To live peacefully with one's wife's lover

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I only found out my wife had a lover two years later.
Spending too much time online and watching too many pornographic films started having strange thoughts during sex with my wife. I would ask her things like, "Would you like to experience what it's like to have sex with another man?" or "Would you like to find another man to have sex with?" She always refused.
After asking these questions repeatedly, one time during sex, when I brought them up again, she suddenly said she already had another man. I don't know if I was excited or agitated, but my movements quickened, and I kept pressing her for details: who was this man? How did they meet? How long had it been going on? My wife stopped talking, saying, "I was just kidding, you took it seriously."
But I didn't believe she was lying; otherwise, she wouldn't have said that. Persistence paid off. In the following days, I kept pressing her, and finally, she admitted that she had been seeing a man for two years and had maintained the relationship ever since.
According to her, her lover was a card-playing friend she often played with; their relationship started with flirting at the card table and gradually developed into something more intimate.
After I promised not to blame my wife, she told me in detail about their affair—their bed, our bed, and even outdoors in the summer. She kept insisting I shouldn't blame her, and I reiterated that I wouldn't.
I was baffled; my wife had been having an affair for over two years, and I hadn't noticed at all. My wife said, "I was too careless. If I had been more observant, I would have found out long ago."
It turned out her lover had a habit of shaving her pubic hair with an electric razor before sex. The vibrations would quickly bring her to orgasm.
Except during her period, my wife had never refused me when I wanted sex. Later, I noticed she sometimes refused, which I didn't understand at the time. Now, I realize it was because her lover had shaved her pubic hair, and she was afraid of being discovered during sex, so she refused me. It was only when my wife told me this that I understood.
After my wife confronted me, I felt relieved. Next, I suggested meeting her lover. At first, my wife absolutely refused. After my persistent efforts, she confessed to her lover that she knew about their affair and expressed her desire to meet him. Initially, her lover also refused, but my wife worked on him until she finally agreed. This process took about six months.
We arranged a time, and her lover prepared food and drinks at his house. I accompanied my wife to the meeting on time. It was our first meeting, and we both felt somewhat awkward and restrained. My wife kept pouring drinks and serving food to me and her lover. My wife's lover and I chatted casually for about two hours, but it became quite boring, so my wife and I said goodbye and went home. On
the way home, my wife started complaining: "I told you not to meet, but you insisted. And now it's so awkward." I told her it was normal for a first meeting, and that things would get better as they got to know each other.
The second time I met my wife's lover, I went alone to his house. I felt it was inappropriate to say certain things in front of my wife. This time the communication went relatively well; we exchanged views on my wife's performance in bed, which confirmed some of her previous statements.
After this openness, my wife no longer hid her dates with her lover from me. When I suggested sex after they returned home, she no longer worried about being discovered by her lover shaving her pubic hair and being refused.
Currently, the relationship between my wife, her lover, and me is relatively harmonious, although I've always wanted to experience a threesome, but it hasn't happened yet. To achieve this goal, I've repeatedly tried to go to her house with my wife for drinks and conversation, but without much success. One time, we were drinking and chatting at her house again. When it was time to leave, her lover might have pulled my wife slightly at the door. After I came out, my wife didn't follow. A while later, she called me and told me to go home first, and she would come back later. I immediately understood what was going on and asked, "Can I go home too?" On the phone, I overheard my wife consulting her lover, and finally decided to let me go home first.
I went home alone, lay on the bed, and imagined my wife writhing and moaning beneath her lover, feeling incredibly excited and stimulated. About an hour later, my wife returned, her face flushed. I eagerly pulled her into bed, asking about the details as we made love. That night, my wife experienced multiple orgasms, and I was as virile as ever.
During this time, I overheard my wife and her lover's rendezvous by phone, and her lover also overheard us making love. For almost ten years, my wife and her lover have maintained this peaceful relationship, and the three of us have never ended up together.

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