Sharing personal experiences of chatting with girls online (and things to note when inviting them)

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Hey everyone, it's Lao Xu! Christmas just passed, and I wonder if you all managed to get dates?
Based on the recent inquiries from several guys, I'm writing down a few things to keep in mind when inviting someone to meet up, hoping it will be helpful.
1. Once you've agreed on a time, make sure it's arranged. Don't stand her up or cancel at the last minute. If you can go now, go now; if you can go tonight, go tonight; if you can go tomorrow, go tomorrow. The sooner the better. The longer you wait, the more likely she is to change her mind. Women are the most fickle and impulsive creatures. They have a spending impulse, and they also have a hookup impulse. You might get a date today, but after chatting for a few days, she might suddenly not want to go anymore. Forget about rich bachelors; maybe she's found someone else. Remember to give a vague invitation first, then finalize it.
2. Long-distance relationships are a different story. As mentioned above, her meeting you might be impulsive. With a long-distance relationship, you never know when you'll see each other. Of course, if you have plenty of time to travel across the country, it's up to you to manage it, especially if it's too far. Don't make a special trip for her; we're all adults, don't think true love means you can just pack up and go. It's best if she comes to you. As the saying goes, women put on makeup, so of course they want to go out with someone, or at least take some selfies, otherwise it's a waste. Similarly, if she comes to see you, investing time and money, and since she's already here, she might as well hook up. Basically, if she comes specifically to see you, nine times out of ten she's going to go. If you're the one who goes to see her, she has more options. If she doesn't like you, or feels she hasn't invested anything, she might not go out with you. When she comes to see you, you hold the power; when you go to see her, she holds the power. It may seem unimportant, but these things play a role, based on personal experience.
3. Be prepared that a woman's photos and her actual appearance can differ significantly. With all the beauty filters and Photoshop these days, most women look heavier and less vibrant in person than in their photos. Of course, the bottom line is, without a good foundation, no amount of makeup will make you look good. If the difference is significant, I hope we can maintain mutual respect and not be disrespectful. So, unless you're absolutely certain, don't immediately agree to meet at a hotel. This is to give you a backup plan; if things don't go well, just find an excuse to leave. You know what I mean, haha!
4. Regarding your appearance, you absolutely must dress up. If she's all made up and you're dressed poorly, isn't that disrespectful? Wear nice clothes, clean shoes, style your hair, and take care of yourself. The more you pay attention to your appearance, the higher your success rate. Otherwise, as I said before, she'll find an excuse to leave after the meeting. I won't elaborate further on appearance here.
5. Can you go directly to a hotel? Of course, you can. It depends on the situation after you've only chatted online. I've encountered this several times where people went straight to a hotel. However, whether or not to have dinner before watching a movie depends on the person. Not everyone needs to go through the dating process. If you think the girl is in a good mood, then it's best to find an excuse to go to a hotel first, try to have sex first, then go out and have fun, and come back for more sex. If you feel there's enough ambiguity and you can kiss her as soon as you meet, you can find an excuse, such as taking a break, going to the hotel to drop something off, or going to the hotel to take a shower (I came here covered in sweat and felt uncomfortable). Or you can just be direct and say you want to, that's fine too.
6. Before hooking up, I always delete all chat history with other girls. Just because someone is willing to hook up with you doesn't mean they can tolerate you flirting with other girls. Women are very possessive, so keep it a secret and handle things carefully. If someone sees your phone, wow, haha.
As for other safety aspects, like condoms and being careful of scammers, these are all old news, so I won't go into detail. Just be careful. Don't say I'm being short, some brothers messaged me saying long articles are tiring to read, so I'm making it shorter. Remember to leave any suggestions in the comments!

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