Multiple wives guided development method

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I am a real married couple. When I first started exploring these things, my wife was very conservative and wouldn't open up at all. Getting her to agree to make friends was extremely difficult. Later, after learning a lot about how to guide my wife to agree to these things, I gradually got her to accept them. I also gained some profound insights, and I would like to take this opportunity to share some methods I used to successfully guide my wife. These methods may not work for every couple, but they are generally successful for most. I also hope to inspire more couples who are being cuckolded to adopt the right approach to reach the other side of happiness, thereby effectively promoting marital harmony and family happiness. First, we need to be aware of some incorrect thoughts and behaviors in the initial guidance stage. (I) Focusing only on one's own wishful thinking and not understanding how to put oneself in another's shoes. I have seen too many couples who are being cuckolded anxiously asking: "What if she won't add strangers?" "How can you train her if she won't accept your WeChat?" "No matter what, I just want to see her with other men..." "I want to drug her and then have other men come to the house..." There are countless thoughts. But the common manifestation is helplessness and extreme stubbornness. Why don't you consider that dating is a matter for both partners? How can it be just your wishful thinking or wild fantasy? Drugging your own wife? How could you even think of that? What if she found out? Besides, what decent woman would easily add a stranger and quickly accept that kind of advance? Women are more focused on emotions and feelings than men. Even if she wanted to try, this approach won't open her heart to you. If she readily accepted chatting with other men, what are you worrying about? Wouldn't you have succeeded already? Your frustration stems from the fact that this method doesn't work. You know it's a dead end, but why are you stubbornly banging your head against the wall? Stubbornness and inflexibility are just formalities; to put it bluntly, it's just being inflexible. Men with such stubborn ideas and inactive behavior are generally introverted, not good at interacting with people, and are selfish at heart, only caring about their own feelings. They like to fantasize, are emotionally fragile, lack flexibility, and have few solutions to problems. They hold a "lower" position in their marriage and are often complained about by their wives for being "uncaring and inconsiderate." This is often the case.
(II) They only know how to indulge in fantasy, work in isolation, and don't know how to learn from others. Most wishes in this world cannot be fulfilled simply by wishing for them. You must first have the ability to realize your wishes and dreams, and then take practical steps to implement them. What if you don't have that ability? Then go and learn! Many couples who have enjoyed the pleasures of making friends, especially the men, share a common characteristic: they understand women well, have a positive and optimistic attitude, know various sexual techniques, and are open to new knowledge. They know how to guide their wives' thoughts and behaviors at the right time, in the right environment, and in the right atmosphere, without rushing things. Instead, they subtly and naturally influence and stimulate their wives' thinking and imagination. They also know how to properly stimulate their wives' desires and find and create suitable platforms and activities for them to enjoy together. They don't find this difficult; it's an instinctive strength of successful people—this is the difference between people. Just like making money, some people want to get rich their whole lives but always encounter setbacks; some are mediocre, some lose everything; while others are very good at making money, their mindset and actions possess the ability to do so. Aren't these differences between people all around us? If you want to make money, you need to communicate and integrate with people who can make money, learning their strengths and skills. Isn't that the same principle? Why stay trapped in your own world, endlessly fantasizing about unrealistic dreams? Without learning, changing your mindset, taking the right actions, and understanding how to adapt, how can you possibly achieve your goals?
(Part Three) Impatience, restlessness, passivity, and a lack of understanding of gradual progress. Many friends who have been cheated on have succeeded by following my methods for guiding their wives, feeling that their previous efforts were wasted and that they finally achieved their goals using my methods. However, in the process of implementation, they revert to habitual thinking, always thinking, "I want to do this," "I want to do that." For example, it's like someone who is sick and goes to see a doctor. The doctor gives them the correct prescription, but they refuse to listen and insist on arguing with the doctor. The result is that the doctor is helpless, has wasted their time, and the patient's illness not only doesn't improve but becomes more serious. This is the same principle. Some friends, unable to withstand the torment of their inner desires, fall into the trap of being radical and reckless, wanting my methods to work instantly. Is that possible? Rome wasn't built in a day. You've already formed a fixed image in your wife's mind. If you don't follow the correct plan step by step, and try to achieve instant results, each attempt will only increase the difficulty. Perhaps doing this is different from your usual habits, but you still have this desire, and not fulfilling it will only cause you more torment. So what to do? Just choose a relatively easy method, right? Either give up or do it; there's no other way.
The above is an overview of some of the mental struggles, key aspects, and incorrect mindsets and behaviors that cuckolded friends encounter during the "training and development" process. There may be many more, but these are the most prominent issues, hindering and affecting the normal realization of their inner desires. So, the question is, what is the correct path to happiness?
First, learn diligently with a humble and pragmatic attitude. Mastering the correct methods is crucial in everything you do. Some things are fine if they're useless, but if you go in the wrong direction, it's a loss. Are you currently at your wit's end regarding how to "train" and "develop" your wife? Have you tried many methods before, but without success? Some have even been criticized by their wives as "perverted" or "having too much time on their hands." Some friends constantly complain, "She's too traditional," "She's too serious," "She could never accept this..." I want to say that there are no untouchable women in the world, only wrong methods and ineffective men. Many people insist on their own views and methods because, on the one hand, they have limited experience; some even believe that only they or very few others have this idea, and they lack suitable mentors and friends to exchange ideas with, resulting in a narrow perspective. On the other hand, they don't know the experiences of successful "developers," haven't witnessed the realities, and don't know what the correct approach to "development" is. This leads to being uninformed, using the wrong methods, and achieving poor results. At this point, you need to broaden your horizons, connect with more people in the community to learn and exchange ideas, clearly recognize your shortcomings, and then find the right specific measures.
Second, learn to empathize and always consider your wife's feelings. Since you are a couple, "developing" is a matter for both of you; if either party disagrees or is unhappy, it's not a good outcome. Since you want your wife to meet your expectations, don't go against them by simply and crudely forcing her to obey. Women aren't your subservient appendages. Besides, even if your wife agrees once out of fear of your power, it won't be willingly, and she won't enjoy it. And will you truly be happy then? Men who are cuckolded deeply love their wives and want them to experience different feelings and pleasure. If she doesn't experience pleasure, you'll feel even more guilty, spiraling deeper into a cycle of resentment and increasing impatience, ultimately damaging your marital relationship and destroying your family's happiness. Is that what you truly want? Remember this: a woman will only do things she doesn't want to do for the man she deeply loves. To make her happily accept your ideas, you need to gradually guide her in changing her lifestyle, letting her feel your love, helping her be a happy woman, and making yourself the man she expects. Make her feel that her sacrifices for you are willing, giving her a sense of accomplishment, value, and pride. Then, forget about marital intimacy or threesomes; you can do whatever you want. What you force to achieve is your own perceived happiness, not the happiness of both of you. True happiness is when both are happy!
Third, if you have a dream, you must bravely pursue it. This pursuit must be done with the right mindset, the right methods, and the right actions. "Training and development" may seem simple, and the principles are easy to understand, but it's actually a complex system involving many independent components and numerous sub-components. For each person, with different personalities, family backgrounds, and levels of experience, a single method or solution cannot be applied. It's crucial to emphasize the differences between each individual and their specific situation to achieve targeted results. Furthermore, and more importantly, it depends on the individual's emotional intelligence and execution ability to truly put it into practice. Your wife is your wife; she trusts you the most. You are the one who executes the plan. If you try to use someone else to directly contact your wife, and she agrees, once the attempt succeeds, her heart will no longer be with you. This is definitely not the outcome you want; it will only damage your family.

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