Confessions of a Sexual Idealist

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Here, I'd like to share my understanding and perspective on this game with every single man who wants to join our married life.
First, in principle, any game should be fair to every participant. However, this isn't an ordinary game; it's a highly private one, especially for couples. For example, the principle of fairness already leans towards couples in terms of privacy needs, which is understandable and inevitable.
Secondly, women willing to participate are a scarce and precious resource. Behind this resource lies the husband's desire to provide his wife with a more perfect and stimulating experience, driven by love, encouraging and seducing her. This is called "cuckoldry" online, a term I honestly neither like nor agree with, even though it's a common, socially accepted interpretation. No matter how humanity develops in the future, sexual psychology will never fade, especially when it's seen as a highly private symbol of absolute fidelity. For a husband to be willing to share his private life and fidelity with almost complete strangers is clearly a significant sacrifice, difficult to make without love and its inclusiveness.
From a male perspective, given that privacy is guaranteed, almost every man desires to sexually possess another man's wife more. This is not only a matter of sexual psychology but also a matter of sexual security. Single men can avoid the hygiene risks of impersonating sex workers and don't have to worry about being entangled with a woman and causing family or personal crises. More importantly, the game itself doesn't pursue animalistic sexual release but rather the satisfaction of shared psychological needs. It allows for private sexual affection that doesn't interfere with each other's actual lives, satisfying the universal human desire for ambiguity and flirtation, ultimately leading to a higher level of sexual pleasure and satisfaction. This psychology is particularly strong for men, so I allow single men to use private social media tools like QQ to communicate in any form to foster feelings between partners, without inquiring about their spouses' specific information (such as work or address). Of course, single men need to demonstrate maturity and refinement; being overly vulgar won't gain women's appreciation. The game's purpose is clear, so being overly serious or unable to arouse a woman's sexual desire is a failure for a man (laughs). Therefore, in summary, the single man needs to have some skills and show enthusiasm for pursuing women. Here, I only provide wives to satisfy the ambiguous needs and sexual psychology of the game participants. Obviously, those who have neither skills nor enthusiasm, and even lack physical advantages, should not participate in our couples' game.
The fairness principle of the game is obviously biased towards the couples, mainly reflected in the following aspects:
(1) Privacy; Considering that mobile phones now have screen recording functions, we generally do not agree to video requests unless we have gained complete trust after substantive interaction and the single man's wife is fully aware of the process. However, we still try to avoid it. Some people have come up and kept asking for video. My suggestion to such people is to just leave on their own (forgive my rudeness, because it is indeed annoying to keep asking after clearly stating that you do not like it).
After entering the actual game, the single man's mobile phone is muted and put away until the actual game ends. This means that the single man is not allowed to take any photos or videos during the game. Those who do not respect the privacy of the couple will be dealt with directly. Only those who know how to respect each other can fully enjoy the fun of the game.
During the process, the couple will take appropriate photos and videos, and after the game, they will select some suitable ones to send to the single man as a nice memento.
(2) In terms of finances; to be blunt, if someone is willing to provide their wife to flirt with me or even sleep with me, I am very willing to pay for the whole process (referring to expenses such as meals, drinks, singing, and necessary hotel rooms). I cannot ask the other party to share the cost (unless it is voluntary). From another perspective, everyone can understand that if someone provides their wife to flirt with you or even sleep with you, but still pays, they will inevitably feel like they are demeaning themselves. Therefore, online games require single men to have a certain financial capacity. If you don't have it, just play with your own wife or your left and right hands. If spending some money affects your mood in the game, it is recommended not to play such games. In addition, if the finances allow, the single man can give the woman some inexpensive small gifts (it is not recommended to give expensive ones, and we do not want to have a psychological burden. Small gifts are just to express respect, admiration and etiquette for women). The purpose is obviously to increase goodwill and romance, rather than to seek benefits. Of course, there is no psychological burden for the single man if there is no gift. As long as the quality of the game is completed, that is fine.
(3) Sexual protagonist; to put it bluntly, it is a question of who serves whom and who wants to receive whose service. If the single man is just thinking about venting his lust, he can just go around here. My suggestion is that you can spend a little money to call a prostitute to satisfy your low-level needs at any time. There is no need to go to great lengths to come here. There is no shortage of such people in life. To be honest, a man who does not know how to use the best mood or technique to satisfy a woman's sexual feelings and take this as his main task, so as to gain a sense of accomplishment and sexual pleasure from the woman's orgasm, will inevitably have a bad marriage. In my opinion, such men are male sexual failures, not successes, because they do not know how to appreciate the sexual beauty of women and only know how to vent their low-level lust.
The most thorough way for a man to conquer a woman is in bed, and the beauty that a woman shows when she is completely conquered by sex is when she is most beautiful. I don't know if every single man participant has this understanding and experience. In fact, the quality of our sex life is very high. The reason I can achieve such a high level of sexual performance isn't because of my strong sexual ability, but because I pay close attention to my wife's sexual experience. This is why I've developed techniques that suit her, allowing her to reach orgasm every time, sometimes up to four times. Once a woman reaches orgasm, she releases her full feminine beauty. Isn't the reason men so desire to conquer women precisely because they want to appreciate this feminine beauty? It's because I want my wife to fully release her pure feminine beauty that I allow her to be possessed and conquered by a complete stranger.
So, if you understand how to appreciate pure feminine beauty and use it to satisfy your male desire for conquest, then you're suitable to participate in our game; otherwise, you can look elsewhere. We are neither vulgar nor perverted, nor are we sexually frustrated sluts. We are simply open-minded and willing to share and achieve better sexual quality through play—that's all! Previously, some people wanted my wife to go to another man's place alone. To such people, I just want them to stay as far away as possible.

