The difference between cuckoldry and being cuckolded.

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I often see people confuse cuckoldry with lewdness
, thinking that since both involve enjoying having sex with one's wife, they're the same
thing. However, from a sexual psychology perspective, they are completely different. I
think cuckoldry and lewdness should be treated separately. The former
's pleasure comes from sharing and boasting, while the latter's pleasure comes from humiliation and oppression
. This can be distinguished from the language used in conversations: cuckoldry
enthusiasts enjoy hearing positive comments about their wives, while lewdness enthusiasts
enjoy hearing humiliating remarks about their wives. The pleasure of cuckoldry is the active sharing of
the pleasure of one's wife being sexually assaulted, while the pleasure of lewdness is the passive enjoyment of one's wife being sexually assaulted
!
Those with cuckoldry tend to be discriminated against and marginalized in monogamous societies
because it can have an unpredictable
impact on and undermine the social foundation of the family. From a personal perspective, cuckoldry is
a form of sexual psychology, similar to BDSM, where sexual excitement
and pleasure can be derived from the act itself. From a marital perspective, with sufficient communication and understanding between the couple
, it can be a form of sexual experience and experimentation. However, if the wife cannot understand or even resists, it can severely damage
the trust and dependence between them . Men with cuckoldry tendencies almost always deeply love their wives, and most of their wives possess exceptional qualities, such as appearance, figure, and temperament. Cuckoldry often involves a spirit of sharing and boasting; in the eyes of cuckolders, having such a wife is the most worthwhile life experience to boast about and share. The source of their distress lies in the immense societal pressure their desires face, and this pressure not only applies to themselves but also affects their wives, whom they cherish. I am also a cuckold, and my wife understands my behavior and cooperates appropriately with my fetish. I have also communicated with other cuckolders, and their experiences are basically similar to what I summarized above. Everyone discusses their wives with an equal and sharing spirit, which can be described in four words: they know their wives like the back of their hand. Therefore, I believe that cuckoldry is not some dark psychological behavior. In a sense, it's just a spirit of sharing; the reason it's considered taboo is simply because mainstream society doesn't accept it, especially since it involves sexual behavior.

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