Ultimately, marriage is about wealth and children, not sex and love.

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Ultimately, marriage is about wealth and children, not necessarily sex and love.
Undoubtedly, many of us lose ourselves in marriage. Perhaps to please others, or to maintain the marriage, we often hide our true thoughts and personalities. Countless elders and parents will tell you that marriage requires patience and compromise. However, this prolonged inability to be yourself can, if triggered by external factors, make the marriage unsustainable. And often, extramarital affairs are such triggers. That person awakens your true inner needs. You suddenly realize you need higher-quality communication, to be yourself better, and then you will seriously reconsider your marriage. This isn't about good or bad, but simply a matter of personal choice. If you only believe that marriage should be about fidelity, forgetting the diverse needs of human nature and the complexity of marriage, you easily become rigid and simplistic in your thinking. We've become accustomed to the idea that sex, love, and marriage should be a "trinity." That is, if you love someone, you should marry them and spend your life only sleeping and having sex with that person. But in reality, humans cannot do that. This inhuman behavior has become a constraint and guiding principle in the hearts of many. This leads to various extramarital affairs and extramarital sex. When such feelings occur, is it still love? And what becomes of marriage? Ultimately, marriage is about wealth and children, not sex and love. Otherwise, there wouldn't be no sexual interest in marriage, yet passion can be ignited with a lover. This is human nature, not a matter of moral depravity. When you understand the essence of marriage, you'll understand why so many sexless and loveless marriages can last. Even marriages where you have no expectations can last longer. Because you don't crave love, the marriage naturally becomes stable; but once you crave love, and it's no longer there, the marriage becomes precarious. Many loveless and sexless marriages last for this reason: raising children and financial stability. When you understand these fundamental truths, you'll feel sympathy and compassion for those who seek emotional and sexual fulfillment outside of marriage, rather than simply judging right and wrong. Because human sexual and emotional needs last for decades, while marriage begins in one's twenties, and if you don't want it to end, it can continue until the death of your partner. This is the tragedy of many, yet it is the most real reality of human existence. I strive to keep my mind open, constantly growing my knowledge and problem-solving wisdom, rather than remaining stuck in a seemingly correct but stagnant way of thinking. If you only think that marriage should be about fidelity, forgetting the diverse needs of human nature and the complexity of marriage, it's easy to become rigid and simplistic in your thinking. When you have a clear understanding of the essence of sex, love, and marriage, and then truly face your own heart, you will discover true loneliness. Ultimately, everyone faces themselves, not a relationship. The sooner you understand this, the easier it is to achieve happiness, both in sex and love. Love is when you release your own energy, you can give energy to others, and others reciprocate with your energy; two people give to each other and become better—that is love. As for sex, even without love, encountering sex along the way is not bad; at least you won't have to constantly erode your desires. In this process of searching, you will understand many things. Sex or love is your own business; you can control your heart and body. You can love someone who's right for you, and of course, you can have sex, but ultimately, you're the one who finds pleasure. In the end, you'll truly be living the life you want, instead of wasting your energy on someone else. I'm not saying I'm against love or marriage. But when you recognize the inherent loneliness of humanity, and you're strong enough to manage that loneliness, you'll approach any relationship with a relatively detached attitude. I believe that once you're emotionally calm, you'll have a clearer understanding of what you need. Being emotionally agitated, out of control, or frantic will always cloud your judgment.

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