Below are some personal opinions and suggestions on how to complete the game more effectively:
The first stage is naturally online contact, where my wife mainly chats with me online. This is because I value my wife's feelings, wanting her to feel pursued and loved. Therefore, this new stage is both a time for single men to showcase their overall qualities and a time to satisfy their everyday flirtatious desires. My advice is that single men should be proactive in showcasing themselves to achieve the first real contact as soon as possible. Many single men I've met so far only show their faces briefly and then disappear, their intention being simply to secure contact information and wait for them to come forward when it's convenient and they're interested, as if we could serve them. Of course, if you're quite confident in your appearance, that's fine too. Actually, we don't want to spend too much time chatting online, but even so, occasional contact is still necessary. As for those who don't plan to take any real action within a month or two, my advice is to only contact them occasionally and not waste each other's time on a daily basis. After all, time can be used for more meaningful and serious things; games are just a diversion, not the main focus of life. If you're just looking for online novelty or occasionally asking for photos to satisfy your desires, I can only say please have some self-respect. I despise such people from the bottom of my heart.
In principle, after completing a certain stage of online contact and moving towards substantive contact, there should theoretically be a meeting to get a mutual rapport or establish a substantial impression. After all, nobody wants to sleep with someone who doesn't arouse their sexual desire. While we may not be considered stunningly beautiful, we're certainly presentable. So, for single men who are lacking in appearance and performance, my advice is not to waste each other's time. Of course, this doesn't apply if the first physical contact is simply a meeting to express sincerity. This means the woman has every right to treat the first physical contact as a purely casual meeting to allow for psychological adjustment. If physical appearance isn't ideal, maturity and sincerity should compensate (this is not an implication of money, please don't misunderstand; it means male charm isn't necessarily based on looks).
I believe that most people's sexual techniques are relatively simple and don't involve much variety. After all, it's just that kind of thing. So, apart from techniques specific to my wife's physiology (my wife is not very sensitive, so if it's just simple piston-like movements, she basically doesn't feel anything. I will explain this part of the techniques when we actually have sex), in order for everyone to have a higher quality of sex, I have two suggestions for single men:
(1) Single men can buy a base oil online that can be used for full-body massage (the price is not expensive, ranging from tens to a little over a hundred yuan per bottle. Good quality oil with a fragrance is naturally better. We bring our own). At home, you can occasionally give your wife a full-body massage with oil, which can not only practice your techniques but also enhance family harmony and marital affection. For specific techniques, you can learn some online. Generally, it's about starting from the back and neck – arms – hands – back – buttocks – legs – feet – body push (if you weigh less than 130 pounds, use your body to cover and push; if you weigh more, use your hands and feet for support and then use your chest and abdomen to cover and push your back) – roll over – abdomen – chest – down the sides – hips – legs – inner thighs – erogenous zones???
By the way, the first person to participate in our sex life overcame our initial psychological barrier with their oil massage technique, because my wife enjoys this (laughs). It was just that we lacked experience the first time, so it wasn't a great experience, but it was a breakthrough in overcoming psychological barriers. I believe everyone will have a more satisfying experience next time. In retrospect, the first time was too focused on the simple purpose (we contacted each other on the first day and met in the room the next day to get straight to the point), which led to imperfections. The only redeeming quality of this experience was the oil massage; even a novice can easily achieve this by massaging along the direction of the bones and muscles. The single man enjoys the pleasure of touching the woman's entire body, while the woman enjoys the touch and relaxation of the opposite sex. Frankly, professionalism is naturally a plus; if not, the key is to incorporate techniques that stimulate the woman's physiological responses to achieve a gradual progression of sexual desire. The massage session should ideally last at least half an hour, followed by deeper stimulation, specifically targeting erogenous zones. It's important to note that unless you possess genuine professional skills, avoid any rough behavior throughout the entire process, including during the main act, such as forcefully slapping the buttocks. We aim for sensory pleasure, not pain. A crucial quality for the single man is the ability to cherish the woman and be attentive to her feelings. This is the key reason why online discussions emphasize the importance of good manners for single men. These qualities don't require exceptional leadership skills; simply respecting and cherishing a woman's body and providing her with the most pleasurable sexual experience is sufficient.
(2) I believe many people have heard of the "Ice and Fire" game. If you are unsure whether you can master the technique of gradually pushing the game to a climax through oil massage, or if you don't want to invest in practice, then the "Ice and Fire" game is perfect for you.
The "Ice and Fire" game involves preparing a cup of hot water and a cup of ice water. Then, you hold one of the cups in your mouth and start licking from the woman's calves - legs - back - neck - arms - turn over - feet - legs - abdomen - neck - chest - hips - inner thighs...
The greater the temperature difference in the "Ice and Fire" game, the more the woman's body will feel. The advantage of this game is that it can be done by two men at the same time, or by a single man. Obviously, licking the whole body, like massage, can also arouse a woman's sexual psychology.

I won't mention the techniques and precautions for entering the actual part of the game here. When my wife accepts your participation, there will naturally be appropriate videos and texts to explain. In short, participating in our marital games will not only bring you satisfying pleasure and unique sexual techniques, but also give you insights into life, becoming a source of happiness, well-being, and harmony in your family. Simply put, a woman's greatest happiness comes from a man's success. Even if you succeed in the mundane matters of daily life, if you fail in this area, you are still a male failure.

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