Original: How I Improved Our Sexual Life Through Virtual Threesomes with My Wife -- A Confession from a 33-Year-Old Single Man

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When I first registered on the dating site in 2008, I admit I viewed it with a erotic eye. I was mostly fantasizing about women other than my wife. Looking at the sexy and beautiful photos of the women on the site every day always got me excited. At that time, I could be described as driven by impulse. Without any prior communication, I directly discussed my thoughts with my wife. The result was predictable: she indirectly rejected me. Her reason was simple: she couldn't accept another man's body entering hers. Several attempts to communicate were made, but each time I swallowed my words. I understood my wife; we had been together for ten years, from our first love to our marriage. On the basis of our stable and happy relationship, accepting other men for sex and excitement would have been selfish of me. So, the matter was dropped. In 2008, because I wrote two articles, I added some single men and couples as friends. Ultimately, there was no further contact. At that time, I was clearly just a naive newbie in the dating dating scene.
For the past two years, I've visited this website daily; it's become a must-visit for me. Here, I've seen many beautiful wives selflessly showcasing their love, and even more so, a group of husbands supporting them. I've also read many articles written by other couples for others. These articles are filled with the husbands' love for their wives and their selfless, broad-mindedness. This is a sublimation of love. Couples engaging in "friendship" and "threesomes" is no longer just a physical exchange, but a deep fusion of marital affection. It's a kind of trust, a kind of selflessness, a kind of great love! This has greatly changed my understanding of couples engaging in "friendship." I've removed the erotic lens from this. It's an embodiment of love and trust!
My wife is a very simple, lovely woman. I always say her mental age is less than 15. Since 2008, I haven't mentioned "friendship" to her. Last year, we had a child, a lovely boy. My wife has also become a truly mature woman. Our married life remains the same. My wife and I have weathered ten years together, from love to tenderness, from passion to kinship. From a couple to a family of three, life went on day by day, as always. Daily life became a habit, a repetitive cycle. Especially after having a child, our lives and energy were divided around the child. I suddenly felt that if life continued like this, it would be as still as a lake without beautiful ripples.
For many years, my wife and I have always initiated our sex life. She rarely takes the initiative; that's just the kind of woman she is. I, on the other hand, am a man with a strong sexual desire. Before having a child, my wife mostly cooperated with my desires in this area, which sometimes made me feel a little tired. But after having a child, I found that my wife's desire had become stronger; she was particularly aroused. I felt she had matured, becoming more like a woman.
We changed positions, changed settings, and used some sex toys. Until recently, I started trying to stimulate our sex life with the topic of threesomes. I really wanted to know if my usually innocent wife felt anything about casual sex or threesomes. I love her, and I want her to enjoy the different feelings different men bring her. Because I am her first love, this is somewhat unfair to her. She often said, "I married you the first time I dated, and I've never experienced a different kind of romance with other men. Is this all I'm going to do for the rest of my life?" My wife loves watching romance dramas and is full of fantasies about different types of love.
During foreplay, I would whisper stimulating words in her ear to create a different, imagined feeling between us. Sometimes it felt like an affair, sometimes like flirting between married lovers. This excited her immensely. At that moment, I was no longer her husband, but another man besides her husband. Besides creating the atmosphere of different relationships, sometimes when I penetrated her, I would use a vibrator I bought to play with her, telling her that it was another man's penis penetrating her body. Then I would immediately follow up with my penis, alternating like this. My wife would just close her eyes and enjoy the novel sexual sensation, a kind of threesome feeling. My wife would also play along, saying flirtatious things to me. She'd even ask, "You've given me your 'marital duties,' how are you going to explain this to your wife when you get home?" She gradually became more relaxed and indulgent, which was exactly what I wanted. Our marital life, thanks to the threesome, rediscovered its long-lost passion. This harmonious and fulfilling relationship made us love each other even more, instead of making my wife feel disgusted or resistant.
As some couples in the community have said: whether it's couples engaging in casual sex or threesomes, it can only be attempted on the basis of selfless love. Without true love for one's wife and trust in one's husband, all casual sex and threesomes are meaningless.
I'm still happily single, quietly learning from other couples in the community. I believe there are many single husbands like me in this community. Even though I can't get my wife's acceptance, I still want to let her experience the pleasure and harmonious relationship that comes from threesomes or casual sex in different ways.
Finally, I wish our community continued success and that there are more and more friends in it!

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