Let's start by not changing partners during our first time.

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I stumbled upon this website about a year and a half ago, but I've only been actively using it for a little over ten days. Recently, I've chatted with some people, and some of them seem too direct. They immediately ask for pictures, talk about other people's wives, or request stories about sex to satisfy their own fantasies. Please, we're here to make friends, not to listen to free romance novels. If you want to read those, you can find tons online; you'll never finish reading them in your lifetime. Some of the husbands seem to be just doing the swapping for the sake of swapping, practically begging to give their wives away. Of course, there might also be single men pretending to be couples or fake couples. However, there are a few couples that I've found genuinely sincere, and they share many of my thoughts. I hope these friendships can develop normally, even if we don't achieve our desired outcome, we can still make true friends.
Couples willing to come out and make friends are generally very loving. Because men are driven by their lower instincts, it's easy for them to cheat. And if a woman doesn't love her husband anymore, she wouldn't agree to such a selfish request. So I think women are truly great; they can sacrifice everything for the person they love. Our purpose in making friends, besides rekindling past passion, was primarily to seek emotional connection.
Regarding the swapping, although I fantasized about it at first, I couldn't accept it immediately. After all, my wife and I are very loving, and she's truly beautiful, so I wouldn't easily give myself to someone else. However, later I thought it wasn't a big deal, because I love more than just her body. Before marriage, I never considered that she was a virgin, and I didn't have much of a virginity complex. Loving someone is loving someone; there are no excuses or reasons. With a lingering curiosity, I tried mentioning it to my wife during intimacy. At first, she was very averse and immediately refused, which dampened my spirits. Actually, although I was a little disappointed when she refused, I was quite happy. Sometimes, hoping she would agree wasn't necessarily about being prepared for swapping; it was just that saying it and hoping she would agree during the act made it more exciting. Later, to accommodate me, she slowly began to agree, but she said it had to be after thorough communication and understanding, and the first time could only be intercourse without swapping.
I think if it's your first time, it's best to start with non-swapping. This satisfies your curiosity and provides visual impact without putting too much pressure or worry on either party. No one can be sure they won't regret it after swapping, and regret can seriously affect your future life. Non-swapping allows you to get to know your partner more comprehensively and understand what you're doing, so you can think carefully about whether it's what you truly want and whether it can be taken further. If you don't feel uncomfortable after swapping, or if you feel you could have something more exciting, then swapping is fine. Before my wife agreed, I was really hoping she would. After she finally agreed, although I was very excited, the thought of her having a relationship with another man made me feel uneasy and reluctant. After all, we've had so many years of relationship, and we love each other deeply. This kind of social interaction has many hidden risks, so it's best to be selective and not settle for less.
Couples swapping is like dating, but it's much more difficult because it involves four people, and everyone needs to have mutual attraction before further interaction. However, it also has its advantages. Since everyone has been through similar experiences, we can talk about anything, which promotes better communication and understanding. We only hope to make 1-2 couples as friends, because after establishing a relationship, we can have more energy to maintain it. Also, after the initial contact, everyone understands and trusts each other better.
Special note: We don't plan any activities in the near future. I'll reiterate the reasons: firstly, my wife just gave birth and is not available; secondly, although my wife has agreed, I still hope we can both be fully mentally prepared before participating. Therefore, we will not proactively ask for photos or videos during the exchange. If we must exchange photos, we prefer to exchange ID photos first rather than casual photos, as this is more authentic and ensures the safety of both parties. We hope to make further plans after getting to know each other and building trust; we prefer things to develop naturally.
That's all for now. Finally, I hope everyone can prioritize when participating. I believe true couples are mature and cautious. Because everything we do must be responsible to the people we love and who love us, and even more so to both families.
We are not currently considering single men, and fake couples should also refrain from contacting us to avoid wasting everyone's time.
Please do not contact us if you want to change your photos but do not have an ID photo (because we cannot see your sincerity).

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