best approach, only what's most suitable. For example, some people like intense foreplay, some like gentle foreplay, some like excitement, and some like romantic moments. Therefore, talk to your partner more, experience things together, and you'll find what suits you best. This discussion focuses on the most common scenarios, specifically involving a man and a woman. Other scenarios are open for discussion in the comments.

Speaking of which, when should foreplay begin? Many people believe it should start in bed, during a shower, or in a room—all valid points. However, I believe foreplay should begin upon meeting, or when arranging a meeting via phone, WeChat, or QQ. Foreplay doesn't necessarily require physical contact; a single word, an emoji, or a warm or erotic image can all contribute. I won't discuss directly inviting someone to a room.

Since you've invited them, a meal or tea is always a good idea. At this point, demonstrate your confidence and gentlemanly manners. For example, lift the curtain at the restaurant or teahouse entrance for the lady, bring her a chair, and then sit down yourself. Let the lady order first (we won't discuss solicitors here; that's your judgment). If the lady is reserved, don't force her; you can order yourself, but before ordering, ask her what her preferences are or if she has any dietary restrictions. Order just enough to eat with a little leftover. If you try to show off your wealth by wasting food, it won't make a good impression on the lady; she'll just think you're a nouveau riche. Even if she still wants to associate with you, it won't be genuine. During meals or tea, men should avoid awkward silences and refrain from both being glued to their phones. Even if the lady is using her phone, it's to avoid embarrassment, so you need to be talkative and witty. During conversation, you can make eye contact with her under unconventional circumstances, ideally with an expression of appreciation, and of course, a hint of desire is fine too.

When looking at her, use a half-smile until she blushes and looks away. Then continue your conversation on a topic you both find interesting. Ideally, you should have pictures of that type on your phone. Then, take out your phone and, under the guise of showing her the pictures, sit next to her. While looking at the pictures, you can whisper and cuddle. If she moves away slightly, it means she's still somewhat resistant; don't follow her. Just continue talking about the pictures casually, hehe! Continue to close the distance during the conversation. If she moves away again, then try again next time! (Maybe there won't be a next time; it's not that she's reserved or shy, but rather that she's not interested. You should be able to tell by whether she's focused or just going through the motions during the conversation

.) If the woman doesn't move and leans closer to you, congratulations, she likes you (or at least admires you). Hand the phone to her, then put your arms around her back and face her ear, gently tickling her thigh and buttocks with your fingers (don't be rough). Make a whispering motion and whisper something in her ear. After you're done, don't leave her ear; gently breathe on it (not blow, but warm breath). She might pull away, so gently pull her closer with your arm and slowly lick her earlobe, using the tip of your tongue to lightly tickle the outer ear canal. Most women like this and will be aroused (whether they are aroused or not is up to you to judge).

After doing all this, you might need to change locations. If the woman goes into a room with you, what should you do first? Right, close the door, and don't yell. Just close the door and lock it from the inside; this makes her feel safe. Then place your phone where she can see it, so she knows she won't be secretly filmed or recorded. At this point, you can give her a warm hug and a kiss. Don't rush into a kiss on the lips; a kiss on the forehead is best. That's an expression of appreciation, liking, and love. I won't go into too much detail about intimate gestures here; it's best not to be too hasty. Then you might go into the bathroom; it's best to go in together. If she goes in first (even if she does, you should adjust the water temperature for her first), then you should go in later; don't let her shower alone. Once you're in, regardless of whether she complains or is being reserved (she locked the door because she didn't want you to come in), just take the showerhead and stand beside her to help her rinse off. Don't do it for too long. Then stand behind her and gently apply shower gel; don't immediately spray it on her breasts or genitals. Focus on her shoulders, neck, back, legs, and genitals. Be careful and use gentle techniques. After doing this, stand behind the woman and wrap your arms around her armpits to apply shower gel to her breasts. Start lightly, gradually increasing pressure, and massage her nipples with both palms, focusing only on the nipples. Then, knead her breasts with both hands. At this point, have the woman lean back against you and kiss her lightly, then move on to French kissing. While kissing, keep your genitals pressed against her buttocks. Your penis should be aroused by now; lightly touch between her legs. After a while, squat down and apply shower gel to her genitals and buttocks, cleaning her front and back entrances as well. This prepares for oral sex. Once you've finished applying the shower gel, stand up and rinse. You remain behind the woman and repeat the previous steps. (Most of the time, women will also apply shower gel to men, especially their penises, but we won't discuss that here.) Rinse off the soap. If you like, you can give her oral sex in the bathroom, but only lightly.

Okay, dry yourself off and go back to the room to bed! The woman lies on the bed, and the man first leans down and kisses her forehead, then kisses down her earlobe, ear canal, neck, and behind her ears. At this point, do not place your hands on the breasts or genitals, even if the woman requests otherwise. Hold the earlobe for a while, and blow warm air into the ear canal. Kiss downwards from the neck. When you reach the breasts, lightly touch the breast with the tip of your tongue, avoiding the nipple. Note that it's a kiss, not a lick. Use only the tip of your tongue. While kissing the breasts, you can gently scratch the other breast with your fingernails—a light scratch, not a knead. After a while, you can gently scratch the woman's back with your fingertips.
After continuing these actions for a while, move downwards, kissing all the way to the groin. When you pass the navel, you can circle the navel twice with the tip of your tongue (some women will like this, but others may find it strange). When you reach the groin, you can lightly comb through the pubic hair with your tongue. Then lick the groin area, you can stimulate the vulva, but not with your mouth. Continue downwards along the thighs, and at this point, you can knead the woman's vulva with your hands. When you reach the calves, you can lightly scratch the belly or comb through the pubic hair with your fingers. Now, when you reach the woman's vulva, you can kiss it if you like, or gently knead it if you don't. Repeat this process on the other leg.

Next, you can roll over and go into a 69 position with the woman (or you can have her roll over and lie face down, then kiss her from her neck down her back to her buttocks, and continue). Start kissing her way up her legs, focusing on her thighs, primarily lightly scratching the inner thighs. Don't touch her vulva yet; you can lightly scratch her labia majora with the tip of your tongue. After a while (the duration depends on the woman's individual situation), you can start oral sex, still using the tip of your tongue to lick her labia majora and minora, but don't touch her clitoris yet. Continue for a while longer, then you can start licking, and this time it's a more intense lick! You can lick her vulva directly, from bottom to top or top to bottom, it's fine. Insert your tongue into her vulva and stir (this is strenuous; a longer tongue is better suited for this). During this process, your tongue can touch her clitoris; if she's comfortable with this, you can give her a deep lick. When the woman is almost in ecstasy, take her clitoris into your mouth and suck on it. At the same time, insert your middle finger into her vulva, about two knuckles deep. You'll feel a slightly rough spot on the pad of your finger; that's the G-spot. Press the G-spot as quickly as possible. At this point, you can use your other hand to knead her breasts with more force. Generally, with this kind of foreplay, the woman will orgasm soon. I've encountered many women who squirt at this point, and some even urinate. Okay, after the woman orgasms or squirts, don't hesitate, do what you need to do!

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