Actually, finding a good sex partner is no easier than finding a husband.

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First, the fuck buddy has to be clean. Yeah, I've said it before: a good fuck buddy can't have oily hair, can't wear underwear with holes, and if he has a beard, it can't smell. He can't have cavities, bad breath, armpit odor, onychomycosis, athlete's foot, etc. He should be at least 1.76 meters tall and can't have a big belly. Most importantly, he can't easily sleep with women. There are so many diseases these days, and promiscuous men are dangerous; some viruses don't show up in men. But the phrase "clean fuck buddy" sounds ridiculous. If he doesn't easily sleep with others, why would he sleep with you? He needs a clean private life, to sleep with you, and to sleep with you without feelings—this is a huge paradox to fight from the start, and it feels like it all depends on luck.
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, the fuck buddy can't be poor. Women who decide to find a fuck buddy don't intend to spend his money, but they also don't want to spend much on him. A poor man will generally dress shabbily, eat at buffets until he's about to throw up, and be stingy when booking a hotel room, comparing prices on several group-buying websites – it really affects his libido. Moreover, poverty breeds ignorance. While a young girl's ignorance might be endearing, a man's ignorance is simply unappealing.

For example, when trying to ease the awkwardness before bed, he might suddenly say, "Wow, look, these curtains are so high-end, they can be remote-controlled!" and open and close them twice. If you're applying something to your face and he sees Japanese writing, he'll immediately jump up and say, "How can you use Japanese products? Every Japanese person should die! And you're giving them money!" He might spend a few hundred dollars on a doctor's visit and assume all doctors are greedy and only know how to rip people off… He always has a knack for killing the conversation. Even if two people only have sex and don't talk about money or feelings, they can't remain completely silent. If the partner is short on cash, lacks worldly experience, and suffers from paranoia, sex will become very disheartening. We all know that emptiness is easily felt after an orgasm. When your orgasm is brought on by a man you despise, this emptiness is mixed with negative emotions such as self-blame, regret, confusion, and discouragement. This can lead you to compensate with even more intense sex in the next encounter, quickly turning you into a promiscuous woman. I strongly discourage women from promiscuity; you should be able to see this from the first point.
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, there should be no cooperation with your casual sex partner, except for physical intimacy. Otherwise, the ensuing conflict will be chilling. Your purpose in having casual sex partners is to have good skin and a good mood, not to create unnecessary trouble.

Fourth, your casual sex partner must have the quality of being able to handle things independently if problems arise. Because there is no emotional connection between casual sex partners, men usually sacrifice the least valuable one when forced to make a choice. Therefore, the responsibility of your casual sex partner is very important; you should carefully investigate beforehand. He should genuinely respect you and respect sex. This kind of high-quality, scarce resource is already rare; I wonder if there are any left in the casual sex partner community.

Fifth, your casual sex partner must stay away from your social circle so that there are no lingering issues after a breakup. Everyone understands. A casual sex partner is temporary, like a vibrator that whispers sweet nothings. Love, or a genuine relationship, is what lasts. If you only have casual sex with someone for about six months during your single period, and then you get a boyfriend, imagine seeing him laughing and chatting with his casual sex partner at work. Wouldn't you feel uneasy? Wouldn't you feel like his laughter had ulterior motives? Wouldn't you feel disgusted? It's different if you're with someone outside that circle. After the breakup, there's no one constantly reminding you of that unpleasant past.
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Besides, you need to be aware of whether your casual sex partner has heart disease, high blood pressure, or cardiovascular problems. Nobody wants to die suddenly during orgasm, but similar news reports about it every year. A casual sex partner must be safe in every way: they won't lie to you, won't take nude photos of you, won't blackmail or extort you, won't cause you any trouble in any way, won't try to develop a deeper relationship with you, and must be physically and mentally healthy, have a spirit of dedication, and a grateful heart. Furthermore, your casual sex partner must reach a consensus with you in bed—note, this consensus must be reached without feelings or love.

This requires one person to have a good personality, be particularly willing to compromise, or be naturally compatible in terms of personality. It can't be that you prefer condoms while he prefers medicated films, you prefer anal sex while he prefers intimacy, one person can have pleasure in three minutes while the other hasn't found the feeling even after thirty minutes… Sex is a very subtle thing; it can't be categorized by size, feel, or intensity. It's elusive and unpredictable. With one person, a little arousal might bring an orgasm, while with another, you might be sweating profusely but still not find the feeling. So think about it, finding such a person in this vast world is truly a rare thing. (The above is a repost.) I've had many fellow enthusiasts from the same online community add me these past few days, but few are truly sincere. After a few words, they immediately want to contact their wives. My wife has had sexual experience, but she's not promiscuous. She's looking for someone genuinely good to her. I hope everyone understands. If you can seduce my wife alone and consider yourself patient and loving, please add me. I hope everyone can respect each other. Thank you, fellow netizens.

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