Thoughts on dating in Shenzhen

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I registered on 69 Paradise a while ago, but haven't actually used it yet. There are many reasons for this. First, with the birth of our child, there are so many more things to do. As any parent knows, having another child means not only taking care of their basic needs like eating, drinking, toileting, and sleeping, but also dealing with grandparents and a nanny. This leaves little time for intimacy between my husband and me. Coupled with household chores and conflicts, plus a sense of déjà vu, we've lost the passion we once had. For a while, I spent a lot of time online, meeting many people online, and even having affairs and one-night stands. While I was briefly addicted to these new thrills, afterwards, besides emptiness, I didn't have any memorable experiences.
Looking back on our years together, from our first love to our gradual fading of passion, like most couples, we've experienced a kind of monotonous boredom. Then, by chance, I came across a dating website for couples, and my wife and I started discussing it, wanting to try something different! My reasons for accepting marital infidelity are twofold. First, I've had experiences with other women. While traditional views consider marital infidelity immoral, I believe sex and love can be separated at certain times. Occasional physical infidelity isn't terrible. After decades of marriage, a husband can't treat his wife's body as his private property forever, can he? After sleeping with other women, I genuinely hope my wife can also enjoy other men and experience different kinds of sex. Second, I've also had 3P and 4P experiences while out and about, and the feeling and excitement are completely different from regular sex. Perhaps I have a so-called "cuckoldry" complex; seeing my wife writhing and moaning under another man is a kind of enjoyment and stimulation!
After several conversations with my wife, she gradually accepted my views. During one intimate encounter, at the height of her orgasm, she revealed that several years ago, she had retaliated against me by sleeping with someone she met online because I had been looking for a lover online! Hearing her story, I felt a jolt of emotions, a mix of jealousy and a touch of awe: after so many years of marriage, she seemed so calculating, always pretending nothing was wrong! But mostly, I felt relieved. After all, if we could be so honest about these things, it meant there was nothing we couldn't communicate about. I remembered how we used to argue over trivial things, even ignoring each other and sulking for a while, which created a rift and made our relationship feel increasingly distant. We barely talked about anything except our son. Now I finally understand that couples should be more tolerant. Only through mutual understanding and tolerance can problems be solved and a harmonious relationship achieved! After she told me about it, I relentlessly pressed her for details: how she entered the room, how she undressed, what foreplay and positions we used… While asking, I thrust into her forcefully, feeling an unprecedented surge of passion, reaching the peak of lovemaking together!
We are a loving couple. The husband is 36, 174cm tall, 71kg, handsome and well-groomed, and works in a government department. The wife is 32, 159cm tall, 50kg, beautiful and sexy, and works in a hospital. Couples in Shenzhen or those who can come to Shenzhen, if you find our article relatable, please feel free to contact us!

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