A single man's inner monologue

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Summer arrives earlier in the South than in the North, and the air is thick with a restless atmosphere. When I first came to Guangdong, a friend told me I had to adapt to the sweltering heat. I thought Jinan was also known as one of the "furnaces" of Guangdong, so how different could it be? But as soon as May arrived, I gradually felt the allure of the sauna-like weather: I just wanted to stay in an air-conditioned room all the time.
This city has gone from unfamiliar to gradually familiar; I'm slowly integrating into every blade of grass and every tree. From my office window, I can see most of Jiangmen, and I've even forgotten that I was a complete stranger to this city just a few months ago. Putting aside my work, I'm also slowly forcing myself to calm down, moving away from anxiety and unease. After all, as a 30-year-old man, I need to learn to experience things, including the anxiety of being single, the loneliness of my soul, and the repression of my sex life.
In recent years, I've spent a lot of time examining my inner sexual desires, a corner I haven't been able to let go of for a long time. Compared to my friends, I'm the kind of man with a strong sex drive, having a virtuous and beautiful wife yet still unable to resist gazing at other men's sexual encounters—I think this is a common thought among most men. At this age, I've long passed the stage of being sexually indiscriminate. I've gradually realized that most of us crave the vibrant stimulation of passionate encounters and other exciting experiences in our hectic lives primarily out of psychological desire. Once this desire is acted upon, ejaculation brings a sense of emptiness, and a more rational re-evaluation of our actions. I also believe many couples hesitate and agonize for a long time before taking action, only to feel a lingering pain after ejaculation when the passion fades. This is especially frustrating when the partner doesn't meet expectations. The line between fantasy and reality often carries a dark irony, piercing our hearts. Of course, this lingering pain is quickly replaced by new desires, and once the desire reaches a certain point, we continue the journey without hesitation. It's hard to say whether we lose ourselves or gain clarity in this cycle. A Buddhist saying goes: life is suffering, pleasure is fleeting, and most of the time, most people are gradually wasted in the mundane affairs of the world. From this perspective, following our hearts and bringing momentary pleasure to life without affecting others is ultimately not wrong. Finding someone we like and who is suitable is the best approach.
To add to my previous post, let me share some recent experiences and thoughts on dating between couples:
1. Whether you're a couple or a single man, there's no need to belittle yourself. Mutual respect is the prerequisite for any relationship. We don't need to compromise and always find the right person before taking action.
2. Single men shouldn't have a strong voyeuristic desire. In relationships with couples, the sole purpose is to achieve pleasure together. There's no need to pry into their private lives. Whether it's about sexual desire or caring for your wife, it's not directly related to you. It's a matter of respect and a reflection of character. Knowing when to advance and retreat is an essential mindset for an excellent single man.
3. Good technique is necessary. Otherwise, it's difficult to meet the expectations of couples. Try to control the timing of the first ejaculation before your wife is satisfied. Coordinate well with your husband throughout the process.
Youth is fleeting; may all couples on this site be happy and joyful.

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